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#30 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Thu Jan 11, 2007 3:06 am
Subject: Jane Savoie featured guest on the Clicker Trainer's conference Call
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Jane Savoie is one of the most recognized names in dressage will be our guest on the next clicker trainer's conference call.

Monday Jan 22 7:00 ET

Jane's accomplishments are impressive. She has been a member of the United States Equestrian Team and has competed for the US in Canada, Holland, Belgium, France and Germany. She was the reserve rider for the Bronze medal winning Olympic dressage team in Barcelona, Spain. She has been long-listed by the USET with several horses and has won nine Horse of the Year awards and three National Freestyle Championships.

Now you have your chance to frame the interview questions we will ask. Jane is about to release a new CD program on "That Winning Mindset"

So, if you have something you'd like to ask, now is the time. Send it to me off list and we'll be sure to include it if we can in the interview.

Dolores

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#29 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Mon Jan 1, 2007 1:54 pm
Subject: Zen Horsemanship - Nov/Dec 2006
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  Zen Horsemanship

No.14 / November/December  2006

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The holidays are just about ended, the days are on the upswing in length now. Even though the winter in NY has been the warmest in 80 years the ground is frozen and winter is moving in. The horses and I arrived at our winter home, warmer weather and the Central Time of Arkansas. Looking forward to having friends visit and play with horses this winter.

 

September, October and November and now December have been so wonderfully full of meeting new friends and old that there is barely time to sit at the computer to write. Writing is one of the ways to keep in touch with the friends who are too far away to see as often as we like. My "boys" and I are in Arkansas now soaking up the wonderfully warm weather even for Arkansas. It's been 70 in the days and maybe as low as 50 at night. It makes the storms of the west and the potential snow up north seems very far away.

All year as I thought about Arkansas in the winter I was focused on taking all 4 boys with me. Little Cherry at 24 is too old to travel I think and she enjoys home and has her little goat for company. She never was a happy traveler unlike these boys who love to go. The last time I was in Arkansas, I left Cadbury at home to keep her company and had to keep Lance separated from the other 2. Lance lived with Cadbury and Cherry when Cadbury was little and she was pregnant. All was well then. I had the desire that Lance be able to once again be part of the herd. Some of you know that a couple of times this year he has wanted to chase the other boys and the biggest problem was that he bit and the others were very fearful and ran.

What a problem to solve. I'm happy to report that we've only been here a week and all 4 are living peacefully together. Many thanks to Susan Fitzpatrick of England who noted when she saw a dogfight that in England "That dog would wear a muzzle", Tam who was sure he could learn to get along, Barbara Ray who talked about resources and how far is far enough when chasing another horse away. And, for Linda Kahanov who, although I was never able to contact, has or had a program of re-introducing stallions to the herd environment. So, I knew it was possible. In an other article, I'll report the exact steps I took. But, this month's article will tell you about how I got to the "plan"

Have a wonderful New Year full of the love and peace of watching your horses enjoy life and enjoying that life for yourself full of all the gifts that the Season is famous for.

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November/December Book Review

A Year at the Races
Jame Smiley


In this book Jane Smiley author of Horse Heaven introduces us to her horses. Many of the horses she has had over the years have displayed unique desires and quirks. Jane does a wonderful job of creating the scene and then taking us on travels the the horses and her family. In many ways this book is like the Tao of Equus. But, its much more readable. A friendly story full of Animal Communication, unusual cross referencing to mind and relationship works too. "A General Theory of Love" by Dr. Thomas Lewis, et. al., Jared Diamond's "Guns, Germs, and Steel," and Stephen Budiansky's "The Covenant of the Wild: Why Animals Chose Domestication." She quotes freely from her sources while developing her own unique philosophy of why horses tolerate, and even like humans.

"A love story, at least a convincing one, requires three elements: the lover, the beloved, and the adventures they have together," Smiley begins. "If the lover isn't ardent, then the story isn't a love story. If the beloved isn't appealing, then the lover just seems idiosyncratic or even crazy; and if they have no adventures, then their love is too easy, and they have no way of learning anything important about themselves and one another."

A Year at the Races is about horses, but it's also a fascinating personal exploration by a gifted writer seeking answers to the nature of character and motive. It's a study of a complex and romantic species, and a study of a craft. It is philosophical, mystical at times, and is an in-depth look at the psychology of horses and humans together.

If you enjoy our reviews visit http://www.zenguidance.com/ to purchase this book in 2007. By doing so, you help keep this newsletter coming to you.

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The Law Of Attraction and Clicker Training the Perfect Combo
 


Recently there has been a lot of talk about the Law Of Attraction So, while play with the endless possibilities of expanding your world, open your self to attracting and creating beautifully behaved horses who understand exactly what's being asked of them and trip over themselves with happiness to give to you!

The Law Of Attraction states that like energy attracts like energy. Clarity of thought creates clearly. And, clarity of thought transmits perfectly. Using the same tools you are exercising to manifest your monetary, business or relationship desires you can also manifest good behavior and communication with your horses!

Meditation, visualization, knowing what you want and asking for it are all necessary parts of training animals. Yes, there are verbal and physical cues we use, and yes, repetition and consistency are absolutely necessary to create the muscle memory that makes a movement or a behavior possible. We also need to be willing to train ourselves to provide consistency in our communication with a clear "yes" signal.

But it all begins with a focused thought as the first manifestation of a desire.

The observation of animals show us that they can live as pure creatures without having to balance ego and thought. While who they are can change with positive teaching on our part, they spend 100% of the time, BE-ing exactly who they are at that moment.

We communicate with our animals constantly, whether we are aware of it or not. They are paying attention to our moods, our emotions, our body language, our chemical communication (our body odors), and our thoughts! Horses are so often our personal mirror, mirror on the wall telling you who you really are. Think of your horse a part of the same same Universe that follows the Laws Of Attraction, the same Universe
that answers when you ask for more!

It stands to reason, then, that your thoughts, which is actually energy that very clearly affects your environment, will have a profound effect on your horses. Your positive thoughts attract the attention of animals.

Your negative thoughts repel and cause disharmony, illness or dis-ease. Our horses can provide us with amazing, immediate feedback about the clarity of our thoughts and emotions!

People who are talented horse trainers and communicators have learned how to listen and focus their thoughts and sensory experiences at a frequency that is easily recognized. In short, these people "tune in" to the horses. They "tune in" to the results they'd like to see. And, at the same time they are listening to  the unspoken words that they the horses offer to tell them how and what they are feeling at the most subtle
level. Watch with your eyes and listen with your heart open.

Before you even take one step out of the house to where your horses are, you need to have a clear idea of what you want them to do, how you want them to see you and you will need to practice what it will feel like when you actually get it. Whether your goals are in competition or you want a harmonious relationship, the approach is exactly the same. As a positive or clicker trainer, have you mind full of the things that the horse will offer that will please you and bring a smile to your face.

Many of us have a hard time getting the behaviors we ask for because we are asking outwardly for what we want while our mind is still in the busy-ness of the day or in frustration with visions of the past, remembering all of the times things didn't go as planned.

Be clear and consistent with yourself before you ask your horse to comply! Release the past frustrations and focus on how wonderful it feels to have an emotionally controlled horse who will offer you that quick, quiet head down to calm himself and you or the hundreds of things that you have taught him that he knows that when offered you will be pleased. And there is a high likelihood that he will be rewarded.

To listen to the Teleconference call on the Law of Attraction for Equestrians, drop me and email at Dolores@... 

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Coming next on the Conference call is:

Jane Savoie author of That Winning Feeling!: Program Your Mind for Peak Performance

Monday, January 22, 2007

To register go to: www.zenhorsemanship.com/conferencecall.html

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 And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs

Saddle Fitting by Dave 518 461 3460

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This is a great time to hire a coach to get support in clarifying and making your dreams come true. Our Energy Mirroring and Coaching will help you to create a life free from fear and worry. In this process you will be supported while overcoming all blocks and beliefs that no longer serve you. You can wake up every morning with a smile and the energy to create your day.  http://www.insuresuccess4u.com/

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#28 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Mon Dec 25, 2006 3:41 pm
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#27 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Dec 5, 2006 5:47 pm
Subject: More on the Law of Attraction for Equestrians
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Now that you are beginning to hear more and more about the Law of Attraction be on the look out
for what will seem like strange or miraculous coincidences. To learn more about the Law of Attraction
and the power of words and thought to create and heal your reality visit our bookstore at:
or
 
Dolores Arste
Life and Wellness Coach
Empowering you to get more of what you want in your life.
518 882 6485
 
Financial Freedom on $1 a Day
Health .... Wealth ..... Horses 
Who could ask for anything more!

 

#26 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Dec 5, 2006 5:34 pm
Subject: Law of Attraction for Equestrians
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For those that missed the live call, let me just say that it was one of the most exciting and satisfying 75 minutes I've spent . It is well worth your time and effort to listen to the replay line. The Free Replay Line: (218) 936-1005 Conference ID: 98767#
 
As you may know, I've been using the Law of Attraction in my coaching practice for some time now with amazing results. And, reports are already coming in from folks who put the Law of Attraction to work right after the call and are seeing immediate results. This truly will Insure Your Success! Thanks to everyone who has reported in. Keep those notes coming in. Let us know how its working for you. So cool!
 
The replay line will be available until its recorded over. C.J. has kindly offered some specials to listeners to this call. Details of those offers can be found at:
http://www.equineteleseminar.net/LOA.htm (please note the L O A must be capitalized)
and at:
 
We know you will enjoy this very timely information.
 
Dolores Arste
Life and Wellness Coach
Empowering you to get more of what you want in your life.
518 882 6485
 
Financial Freedom on $1 a Day
Health .... Wealth ..... Horses 
Who could ask for anything more!

 

#25 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Thu Nov 30, 2006 6:59 am
Subject: Zen Horsemanship - The Secret
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You may have seen the makers of "The Secret- Beyond Positive Thinking" part 1 and part 2 recently on Larry King. If you didn't see the show
and you want to know what its all about, I have a full transcript of both shows. Just drop me a line, and I'll be happy to share it with you.
 
Please feel free to share this with anyone you'd like to invite.
 
In honor of "The Secret" we offer:
 
C.J. Gilbert- Holistic Animal Practitioner and Creator of "Law of Attraction" for Equestrians.
 
C.J. has over 40 years experience with horses. She has extensive
training in various Energy-based healing modalities, worked on a Equine
Research farm, and is a Animal Communicator. C.J. lives on a farm in rural
Wisconsin with her husband Steve a certified Farrier, 2 sons Levi and Wyatt 
along with her greatest teachers. Mares - Hazy Hostess and La`Undena.
 
During a Dressage schooling show disaster struck and CJ was about to call
is quits. And, then something changed. She won the next class!
 
CJ was once a timid rider after many falls and bruises she knew there had to
be another way. The results were nothing short of Miraculous!
 
CJ will share with is her secret to Winning. And how she and you can
participate fully in your horse's health - wellbeing, to riding with Confidence and having fun
with your horse!
 
The call is free and will be recorded.
 
Monday  December 4th 7:00 PM Eastern, 6:00 PM Central, 5:00 PM Mountain, 4:00 PM Pacific
Dolores Arste
Life and Wellness Coach
Empowering you to get more of what you want in your life.
518 882 6485
 
Financial Freedom on $1 a Day
Health .... Wealth ..... Horses 
Who could ask for anything more!

#24 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Thu Oct 19, 2006 1:28 pm
Subject: Zen Horsemanship - October 2006
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Zen Clicker Horsemanship

No.13 /October 2006                  Subscribe

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Welcome back to the Zen Horsemanship Newsletter after a quick hiatus in September. We were pleased to host Suzan Fitzpatrick from the UK and Julie Conway from California for an Alexandra Kurland Clinic held at White Birch Farm. Susan stayed on for a week and we had a lot of fun and deep discussions along with hours in the saddle.

The Ribbon Cutting ceremony at the new indoor arena for Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP was a huge success. The horses Julie's Allie, Sandy's Nikita and My own lovely Cadbury were stellar. They seemed to know how important it was to be amongst all of the donors to the program that may or may not have been horse people. With each step they seemed to be saying "Whisper". We got to meet congressmen, radio personalities and all sorts of folks. This program is so important for the kids and adults alike.

And, for those folks in the horse world who are working to create a business in conjunction with their passion of horses the Learning Spa was THE place to be. Each day I find more and more people that have stopped the daily grind and stepped out to live their passion. The speakers were terrific and we've already begun to incorporate some of the information into our programs.

We have released our Insure Success Home Study Course which you can find at www.insuresuccess4u.com And, the biggest news of all is that we have a new book. Look for details in December.

 Zen Horsemanship Schedule

 We'll be in Arkansas this year from December to March - Look for us in Texas area soon - Plans are going forward for the new Covered Round Pen by Farmtek for bad weather days. Check it out at:

http://tinyurl.com/83gy6

 

October Book Reviews

A Morning Cup of Tai Chi by John A. Bright-fey

If you like it www.zenguidance.com to purchase this book. By doing so, you help keep this newsletter coming to you.

I'm an equestrian and horse trainer. It has always been my goal to de-mystify everything. Everything can be broken down into the babies steps so that anyone can do it.

Like a dog with a bone, I've searched and researched lots of topics so that the mystery or the magic can be accomplished. It often just takes the trust to take that first step. So, when I discovered Tai Chi, there I was caught in the drama of the mystery. It was probably of my own doing that I met and liked James Shaw (Tai Chi for the Equestrian). But, the guy came off more like one of my old gym coaches; "its got to hurt", its got to be hard".

Well, I don't DO pain. And, while I bought into my simply not being athletic enough as a child, I've long ago let that go. I can do anything I want to do. Sometimes it takes the universe a little time to respond. All the while, I kept Tai Chi in my little brain and just did Yoga. Yoga made sense to me. Tai Chi, push hands, whatever did not.

Then I found this little book. Ah Ha! I knew it. Anyone can do it. In this little book, we simply paint by numbers and Voila we are doing Tai Chi. REAL Tai Chi. I started doing the work and I could feel the difference the first day and so could my horses. I heartily recommend this little book for you. It will make a difference but like everything you need to trust the process. It won't feel like much. But, in a very short time, you will begin to notice the changes.

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What Horses Reveal
by Klaus Ferdinand Hempfling

When I first heard about this book I was pretty certain that I would not be buying it. I'm not fond of labels and I believe that labels can keep us in a stuck mindset. So, when this book arrived in my mailbox, I picked it up with no small amount of trepidation.

I was pleasantly surprised by the content. While it is clear that Klaus deals with a lot of troubled horses and owners that are over faced, I found his observations to really get one to thinking about how we approach the horse. How important it is to the horse for us to be consistent and as polite as we wish him to be.

It would be nice if there were a few pictures of someone other than Klaus dong the "right" thing. But, no matter, the learning material is there. I was pleased to find my horses in the descriptive part; Lance - The Prince, Harley - The Skeptic, Cadbury - The Sergeant and Harvey - The Keeper of the Fire. Reading this book and enjoying the beautiful pictures will increase your awareness of subtleties body language in both you and the horse. It may perhaps even help you to select a horse that matches your personality. 

Take the limitations of each horse that Klaus puts out with a grain of salt and proceed your own way with clicker training while being sensitive to the horse within and you will take a good deal of enjoyment from this book.

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 Click for Focus
by Dolores Arste

 Creating an atmosphere that's calm helps horses and humans stay focused. Try this simple focusing exercise as a first step. Put a good treat in your closed hand (e.g. a 1 hay stretcher pellet) and put your fist near your horse’s nose. When the horse sniffs your hand, click and open your hand to deliver the treat. Repeat twice, then put your empty fist near the horse; click for touching, and give the treat from your other hand. Move the empty hand to another spot. Repeat. Don't click for licking or mouthing, just for a gentle touch of your empty hand. In just a few minutes, without actually handling the horse, you can turn your hand into a target, something the horse can safely touch and follow. Now wad up a lead rope in the empty hand. Repeat. In no time, you can clip on the lead and the horse will follow the closed hand on his lead rope. This helps the horse to calm down, focus on people, and try to earn more clicks.

 Horse training is a great test of one's ability to stay present. When I first learned Clicker training I would tend to over think everything. Is my rope the right length? What do I do if the horse does….. My back hurts. How will I get the horse to…..I think my left leg stirrup is too long. Ok, now relax the right arm. No, that's too relaxed. Come on Dolores, pay attention. Don’t look down. Yup. I've got a long way to go. Oh shoot, here comes the corner, what do I do here. Feel the hips, what do they feel like? What do you mean you can’t feel the hips?

These conversations flowed through my head every time I was working with the horses. No wonder they were confused. I was confused. That's nearly 100 long, annoying conversations over the course of an hour’s ride.

Now when I ride I decide to avoid trying so hard. I silenced the conversation. When I get to the horse, I  simply align my body (my compass, my shape, my tag points), and I then close my eyes and totally relax for about 5 seconds. I do not worry about the weather or the bugs I just take deep breaths. I open my eyes and begin without really thinking about what I am doing. I'm looking for the feel of it all. The back under my seat swiveling into the turns. The feather like lightness front to back. The strength and purposeful movement of the horse.

These days that I can accomplish this are my very best days riding or on the ground. My horse feels like butter. I feel strong, straight and completely relaxed.

When you try too hard, you create stress. Imagine the last time you were driving down the highway in the middle of winter. The road seems clear. You are relaxed. Then, without warning, you hit a patch of ice. You immediately tense up to try and control the car. You grab the steering wheel with both hands, white knuckled. Unfortunately, in doing this, you inadvertently become a worse driver. Your muscles tighten up. If your car crashes, this rigidity is more likely to cause your body harm, as you are not resilient.

When you find yourself trying too hard at any endeavor, relax. Take a deep breath. Close your eyes if necessary (unless you are driving, of course). And stop over analyzing everything. Although it is not always easy, the more you can be present and in the flow, the better your performance, whether it is at work, on the golf course, in times of crisis and especially with the horse.

When we start talking about parallel shoulders and hips, or seat bones on a different axis, or shoulder rotations it was way too complicated for me to put into practice. What helps me is this. Keep it simple. Look for what one thing feels like. Stay with that feeling. Click it if it feels good. There are no rules. Click when you like it. Click to teach. Click to say thank you. Add a marker that soothes that does not get treated - use it. If you keep that mantra in your head all the time, you won't go wrong.

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 And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs - Saddle Fitting by Dave

                                                                    518 461 3460

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Clicking for Good Vibrations
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Visit
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What's New

Well we're running about 2 weeks late on the newsletter. At least its the right month. We haven't missed an month since we got started. I'm really proud of that.   We're excited to welcome two out of town guests to the upcoming Alexandra Kurland Clinic to be held at White Birch Farm. Check the schedule for details. Our Braken Horse and Human B&B is now officially open with Massage for you and your horses (scheduled by appointment) and Energy work, teaching and just plain hanging out with horses or riding. A perfect vacation. Drop a note and we'll send you more information. Don't forget to bring the spouse there's more than enough for them to do too.

We presented Energy Mirroring and Clicker Training to a group of veterinarians at the Holistic Health Fair in Broadalbin, NY. Leadership, Focus with the aid of Horses and the Power of saying "yes" to a group of young horse ladies at a Camp in Galway. It is just amazing what our horses will show us if we will only listen. One really cute moment occurred at the Health Fair. While presenting Energy Mirroring, one of the more powerful woman doctors was obviously projecting a lot of energy unbeknownst to her. We adjusted that. Then, that same powerful woman was stopped dead in her tracks when trying to walk a line in the ring that intersected where Cadbury stood grazing. Then, she walked around him. She was amazed that Cadbury moved quietly out of the line of travel as soon as I took 3 steps in his direction. Without lifting his head, he'd calculated the space I needed and gave it to me. I just love this stuff.

 Zen Horsemanship Schedule

Sept 15, 16 White Birch Farm Alexandra Kurland Clinic Contact Sandy at nikitapuff@... See you there!
Sept 23 Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP The Clicker Demo Team™ rides again to support the kids and horses. 1-4PM in Charlton, NY Contact www.s-t-e-p.com           or Dolores 1-877-937-6248
Oct 5, 6 Learning Spa™

Business Building Seminar, Blue Bell, Pennsylvania - Find out more here: http://snipurl.com/pu5m

 

We'll be in Arkansas this year from December to March - Look for us in Texas area soon - Plans are going forward for the new Covered Round Pen in by Farmteck for bad weather days.

 

 

The Lighter Side of Endurance
By Angie McGhee

Congratulations to all the fine souls who once again competed the 100 mile Tevis Cup. I vacillate between just once before I die and I'm sure to die if I try on this ride.

This new book is not to be missed. Due out in Oct, it is in pre-release sales now and will keep you laughing when the riding season is over

Written and illustrated by the "Erma Bombeck" of the endurance set, this compilation of short stories and cartoons by Angie McGhee is the culmination of more than a dozen years as a humorous columnist for Trail Blazer magazine, Endurance News and other publications.

Read and chuckled at world wide, Angie's stories highlight not only her own experiences in the world of endurance, but find anyone who reads them identifying with almost every theme.

Angie's book also includes musings on her first pony, horseflies and bad housekeeping, as well as dozens of humorous cartoons depicting situations almost every endurance rider can identify with and laugh at. To get your advance copy visit: http://www.thelightersideofendurance.com/

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 God Jumps
by Lauren Davis Baker

God gives us horses and compels some of us to love them. Yet why does the horse, an animal with such a big heart, live such a short life? Perhaps it's because if our horses lived any longer, we wouldn't be able to bear losing them. Or, perhaps it's because God wants to jump.

Perhaps God looks down on the fine horses we raise and decides when it's His turn to ride. He gives us a few good years to care for and learn from them, but when the time is right, it's up to us to see them off gracefully.

O.K., perhaps not gracefully. Blowing into a Kleenex is rarely graceful. But we can be grateful.

To have a horse in your life is a gift. In the matter of a few short years, a horse can teach a girl courage, if she chooses to grab mane and hang on for dear life. Even the smallest of ponies is mightier than the tallest of girls. To conquer the fear of falling off, having one's toes crushed, or being publicly humiliated at a horse show is an admirable feat for any child. For that, we can be grateful.

Horses teach us responsibility. Unlike a bicycle-or a computer-a horse needs regular care and most of it requires that you get dirty and smelly and up off the couch. Choosing to leave your cozy kitchen to break the crust of ice off the water buckets is to choose responsibility. When our horses dip their noses and drink heartily, we know we've made the right choice.

Learning to care for a horse is both an art and a science. Some are easy keepers, requiring little more than regular turn-out, a flake of hay, and a trough of clean water. Others will test you-you'll struggle to keep them from being too fat or too thin. You'll have their feet shod regularly only to find shoes gone missing. Some are so accident-prone you'll swear they're intentionally finding new ways to injure themselves.

If you weren't raised with horses, you can't know that they have unique personalities. You'd expect this from dogs, but horses? Indeed, there are clever horses, grumpy horses, and even horses with a sense of humor. Those prone to humor will test you by finding new ways to escape from the barn when you least expect it. I found one of ours on the front porch one morning, eating the cornstalks I'd carefully arranged as Halloween decorations.

Horses can be timid or brave, lazy or athletic, obstinate or willing. You will hit it off with some horses and others will elude you altogether. There are as many "types" of horses as there are people-which makes the whole partnership thing all the more interesting.

If you've never ridden a horse, you probably assume it's a simple thing you can learn in a weekend. You can, in fact, learn the basics on a Sunday-but to truly ride well takes a lifetime. Working with a living being is far more complex than turning a key in the ignition and putting the car in "drive."

In addition to listening to your instructor, your horse will have a few things to say to you as well. On a good day, he'll be happy to go along with the program and tolerate your mistakes; on a bad day, you'll swear he's trying to kill you. Perhaps he's naughty or perhaps he's fed up with how slowly you're learning his language. Regardless, the horse will have an opinion. He may choose to challenge you (which can ultimately make you a better rider) or he may carefully carry you over fences...if it suits him. It all depends on the partnership - and partnership is what it's all about.

If you face your fears, swallow your pride, and are willing to work at it, you'll learn lessons in courage, commitment, and compassion in addition to basic survival skills. You'll discover just how hard you're willing to work toward a goal, how little you know, and how much you have to learn. And, while some people think the horse "does all the work", you'll be challenged physically as well as mentally. Your horse may humble you completely. Or, you may find that sitting on his back is the closest you'll get to heaven.

You can choose to intimidate your horse, but do you really want to? The results may come more quickly but will your work ever be as graceful as that gained through trust? The best partners choose to listen, as well as to tell. When it works, we experience a sweet sense of accomplishment brought about by smarts, hard work, and mutual understanding between horse and rider. These are the days when you know with absolute certainty that your horse is enjoying his work.

If we make it to adulthood with horses still in our lives, most of us have to squeeze riding into our oversaturated schedules; balancing our need for things equine with those of our households and employers. There is never enough time to ride, or to ride as well as we'd like. Hours in the barn are stolen pleasures.

If it is in your blood to love horses, you share your life with them. Our horses know our secrets; we braid our tears into their manes and whisper our hopes into their ears. A barn is a sanctuary in an unsettled world, a sheltered place where life's true priorities are clear: a warm place to sleep, someone who loves us, and the luxury of regular meals. Some of us need these reminders.

When you step back, it's not just about horses-it's about love, life, and learning. On any given day, a friend is celebrating the birth of a foal, a blue ribbon, or recovery from an illness. That same day, there is also loss: a broken limb, a case of colic, a decision to sustain a life or end it gently. As horse people, we share the accelerated life cycle of horses: the hurried rush of life, love, loss, and death that caring for these animals brings us. When our partners pass, it is more than a moment of sorrow.

We mark our loss with words of gratitude for the ways our lives have been blessed. Our memories are of joy, awe, and wonder. Absolute union. We honor our horses for their brave hearts, courage, and willingness to give.

To those outside our circle, it must seem strange. To see us in our muddy boots, who would guess such poetry lives in our hearts? We celebrate our companions with praise worthy of heroes. Indeed, horses have the hearts of warriors and often carry us into and out of fields of battle.

Listen to stories of that once-in-a-lifetime horse; of journeys made and challenges met. The best of horses rise to the challenges we set before them, asking little in return.

Those who know them understand how fully a horse can hold a human heart. Together, we share the pain of sudden loss and the lingering taste of long-term illness. We shoulder the burden of deciding when or whether to end the life of a true companion.

In the end, we're not certain if God entrusts us to our horses or our horses to us. Does it matter? We're grateful God loaned us the horse in the first place. And so we pray: '' Dear God, After You've enjoyed a bit of jumping, please give our fine horses the best of care. And, if it's not too much, might we have at least one more good gallop when we meet again?
Amen''

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What the Heck is Feng Shui, How Do You Pronounce It, and Most Importantly, Does It Really Work?

Although it’s been prevalently used throughout China and much of Asia for centuries, Feng Shui (pronounced “fung-schway“) is finally catching on in the Western hemisphere. But what is it? Put simply, Feng Shui is the ancient Chinese practice of arranging furniture and designing the home to facilitate fortune and prosperity, and to diminish misfortune.

Perhaps the most interesting fact about Feng Shui is that it works, whether you believe it or not. This mysterious method is always in force, regardless of your personal belief and independent of the power of suggestion.

Which means, if you don’t know anything about Feng Shui, it could be working against you and your horses.

In fact, the Feng Shui “rules“ are so consistent that a trained Feng Shui consultant (typically hired at about $300 an hour) can walk into your home and pinpoint which areas of your life are causing you struggle. It’s creepy, really.

More importantly, such a trained person can show you exact remedies to rectify whatever ails you – be it your bank account, your love life, your career, your health, etc. What’s really fascinating is how quickly those upsetting circumstances can reverse themselves—as if touched by a miracle—once the appropriate Feng Shui principles are applied.

Now Jane Li has brought the art of Feng Shui to the stable. To learn more about Feng Shui and what it can do for you and your horses give her a call at: 425-822-4786 Harmonic Dimensions and look for her newest article in the Equine Wellness Magazine

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That Bubble of Space by Dolores Arste

 When you are out watching DVD's and horse people are moving horses around what do you think? Are you thinking "get out of my space"? If so, perhaps you are missing the nuances of space management.

A person with confidence and body presence and timing must certainly be a good horsewoman. Do you feel like you are spending more time blocking or reinforcing the horse's energy as it is directed or mis-directed at you?

Some trainers will advocate that "the better the horseman is, the bigger the bubble he projects around himself".

Perhaps it would be better to state that a better horsemwoman will have more control and awareness of the edges of her space bubble. And, automaticaly sense the edges and strength of the horse's bubble.

The more control over your bubble you have the better the understanding of energy control you will have. You can project a big bubble or a small one. You can drive or draw... or both at the same time. And, at the same time you will constantly be aware of the horse's own bubble and how it adjusts to you or even to others.

With some horses, a big bubble is definitely helpful... those horses that are pushy or biting... also those horses that are dull to the human or perhaps even horses that are shut down. With other horses, you'll want a very small bubble that is not intimidating in any way.

Buck Brannagan used the term "presence". When asked about projecting energy, he says  "I can make you want to snuggle up next to me, or want to leave the room... without moving a muscle or ever changing my expression"

When you have that "presence" or that "energy" really harnessed, and can truly learn how to use it and control it you can accomplish quite a bit with the horse, and be very subtle about it. You have to look really deep inside yourself... focus and be your authentic self on the inside when you approach the horse. The troubles of the day are gone. There is only you and the horse in that very finite momentary slice of time.

This journey can be very deep... or very shallow. It's an individual journey. We can look at it terms of tricks and behaviors done instantly on cue or we can look at it in terms of dance partners with ebb and flow. These doors are fully open now, just listen to the horse and let him guide you.
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Currently, on the replay line is Connie Dwyer, long time clicker trainer, member of this list and the owner of Eternal Sun Stable.
Connie has been working hard to create the Equine version of the Canine Good Citizen's test. This test will be available to 4-H clubs, show giving organizations,
Pony Clubs and lots of others. Connie has developed a study guide and lots of resources that can be used for this program.
 
Replay line information can be found by visiting:
 
This replay line will only be available until Monday August 7th at 7:00 PM ET. I hope to get these recordings up on the Zen Horsemanship website
for replaying soon.
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#21 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Fri Aug 4, 2006 7:16 pm
Subject: Zen guidance - Supplemental
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Pardon this interruption in the normal schedule of Newsletters.

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I sat on this information for about 3 months while I scrutinized it to see
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Its been less than one month. This is working so well that I can offer this
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Amongst others, we have joined the GreenWiz program as a group. GreenWiz is
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Zen Guidance is giving folks the opportunity to be truly Financially Free.
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I hope everyone has had a chance to listen to the great call we had with Jane-li on Monday. Jane-li has an interesting perspective on Feng Shui for horses.
So very much has to do with intent.
 
Next Monday we will be hearing from Connie Dwyer, long time clicker trainer, member of this list and the owner of Eternal Sun Stable.
Connie has been working hard to create the Equine version of the Canine Good Citizen's test. This test will be available to 4-H clubs, show giving organizations,
Pony Clubs and lots of others. Connie has developed a study guide and lots of resources that can be used for this program. Join us and hear all about. It
Call in and replay line information can be found by visiting:
 
The program is free of charge and available for replay for 1 week after the call. Hope to see you all there.
 
PS: For those out of the US subscribers, have you tried Skype. The software is free and it enables you to call in to these types of programs at very low cost.
www.skype.com I used it today to talk to a mirroring client in Melbourne, AU
 
Warmly,
Dolores Arste,
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#19 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Mon Jul 24, 2006 3:19 pm
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July 24th - 7:00 - 8:00 PM ET
 
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Conference Telephone Number: (218) 936-1100

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Jane-Li is passionate about assisting people and their animals especially horses in learning what it is to thrive by creating environments that feel good and feed the soul. To do this she uses the basic tools of Feng Shui as well as her own intuitive abilities. Jane says it is imperative that we know how to thrive not just exist. This is where the magic happens. This is where life works and you wake up being excited and joyful about the coming day.  Jane-Li is available for private consultations by phoning 425 822 4786 she will be honored to assist you. She does not have email at this time. If you can't attend but plan to listen to the replay and want your questions answered, please send them to me privately at dolores@...

 
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#18 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Thu Jul 20, 2006 12:00 am
Subject: Zen Horsemanship - Feng Shui Money Tree
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I found this on the Greenwiz article forum. Who knows - could work. Anyway, if Feng Shui is something that interests you  join us on a free teleconference call with Jane-li Windfall of Harmonic Dimensions
This call will focus on using Feng Shui to keep our horses in the best possible way
 
Monday July  24th 7:00PM
Click on www.zenhorsemanship.com/conferencecall.html  for call-in information

Learn All About Feng Shui Money Trees
 by:
Jakob Jelling

A feng shui money tree is an indoor plant used in order to attract prosperity and wealth into any space. The feng shui money tree's botanical name is Pachira, and its care requires the average sun light and watering that any other indoor plant would need. Its height can reach to as much as seven feet while it can reach to be as much as three feet wide.

The shape of these plant's leafs represent the five main elements of feng shui, wood, water, earth, fire and metal, and this is what makes the feng shui money tree so symbolic. When an element is missing, or the elements in a space are not balanced, a feng shui money tree would help adding what is missing harmonizing the elements.

Since feng shui money trees bring or increase wealth, they are ideal to place near a place where money is kept or near the cash registers in businesses. Prosperity and wealth, as well as elements harmonization should come after placing this plant at those spots. Any other place where money and wealth is needed can be a good place for a feng shui money tree as well.

Feng shui money trees can also be strategically placed according to the house areas indicated by the bagua map. The bagua map northwest corner corresponds to the prosperity area of life, and this could be an ideal place for a feng shui money tree to be. Since it brings prosperity, you can also help attracting this factor to any other area of your life by placing the feng shui tree at the house area which corresponds to it.

If you would like to have a feng shui money tree but don't know where to find it, there are many stores selling it online which would allow you to buy it through their catalogues. You would easily find them by typing feng shui money tree at your search engine, and they would allow you to see them in pictures as well as provide you with details about it.

As you can see, feng shui money trees symbolism can have many different applications as well as having decorative properties. It can also help you enlightening a dark corner and help chi flowing better. Whether you are thinking of buying an indoor plant for yourself or giving it as a present, a feng shui money tree can be a great option.

By Jakob Jelling
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Jakob Jelling is the founder of http://www.fengshuicrazy.com. Please visit his website and learn all the feng shui tips you'll ever need!

Pachira / Money Tree

Description - Origin

Pachira is one of the plants that have recently found their way into our homes. They are turning into one of the most popular indoor plants amazingly fast. Take a look at the photo, you have definitely come across one of these plants recently.

It is very often called Money Tree and is one of the feng-shui plants. It is supposed to be the plant that will bring good luck and money into your home. It’s natural habitat are the wetlands in Central America (Mexico to Brazil).

Their height ranges from the size of bonsais up to 2 meters. Their appearance is characteristic as their trunks are large and usually braided together (usually 3 or 5 trunks together). Their leaves resemble the shape of a human hand with five fingers / leaves.

The rationale in braiding the trunks is also based on the feng shui theory. The leaves will bring in the money and the braided trunks will act as a cage where money get trapped into their home. The same theory also calls for red, gold or silver ribbons to be tied on the plants. Also, mainly in other countries, people place coins on the trunks aiming to enhance the plant’s qualities. 
Care

Pachira does not have special requirements and it is a hardy plant that will adapt well to different conditions. Take care of your pachira like any other indoor houseplant.

Growing pachiras is very easy. Although its natural habitat is sunny wetlands, it will quickly adapt to less light and less water. You don’t have to water very often, but don’t let the soil go totally dry. 

Pachira needs plenty of light, however avoid direct sunlight during the hot months of the year because its leaves may get sunburned. Increase humidity by spraying the plant with water once a week or place the pot on top of a wet pebble tray.

It’s soil should be light and should contain some sand to ensure adequate drainage. Do not let the pot sit on
water and always empty excess water from the pot tray.

You can trim its leaves if they get too big for your taste or even if you want to control or change the shape of the plant. New leaves will appear in only a few days time. Even leaves will turn yellow and fall off will be quickly replaced by new beautiful leaves.

You could propagate pachiras from cuttings/side shoots. Often you will notice new shoots coming out of the trunks. Carefully remove these shoots and transplant it. It will take some time but if you are lucky it will root and you will be blessed with another pachira plant.

Add a pachira plant into your home or your office. It will provide some tropical beauty and if feng-shui is right, it will bring you good luck and money.

Back to HOUSEPLANTS/PATIO CONTAINERS

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#17 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Jul 11, 2006 3:07 pm
Subject: Alexandra Kurland Clinics
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If you are in an area where you can't easily get to a clinic
with Alex, this is for you. We are located quite near
several of the clinics upcoming this
summer and fall. If you'd like to come but have been
concerned that you don't have a horse, can't easily get
there or any other concern we'd like to
help.

This year we are offering the opportunity to go to the
September clinic at White Birch Farm hosted by Sandy
Atchinson. Nikita and Sandy are featured in Alex's "Riding
with the Clicker". We have a B&B and we'll pick you up at
the airport, provide a place to stay and even arrange for
you to take one of our horses as your own for the clinic and
provide transportation to and from the clinic.

After the clinic, stay as long as you like and take the
opportunity to be coached daily by one or more of the "Demo
Team" riders while working with the same horse you took to
the clinic and at the same time enjoy a vacation in the
beautiful Adirondacks at peak leaf-peeking time. Bring your
spouse and send them golfing or fishing. This area has been
noted as one of the best areas for golf in the whole of the
US.

We can offer this to only 3 people. So, if you've been
thinking about it now it the time. Beginner or advanced
clicker trainers can take advantage of this. All costs
associated with this offer are separate from the clinic
fees.

What better vacation could anyone design Clicker Training
and fall in beautiful upstate NY. Contact us for further
details.

Can't come in September? We may also be able to make
arrangements for Groton and Vermont. Just ask. We'll see
what we can do.

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June has been a busy and productive month. In the circle of life it doesn't matter where you get on only that you get on and enjoy the ride. Clicker training is all about saying "yes" to the things we want to see.

At the Clayton Woosley Show we only had a scant 30 minutes to get the point across. After 2 demo riders decided it was too much for them and their horses we got to work with a Kim a World Champion and her lovely gelding. As it might be expected, we couldn't teach the reiner clicker training in the time we had. We created a plan to create a scenario that was so entirely different for a reining horse and rider's normal job. The rider, horse and two volunteers were to create a plan by encouraging herself and those that have offered to help and to include the horse as a partner with full trust in him unusual tasks can flow and seem easy.

Reining is all about stimulus control so all participants when home with Alexandra's The Click that Teaches Video #4 (Stimulus Control). Hopefully, I'll have more to report from the participants after they have viewed the tapes. One of the volunteers was sure she could not have accomplished the tasks we set out with her horse. One small step at a time to change the world. 

 Zen Horsemanship Schedule

July 9 Open House Demo Day White Birch Stable Exit 17 of the Northway call Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 for details. Come visit with us.
July 22, 23 Success Insurance Get-away Retreat Start off the Saratoga Racing season in style. Enjoy a weekend of pampering, success presentations, clicker training, horses and most of all FUN and Lots of Smiles  Contact: Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 or Marilyn - 1-877-600-COACH
Sept 23 Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP The Clicker Demo Team™ rides again to support the kids and horses. 1-4PM in Charlton, NY Contact www.s-t-e-p.com           or Dolores 1-877-937-6248
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 Feel the Fear, "Tap on It," Then Do It Anyway
By Stacey Mayo, MCC

One of the emotions we all experience from time to time is fear -- fear of rejection or being humiliated, fear of public speaking, fear of making a mistake or a bad decision or failure, fear of getting in trouble, fear of getting hurt. I could go on and on. When it comes to fear, people generally have one of two responses: Flee (i.e., stop and give up on your current project/endeavor) or suppress the fear and push through it. Neither is ideal. If you allow fear to run your life and stop you from proceeding, your dream won’t become a reality. If you force yourself to push through the fear, likelihood is you will make some progress but it will be hard and fraught with obstacles.

In the last issue, I talked about being in the flow. When you force anything or push against it, you are not in the flow. This includes forcing yourself to go past your fears. In “I Can’t Believe I Get P-A-I-D To Do This!“ I talk about the difference between forced action and inspired action. Likelihood is if you take forced action, it could easily take you twice as long to accomplish your task. It’s like swimming against strong currents. This is because there is part of you that is resistant to it. In this case, the resistance is fear. (Resistance can take many other forms as well, but that’s another article.)

By now you may be asking, what is a person to do? The best thing to do is release the fear or at least lessen it. "Hah, easy for you," you say. Well, it doesn’t have to be that hard.

We can try talking our way out of fear and sometimes that works. But fear is generally not logical. You’ve probably seen the acronym for F.E.A.R. as False Evidence Appearing Real.

Many of our deeper fears are not logical. And if they are not logical to start with, then trying to use logic to release it probably won’t work.

I find that energy work is most helpful when you find you can’t logic your way out of a problem -- when logically, you know what you should do, but find yourself unable to do it. The reason you are unable to is because old core beliefs and anxieties are stored in the cells of our body. So they need to be released from your body, not just your mind.

There are many energy techniques. I use 3 of them: EFT, TAT and BSFF. I’ll use EFT as the example here. In EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) you tap on designated acupressure points on your body while focusing on the negative thought or belief to release it from the cells in your body, and then you replace it with something positive. Thus the title of this article: Feel the Fear, "Tap on It," and the Do it Anyway. When you tap on the fear in the prescribed method, you either release it or at least significantly lessen it. When you do this, you are then able to move forward without having to force yourself. People find themselves taking action naturally that they would have fretted over before, such as calling prospective customers, or speaking in public or standing up for themselves.

This may all sound like woo, woo. But actually this technique was developed by an engineer -- Gary Craig. You can find out more about it or learn to do it yourself at
http://www.emofree.com. There is even a downloadable manual on his site. But if it is a persistent problem, or you are not sure what is at the core of it, you may find that it is helpful to get a qualified practitioner to help you clarify the core issue and release it more quickly.

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Hang onto your hat................  Dolores

  "The Half-Second Rule"
by Colin G Smith



The mind learns fast. A very powerful way to view life is to experience everything as a learning experience. I think it
was Dr. Richard Bandler (co-creator of NLP) who first made me realize that Phobias are in fact a learned response. The mind of the Phobic has learned to associate a stimulus (eg a Wasp) to a response (eg Panic!)

The more you ponder this idea the more profound you will realize the implications.

And here's the deal. Does a person develop a phobia of wasps over time? You know, do they see a wasp one day and then the next week they see another and decide they don't like them and get more and more afraid of them?

No. Phobias are 'learned' very, very fast. Out of consciousness, in less than half a second!

They have an intense emotional response which becomes associated/anchored to the stimulus in such a way that that state is AUTOMATICALLY triggered whenever they see/hear/feel/smell/taste the stimulus again!

This is incredible! The persons mind will from then on automatically go into a very altered state, within half a
second of experiencing the stimulus.

Now I think you'd agree, phobias aren't exactly useful, right?

But, what if you could use that same Stimulus/Response mechanism to create automatic states of Joy, Ecstasy, Fun and Bliss.

Would that be useful to you in any area of you life? ;)

Now for sure they are many other ways of creating effective change. Some methods use different concepts and are slower to implement. With this article I wanted to introduce you to the half-second rule concepts because they are less well known than other "change-technologies" and they lend themselves well to generating more fun because they are playful by design.

The following technique is a really fascinating NLP tool because it makes great use of your unconscious resources.
I only discovered it recently and was surprised to learn that many 'NLP veterans' didn't know about it either!

Merging Metaphors
(Adapted from a technique called 'Spinning Icons' developed
by Joe Munshaw and Nelson Zink

1. Select a problem state.

2. As you think about your problem state what visual image comes to mind? Notice where it is located in space.

3. Break your current state: eg) Remember you phone number backwards or look up and notice the patterns on the ceiling. Now think about the desired resource state (or outcome, or goal) you would like instead. Notice how you represent this as a visual image. Pay attention to where it is located in space.

4. Now allow your mind to turn the first picture (problem state) into a metaphorical symbol or icon. Keep it in the
same location in space. (This visual metaphor could be quite complex or it may be as simple as a colour. Just trust your unconscious.)

TOP TIP: It can be useful to ask yourself, "What is this problem state like?" This often allows a metaphorical
representation to arise.

5. Do the same thing with the desired resource state you selected in step 3, making sure to place the new metaphor symbol in the same location in space as the original image.

6. Now see the two metaphor symbols at the same time noticing their locations in space. Next slowly rotate them
around each other. Keep rotating them around each other and do so faster and faster. Do this spinning for about 10 seconds allowing the rotation to be so fast that you can no longer track the images and you may even feel a little confused.

7. Now allow the images to merge together, that's right. And push this merged image out in front of you where you can view it easily. Describe the new image briefly, quickly moving to step 8.

8. Immediately begin telling WHATEVER story comes to mind. Just allow yourself to start telling a story. It doesn't
matter what it is. It could be a real memory, a story or just simply made up ramblings. The point being is that this
process taps into your vast unconscious resources.

9. Now ask yourself, "How is this story relevant to my problem/challenge?" or "How can this story help resolve my
problem?" (This step can help to give you conscious insight into how the previous steps have made some useful changes.)


Isn't that a great technique! You know it's got that magical spirit of curious wonder to it hasn't it?

So I wonder how else could you use a tool like that to add more magical sparkles to your life?

©2006 Colin G Smith

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Who am I? Who's in Charge?

As this month's newsletter again focuses on the human aspect of horsemanship it might be a good time to ask who you are when you visit your horse. A long time ago I attended a class on defensive driving a result I must admit of driving too fast once too often. At the class the instructor asked us to ask ourselves who in in control when we are driving; the child, the punishing parent or the adult. One can easily see how each of these roles might affect our relationship with driving.

Who are you when you visit your horse? A lot of people it seems loved horses as a child and when they visit the horse they want to revisit that carefree time in their lives. But, then something happens. The horse scares them. Since they are no longer the carefree child they once were, they will often shift gears. To whom they shift may well be a result of what they have learned and how they react to fear and stress.

Let's take this from the horse's point of view for a moment. Approached by a child in adult's clothing what is he to do? His first inclination is to humor the child as a good child's pony would do. But, as an adult, the person has often lost her ability to "be" childlike and now expects the horse to "mind" while at the same time presenting herself to the horse as a child.

Grass at this time of year is particularly appealing to many horses. And, many folks speak of not being able to get their horse to leave the grass. The horse is no longer willing to humor the "child" in the face of this delectable treat. There are always in any group leaders and followers. And, the lead position can shift in a moment. This occurs in groups of people as well as in groups of animals.

In flocks of geese that fly in that famous V formation, the leader leads and has a most difficult role. The rest of the flock honks and cheers on the leader and at the same time encouraging the wind draft  mechanism that allows all of the birds to fly better and longer. When the leader tires, a new goose takes the lead and is cheered on by everyone.

Can anyone imagine a horse in a herd, standing still when danger is signaled by another. The signaler does not have to chase or attack the rest of the herd. And at the same time the signaler is evaluated by the rest of the horses. Today, on new grass Cadbury and Harley were enjoying some new grass on the pasture I had opened up. Cadbury hates the deer flies, Harley is more tolerant of them. Harley in general is an easy going guy. Cadbury kicked out hard and ran back to his shelter. Harley barely lifted an eyebrow. But, Cadbury is dominant. He's not afraid to nip Harley to get him to move. So, who is in charge. Well, it depends.

Does your horse consider you a child to be humored. Or, are you a leader who expects a 51% say in the matter. How do you feel when you approach your horse. Are you hoping that he'll leave the grass or are you sure he will. When I approach my horses, I don't expect anyone to leave. Rather, I expect that they will notice me and check in to see if there is anything interesting going on. I always expect myself to be at the least "interesting". If you come into a pasture full of grass what do your horses do? What do you want them to do. Do you feel important enough for them to leave the grass? Take note of how you feel. And, if you want to test their response to you. Disconnect any thought of them and simply pick a line in their pasture and run from point to point. Do they even look your way? Or are they on top of you as soon as you get into the pasture.

What if you walked a line that intersects where they are standing without acknowledging them? Would you find that you bump headlong into a horse body that thought no more of you to move? Perhaps they see you as a child. If they scatter, perhaps you've moved slightly over the edge into worry. Could this be your punishing parent. The one who has "moved" them when they did not move. How can we be more of the adult. Important enough to yield to and interesting enough to be a good one to hang with. Test it and see for yourself. And then, adjust as necessary. As usual, its only important that you notice. Which role you choose when is entirely up to you.

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The concept of Conscious Creation is now a well-accepted buzzword in a variety of metaphysical circles; however, despite the proliferation of this material, it seems many are still unable to achieve the success they would like to use these principles. Why is this so, and is there a missing component that is largely being
overlooked? What is the most important factor in Conscious Creation?

Answer:

The main missing ingredient is focus and consistency of effort. In your modern lives, you are constantly surrounded by many, many choices. Choices about what to eat, where to eat, what to wear, how to wear it, different career and job opportunities, many, many different ways of expressing yourselves and filling your lives than in earlier periods of human history. Your abundance of choice leads many of you to be distracted by other possibilities, therefore lessening the amount of focused energy being placed on the things that you say that you want. This is one of the reasons. Another reason is that for the most part, you simply allow life to happen to you. You turn on your radios and TV's, you listen to the news, you react to it in one way or another and you go about your day. Very few of you start your day with any other purpose in mind than 'go to work', 'take children to school', 'pick up laundry', 'go running', 'pay my bills'. In addition to these general 'to do' lists that you have, you simply go about your day allowing life and the day to happen to you. However, each part of your life is a result of thought. If you think you have a hectic, unstable, disorganized life - take a look at your thoughts.

The most important aspect of learning to manifest is focus. What many do who first learn of their inherent ability to attract to themselves what they are wanting through thought, is to instantly think of the biggest, best, largest, most courageous dream or thing they could imagine, they instantly say " I want a large sum of money" or "I want
to become a movie star" or "I want that luxurious home in the mountains". For those of you who are unaccustomed to focusing your thoughts, these items will present great challenges. It is not that
they are difficult, for it takes exactly the same amount of focus and decision to manifest a thimble as it does a castle. The difference in the manifesting of the thimble and the castle, are the beliefs you have about having and owning such things. So many of you are burdened with feelings of lack of self worth, the conflicts that arise out of
manifesting your largest dreams, sabotage the manifestation of them in the initial stages. When you think of such grand things, such grand dreams, most of you immediately begin an inner dialogue in which you tell yourself of all the reasons why you may not have the thing you have dreamt of. You cite examples, you remember all the
other 'failures' from the past, the 'failures' of friends and perhaps even try to convince yourself that the higher path, or the spiritual path, is to go without and to learn how to be satisfied with what you have. Although we would agree that being satisfied with where you are is a beneficial quality to develop, but satisfaction is not the same as stagnation!

It is not that we are offering to you that you should not think big, that is the last idea we would want you to gain from our answer. However, what we are saying is, you need to practice deliberate creation, and we suggest that you start this with the creation of your day. As we have already said, for the most part, you simply allow your day to happen to you. In order to prepare yourself for creating your life's dream, start with creating a day, and do it
consciously. For example, as you awaken each morning you can say to yourself "today I wish to learn more about what I love and more about what excites me" or "today I wish to discover more of my talents". The list of possibilities is endless. Note this, the MOMENT that you make this statement; you have launched a new creation. As you say these words and INTEND to experience 'more of what you love', your soul then sets about brining you those opportunities. As you shift your focus on life away from being reactive beings, in other words, simply responding to what occurs in a day, and you become a creative being, setting forth your intention for the day, you ability and confidence increases.
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To apprehend the nature of the cosmos begins with the insight of Socrates "Know thyself"

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For folks wanting to compete

Develop supreme mental toughness for success in your sport

What separates the true masters, the champions, from the 'also rans' ?

So often it's just a matter of mental toughness. Time and time again sports commentators marvel that a particular individual is the best - even when they are smaller, older, less experienced, or physically weaker than others in their field.

Somehow they're unbeatable.

They don't have a wishbone where their backbone should be.

Develop supreme mental toughness gets you feeling and behaving like a true champion. Supreme mental toughness is about focus of mind, discounting all distractions and never giving up.

When you have supreme mental toughness you become an irresistible force. Physical strength, lightning fast reactions and stamina are all greatly influenced by your attitude of mind, your spirit.

We want you to have true grit and determination and to focus like a champion. When you have subconscious determination and focus, you'll have your instincts working on your side.

Download the all new "Crystallize Your Goals" free mini course: Visit: www.insuresuccess4u.com below and start boosting your mental toughness now. Co-hosted with Champion Amateur Reiner Marilyn Bonnett. Learn what it takes to win in the show ring.

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"  I am such a sucker for a good, heartwarming story of redemption. I
read an article online this morning about a therapeutic riding program
taking place at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. The army draft horses
that are used to pull the caissons at military funerals, and the
soldiers who attend them, are called "The Old Guard." These gentle
giants are being used to help rebuild strength, balance and confidence
in injured soldiers, many of whom are single and double amputees. The
mother of one of the soldiers was quoted as saying "It takes alot of
courage to get up there on a horse with one arm and one leg." I will
never again complain about how hard it is to climb aboard a horse when I
am tired.
   The horses themselves are considered soldiers. The quote in the
article that made me swallow hard was: '"It's all about soldiers helping
soldiers." It's a great story that showed me just when we think we have
seen all a horse can give, they give some more.   Bruce Weary"

Think good thoughts on this rainy NY day.
Warmly,
Dolores


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What's New

We've had two fun weekends of demos last month. Folks seem to be enjoying and joining in. That's resulted in some visits to farms to demonstrate first hand the power of clicker training. Of note, was one farm where there was a quarter horse described as distant, aloof, run-over-the top of you kind of horse. The owner had practiced Parelli, the horse was well trained and ride-able. But, this horse was smart. She seemed disconnected because as a sensitive horse. She realized that no one was listening to her at the level to which she was capable. She easily gave her hip from the left and was polite so I started right in with some gentle lateral work. She responded so fast that it could not be missed.  I then worked with the person to show her how subtle clicker training allowed her to be. And, as I left she could see the softness that had come to the mare's eye and body. She looked like a happy contented horse. Very rewarding. 

Schedule

Jun 4 Open House Demo Day White Birch Stable Exit 17 of the Northway call Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 for details. Come visit with us.
Jun 22-25 Clicking for Good Vibrations and Success Demo Clayton Woosley Memorial Derby featuring the 2006 Adequan/USEF Open Reining Championships - Kentucky Horse Park, Lexington, KY
July 22, 23 Success Insurance Get-away Retreat Start off the Saratoga Racing season in style. Enjoy a weekend of pampering, success presentations, clicker training, horses and most of all FUN and Lots of Smiles  Contact: Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 or Marilyn - 1-877-600-COACH
Sept 23 Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP The Clicker Demo Team™ rides again to support the kids and horses. 1-4PM in Charlton, NY Contact www.s-t-e-p.com           or Dolores 1-877-937-6248
Oct 5, 6 Learning Spa™ Business Building Seminar, Blue Bell, Pennsylvania - Find out more here: http://snipurl.com/pu5m

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I wanted to recommend Coming Together: Use Body Language to Establish Leadership, Friendship, and Trust by Klaus Ferdinand Hempfling but there is only one copy available via an Amazon reseller. This was a beautiful DVD which will really show you how to use your body when you communicate with horses.
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Balance in Movement - DVD

I've had the book by the same title for a long time. While the book is an excellent resource seeing is sometimes much more powerful. This lovely DVD will really add to your understanding of riding in balance and harmony with your horse. _____________________________________________________________________________________

John Lyons' Troubleshooting

This month we are please to come back to John. Much of the teaching that comes from Zen Horsemanship is based on John Lyon's work. The material is timeless and can be seen in all of the books and videos by Alexandra Kurland. In this series of reprint articles we see the principles of Lyons training in action. This book is well worth adding to your collection if you are a clicker trainer or not.

To order these or books like these, please visit www.zenhorsemanship.com/7502.html

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 To Improve your Stops, Lead Changes, Circles and Head-Position You Need Only  One Simple Training Technique

That technique is called “joy“. Do everything in joy, with joy and with a desire to create more joy!

Take charge of emotions remove emotions from the training area. Remove negative emotions from your life to find a new freedom; the freedom to choose how you feel, the freedom to add pleasure to everything you or your horse does.

Feeling frustrated. Change that thought. What’s going right? What can you highlight today? Horses communicate not with words, neighs, knickers or whinnies but with body language.  They read us like the proverbial book.

Horses have a much easier time staying in the moment, very present in NOW. That gives them great power but it can get them into trouble at the same time. Horses remember really well. But, this trait may not always enhance our relationship with them.  

You are talking to your horse with your micro movements created by thoughts all the time. As you approach the narrow path, you feel that there may be danger ahead.  It puts him on guard.  Then a bunch of interested, mostly non-threatening, cows storm up to the fence.  "Whew!  That wasn't it," thinks your horse.  Then he sees the aggressive gelding with pinned ears charging and he figures he's in deep trouble.  The first thing you have to do is stop telling your horse and stop telling YOU that there is danger ahead.   

If your “what if“ fear is of getting hurt, get off and lead your horse through this narrow path.  Bring some tasty snacks for your horse and for you. I suggest hay stretchers for the horse and chocolate for you. And when you get to the aggressive gelding, stop and feed your horse the carrots. Eat a couple of chocolates. Each day you should ride as only as far as you are comfortable. Get off, stop by the gelding or silly cows, feed carrots, eat chocolates.  Eventually you will get to the point that you know your horse's biggest "spook" will be his whipping his head around to get his treat. You won't be afraid anymore and you won't be telling your horse there is danger ahead. 

  Your horse will be so focused on getting his treat (which are real) the thought of getting killed by that threatening gelding (which never happens) will never enter his mind.  

After you can ride past these horses without your being afraid, you can take your horse and watch him to see his reaction.  He may surprise you by being interested in scary things. Even if you feel yourself tense up, your new horse may ignore that in favor of paying attention to these new "toys" which in his mind only bring tasty morsels. 

You never leave home without your purses, so just in case, bring the little treats that will allow you to buy some joy for you and your horse. And there is a side benefit to all those treats; The beginnings of collection via the give spots. 

True collection is oftentimes a misunderstood concept. Yet, its application is essential for top performance, especially for the stop and lead changes. And it's really not that difficult to achieve, once you understand it.

Unfortunately however, most people think if the horse merely flexes at the poll, he is collected. They are mistaken, and as a result end up with a horse that performs way below it's potential. Many horses are capable of doing way more that what their riders realize including eating while trotting down the trail in balance.

Horses really can multi-task!

Collection begins with balance and that allows you to position the horse's body to perform beautiful stops with very little effort. True collection is what keeps your horse using his hindquarters no matter what maneuver he performs or what gait you're in.

So, what is collection? Collection is a way of riding your horse that teaches him to round his back, lower his croup and travel with his hocks farther under his body. When done correctly, collection also teaches a horse to flex at the poll, relax his lower jaw and become soft, supple and light.

Here are just a few of the benefits of getting your horse collected:

Your horse's stops will be deeper and and at the same time his mouth will feel softer. His neck and shoulders will also be more relaxed.
 

Flying lead changes will be more controlled and precise with far fewer missed hind leads.
 

Spins and turn-a-rounds will be more free and smoother too. Usually, a well-collected horse will have a better (more level) top-line when spinning.
 

Your horse will lope smoother and more balanced because he'll be striding with his hind legs farther under his body. His lope will be more controlled.
 

Better head-position while performing any maneuver.

Once you ride a horse that is truly collected, you will wonder how your training program ever got along without it.  

At first balance and collection will slow leg speed. That’s because the horse has to think so much harder about how to use his body. Here is an exercise for you the human to experience what the horse is learning.

The tag point is “bone in front. Stand, walk sit with a rounded back and pubic bone in front of your ribcage. Feel how that rounds and lengthens your back. The equivalent in the horse is in the “give spots“ ala John Lyons.

Next when you walk bend your knee over your toes and try to maintain the ability to “freeze frame“ at any point in the steps. At the same time keep your balance centered over the middle. Now, take this to your riding. Bone in front, knees over toes.

The third thing to add is to lift the leg that you want to put down when you feel unbalanced. Ready?  Pockets loaded? Go ride. And remember to smile for at least 60 seconds while you are out there.

Did you know that yielding the hindquarters to take away power also sets you up for balance and poise. Models are typically taught to cross over while walking forward to stabilize their walk in those high stiletto heels. Try it.

Dolores Arste


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Dogs Use Psycho-Cybernetics To Accomplish Goals

Dogs picture in their minds an event of an activity they wish to perform whether it hunting a rodent, greeting their human companions at the door or retrieving a stick. This helps them set goals similar to psycho-cybernetic human intent goal oriented human endeavors. We know dogs do this for two reasons. One, when they sleep their paws move as if they are running. Some might say that this is nervous system reactions, but RMI scans show these are simultaneously happening with motor areas of the brain. Secondly the memory of motions for dogs is evident in the way they approach problem solving while moving toward an object such as a bone or Frisbee. If the Frisbee is thrown in a standard fashion the dog jumps and takes it the same every time and commits the action to muscle memory, which is an indication of that reflex of motion being done over and over again in its mind.

Some who have said to have connections with their animals occasionally pick up low frequency dreams of their pets. Some might say this is utter non-sense yet those who study such mind connections with animals seem to have shown a telepathy transfer of thought there. One such researcher has documented that pets and their masters do send out subconscious signals to one another. The rare occasions where humans claim they pick up visual stimuli in the form of pictures from their animals comes when both are asleep. In these dreams the humans say they see sequences of images in their dreams from the perspective of the animal. In other words a perspective from being very low to the ground and running around doing normal dog or animal activities, such as jumping into a vehicle, running around a tree or jumping off a deck and tumbling. If this is true and these dreams are in fact coming from the animal this proves the visual psycho-cybernetic tendencies of canines, perhaps all mammals, birds, fish and reptiles. This would make sense considering the memory imprinting that we believe these brains do operate. Even if the dreams are merely wishful thinking on the part of the human taken into the human’s unconsciousness as one tries to empathize with their pets this would not negate the probability of such psycho-cybernetic learning and goal achievement strategies for canine intent. In fact there is enough evidence now to conclude that most all-higher mammals do in fact achieve their goals this way. Probably birds too. Birds like Eagles can be fooled by their own visual memory, which fills in details of objects far away, meaning the imprintation of that memory is there? The question is only how are they using it or are they using it in their subconscious thoughts? Dream? Think on this.

 Animal to Animal Telepathy

There has been much study on Telepathy in the animal kingdom. Many have experienced telepathy from human to human. Some have experienced telepathy from pets, both sending and even on rare occasion receiving. There are so many studies that show it is not coincidence or explainable by probability. In fact the statistics are so strong that after reading only a few studies and pitting that against your own observations in your ego-centric life experience that any normal human would have to agree.

Now then let me tell you of a theory of mine. It relates to the ability to send and receive thought or signals from one animal to another and perhaps to other species. In my theory I believe that the brain, which is working at a higher level or frequency is able to send better and than the brain working at a lower level. In lower levels it is better to receive thought. In other words the easiest time to receive is when one is a sleep. Now then lets us take both the paranormal theories of the collective consciousness and the current studies being done at MIT, Stanford and other places with telepathy. It appears when joining into the collective consciousness it is best to be a low theta state of mind.

Many would disagree with the theories of sending at higher rates of cognition in the beta or hyper beta realm, yet it appears that you can send information when you mind is running at higher RPMs. Yet there appears to be much advantage at the higher frequency level, in retrieving information stored in the faithful servant side of the brain when at higher Beta Frequencies. If one is drinking caffeine it is often interesting to watch them recall facts very quickly in observing conversations almost to the point of being on a game show. If you watch two people talk both drinking coffee you will see a much faster, detailed type conversation under rapid fire of neurons.

The reason I believe that a brain going at faster Beta waves can send information better has to do with my experience racing motorcycles and in riding on the street. At times I was able to send a thought such as; “look here“ or “don’t pull out of that driveway“ and instantly the driver would stop and look. I got so good at it that I could tell it was me doing it. Even when the wind was blowing the other way and the driver had the air-conditioning and radio on, they did not hear me. This even occurred at times when I was going very fast, but coasting out of gear. Now then other experiences I have had, have been when out running or jogging, when the heart rate was high, not from adrenaline of the motorcycle or the rush of oxygen in combination in the body; but rather from high cardiovascular exercise rates where I could signal to local wildlife on a trail, do not worry, I am just going to run by. Small Squirrels, rabbits or even watchdogs would just watch and stand there as I went by. I could also signal guard dogs to not bark, but they would come running up to the fence to watch me job by. Other times I would send out threatening thoughts to the animals and they would go berserk and try to get over the fence to attack me.

It appears that when you are in hyper beta frequency ranges you can command events to occur or even people to call you that you know. You can send out thoughts to animals or people and even invade the collective with thoughts you wish to get out, information. If you have ever been at a large concert is seems the music is playing into the collective and the excitement seems to allow those on stage to collect the energy and stay in hyper beta, maybe even more so if they are on drugs, thus the send of information thru music is so powerful as they generally are also sending out emotion, which everyone who is there, is freely open to collect.

It also appears to be able to send out information to the collective if you are in hyper-beta while most others are in low or extremely low frequency states of sleep, this too has been my observation. If a dog, cat or parrot, which have all been documented to pick up thoughts from their owners sometimes hundreds of miles a way and they are running on lower frequencies than humans, then this theory makes sense. There are hundreds of thousands of cases of telepathy being picked up by animals from humans and only a few rare cases of humans picking up telepathy signals from animals. Generally these rare cases are from distressed animals at a time when their systems, bodies and mind are in hyper status for them. Animals with bigger ranges in their brain waves seems to have the greater number of cases from animal to human. I will also recommend this book to you:

The Sense of Being Stared At and other aspects of the extended mind“ By Rupert Shelrake.

So, then after studying this and pitting it against your own observations you might come to my conclusion that hyper Beta helps in sending telepathy to others. For receiving it appears to be best for unification of the collective of minds to be at very low frequencies. However two people of similar frequencies in close proximity seem to be able to communicate with a minimal amount of difficulty fairly easily with practice. Anyway think on all this.
 

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And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs - Saddle Fitting by Dave

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An outstanding guide to anticipating and managing horse behavioral and training issues from "America’s Most Trusted Horseman."

In this highly illustrated new book, renowned horse trainer and clinician John Lyons teaches readers how to "troubleshoot" such common problems as spooking, running away, rearing, kicking, balking at water, and refusing to load into a trailer. Lyons explains why horses are prone to certain reactions, then demonstrates how his methods can help prevent a minor miscommunication between animal and rider from escalating into a frustrating—and often dangerous—battle of wills. With each phase of the training process clearly set out and illustrated, step by step, readers will find themselves closer to better relationships with their horses. For over twenty years, John Lyons has helped thousands of horse owners worldwide improve their partnerships with their horses. When not on the road conducting clinics, demonstrations, and symposiums, John resides at his Cowboy Up Ranch in Parachute, Colorado. His previous books are John Lyons’ Bringing Up Baby and Lyons on Horses.

About the Author
John has spent the last 25 years teaching thousands of people worldwide to better understand their horses. For his success in doing so, he’s earned the title of America’s Most Trusted Horseman. A pioneer in the clinician movement, John’s hallmark training style is the use of gradual, step-by-step lesson plans to solve problems and teach a horse to just about anything.

A prime example of that program was John’s legendary Appaloosa stallion, Bright Zip, who is seen in some of this book’s chapters. ("Troubleshooting" was originally a series in Horse & Rider

Magazine from 1993 to 1997.) With John’s careful training, Zip faced bears, man-made "monsters," and anything else John asked him to do for a photo shoot.

For instance, in no time at all the trainer could teach Zip to rear or spook on command, then "fix" him immediately. For his efforts, the consistently good-natured stallion was rewarded with a spot in the Appaloosa Horse Club Hall of Fame; he was honored in 1994 as the Breyerfest Horse of the Year.

Warmly,
Dolores Arste

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#11 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Sat May 6, 2006 2:43 pm
Subject: You have a beautiful Horse Art eCard awaiting you!
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Friends,
I received this card today and it is really beautiful. I live the music too! What a wonderful way to say "Thanks"
Send one to someone today! What are you thankful for today!
 
To pick up and view the card, please click on the link below:
http://www.alove4horses.com/ecards/upcardme.php?step=pickup&id=2k89e4884c3a/Dolores Arste/darste3@...  

If it does not work please click here and enter your card ID number:
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Your card will be available for 7 days from 5-6-2006.

Please be sure to pick it up and view it before the 7 days are over! 

I hope you enjoy this eCard and take some time to send a Horse eCard to your special someone.

To send a card, please visit the Horse Art eCard home page here:
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#10 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Sun Apr 30, 2006 8:00 pm
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What's New

Well first this newsletter is way late this month. I wanted to include our schedule and its been being added to so fast I can barely keep up. So, here it is as of this moment. Thanks to everyone involved with all of these arrangements

May 20, 21 New Paltz Equifest Trade Show

 Kim Cassidy www.clickandtrim.com  Connie Dwyer www.eternalsunstable.com  and Dolores  present Barefoot, Clicker Training and the new Equine Good Citizen program - Clicker training will be the only live demo!

 

May  27 - 29 Dressage at Saratoga

Marilyn Bonnett and Dolores Arste present Success Insurance Performance Coaching. www.insuresuccess4u.com

 

Jun 3 Investigating Rabbit Holes

Zen Guidance unique class combining Energy Mirrors and the Law of Attraction with Clicking for Emotions - www.zenguidance.com

 

Jun 4 Open House Demo Day

White Birch Stable Exit 17 of the Northway call Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 for details. Come visit with us.

 

Jun 22-25 Clicker Training Problem Solving Demo

Clayton Woosley Memorial Derby featuring the 2006 Adequan/USEF Open Reining Championships - Kentucky Horse Park, Lexington, KY

 

July 22, 23 Success Insurance Get-away Retreat

Start off the Saratoga Racing season in style. Enjoy a weekend of pampering, success presentations, clicker training, horses and most of all FUN and Lots of Smiles  Contact: Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 or Marilyn - 1-877-600-COACH

 

Sept 23 Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP

The Clicker Demo Team™ rides again to support the kids and horses. 1-4PM in Charlton, NY Contact http://www.s-t-e-.com/           or Dolores 1-877-937-6248

 

Oct 5, 6 Learning Spa™ Business Building Seminar, Blue Bell, Pennsylvania - Find out more here: http://snipurl.com/pu5m

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Animals in Translation: Using the Mysteries of Autism to Decode Animal Behavior        

By Temple Grandin

Hardcover: 368 pages
Publisher: Scribner (December 28, 2004)
 

Clicker trainers know that you have to “break it down“ and this book offers you a unique chance to understand how that works for your students. Temple Grandin is a professor of Animal Science at Colorado State University. She is currently responsible for the design of more than half of the animal handling systems at slaughter houses through out the United States. Her work is wide-spread because she is good at it; the animals stay calm and move through the plant without upset.  

Animals in Translation is her latest volume, and it presents the most accessible version yet of her perception concepts. She is a high functioning autistic, which is a pervasive developmental disorder, characterized by communication difficulties and behavior which can be dramatically different from other people of the same age. Autism often presents as hyper-sensitivity to sensation and noise, and stimulation can prove so overwhelming that the individual withdraws completely from social interaction.  

Through her design work she has come to understand that the way she processes thought is very similar to animals, and quite different than most people. She is a visual thinker, capturing thoughts in images which she describes as having no emotional attachment. Initially she attempted to simply understand how animals cope with disruptions or unusual stimuli. As she recognized the complexity of her talent she also realized that there was great insight to share with those of us who want to better understand our animals.

She is a remarkably successful communicator, presenting images, experiences and details as startling keys to the behavior of our animals. This book really gained stature in my library as I shared it with students and friends. Students that I considered to already be good animal trainers were both astonished and enchanted by her descriptions of her thinking process. Most interesting were the number of students who came to me and shyly confessed that they so appreciated my talking about the book to them, as this was the way that they thought as well.

Reading this book made me a better trainer and most of all, gave me greater patience with my students, since I now better understand just how different from mine their experiences may be.

Interesting article: http://hcs.harvard.edu/~husn/BRAIN/vol7-spring2000/grandin.htm 

Reviewer: Janalee Redmond is a dressage rider that is learning to drive. She has used clicker training for several years and is deeply committed to sharing the training benefits of calm, centered communication. http://www.hnhfarm.com/

Purchase this book and others like it at: www.zenhorsemanship.com/7502.html 

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Getting Started

Imagine what would happen if you could speak to your horse and understand what your horse is saying to you as easily as talking to another person!  By simply teaching your horse a safe effective way to speak yes and no you can!

However, you don't have to live among horses, struggling to reinvent the wheel.  Simply learn to speak in yes and no and you too can both understand and speak  fluently to the horse. And you  enable your horse so that he  can teach you how to handle and ride your horse better. Teach him  today and allow the possibility of all he has to teach you by learning the language of the clicker yourself!

What are you waiting for Get Started Now!  Getting Started Clicker Training for Horses Kit

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Horses of Gettysburg

Humans have relied on horses since the dawn of time, but there is no stronger bond than between a man and his horse on the battlefield.

Narrated by Ronald F. Maxwell, director of the epic films Gettysburg and Gods and Generals, Horses of Gettysburg captures the relationship between soldiers and their horses that they so desperately depended on for survival.

Filmed in high definition with charging horses, battlefield panoramas and no "talking heads,"  this cinematic documentary tells the story of the 72,000 horses and mules that fought at the Battle of Gettysburg and uncovers the strategies employed to ensure that the millions of animals in service with the North and South remained healthy and well-trained for action.


Horses of Gettysburg celebrates the honor and courage of these four legged warriors and their critical role in shaping the United States of America that we live in today.

Order your copy today

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Riding in your Bones

Where does one begin to talk about working with the human body. Alexandra Kurland teaches Tai Chi. I've taken Alexander lessons and played around with Yoga.

Years later, just by working on and feeling the bones in my body my fascination with how little needs doing. How riding with your bones really does allow for a sense of relaxation while riding I never knew was possible.

Somewhere along the line I had also realized that it was not just about riding, although that particular passion provided a very clear mirror of the human I was. The changes I needed to make were much bigger than just how I
sat on a horse. Until very recently I had never thought very much about how I move, or how  I learn.

As a child, I had ridden without too much conscious thought, and was reasonably talented. It happened to fit my mindset of being “reasonably“ talented. I expected neither more nor less. So it was a rude shock to find that after a bad fall, my mind was in the way of my body. My mind kept trying to protect me from myself.  What had come
“naturally“ had come through practice, persistence and diligence. I never was the seat-of-the-pants kind of rider. 

There is no “trick“ to it, no ideal, and everyone’s better or ideal may be quite different. The key here is choice. There is a very big difference between being able to choose a way of moving, and being told that a particular way is “right“. each one of us will find it within us in the time that works for us.

This site is the perfect solution! It even has a session selector where you can select those that are most appropriate for riding (or any other sport). Check out the free sample session that you can
listen to on-line. Highly recommended by a satisfied customer..

Find Feldenkrais online at: http://tinyurl.com/km3gl

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 How Big is Your Marketing Budget?

Imagine having magazines, papers, and T.V. or radio stations calling you and ASKING you for your story. How much are a few inches of "ink", a 2-minute segment on T.V. or a thirty minute interview on the radio worth to you - could you afford to purchase that?

Probably not.

But you can get them at no charge - if you know what you are doing!

On May 3rd, Sherry Busch, of RiskOutWest.com will share strategies and techniques for getting the kind of media
coverage that you, your equine business, or your event need.

Sherry was the Public Relations Assistant at the U.S. Weightlifting Federation and the Colorado State Games. She was the Public Relations Director for the Colorado State Games, for the Colorado Springs National Ski Patrol Ski Swap, the Marketing Director for U.S. Open Taekwondo Championships, and the Marketing Director for National Events for the U.S. Taekwondo Federation.

She has graciously agreed to share her extensive Public Relations experience with us in a very special call on May 3rd.

Public relations is a great way to build a business on a small budget, and it's a skill that all small business owners should have. Getting "ink" in the paper, or time on TV or radio can greatly amplify your current marketing program, and should be part of every marketing program. Unfortunately, it's often one of the areas that is often overlooked even by savvy businesses.

On May 3rd, you will learn:
How to write a media release (press release)
How to put together a media kit
How to target the media that you want
How to use the press that you get in other parts
of your marketing

There is no charge for the call, although it is a toll call.

Remember to reserve your copy of the audio and transcript from this call. This is DEFINITELY something you will want to refer to by and by, especially if you are trying to market yourself or your business on a fixed budget!

Please visit :
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A Little Bit of the History of Clicker Training
Dogs – WWI – WWII -

With thanks to: http://www.alldogsgym.com/training/clicker-history.asp
A Brief History of Dog Training -
70 years of Clicker Training


In the beginning . . . there was Col. Konrad Most - arguably the father of modern "traditional" dog training. Most trained military dogs in Germany at the turn of the 20th Century. His book, Training Dogs - A Manual, was published in German in 1910, but wasn't translated into English until 1954, the year of his death.

Most's training approach was widely adopted as the model for military training throughout the world, and is still used today for many military, police and service dog training programs. Although his techniques, which rely on collar corrections and punishment are considered and heavy-handed from today's perspective, Most's methods are based on the principles of operant learning that form the basis of clicker training.

Most's training techniques spread throughout the world as his students and disciples emigrated to other countries. Coming to the U.S. were Josef Weber (The Dog in Training, 1939) and Hans Tosutti (Companion Dog Training, 1948) who opened schools for training dogs in Philadelphia and Boston respectively. (In 1936, Tosutti founded the New England Dog Training Club in Boston - the oldest existing AKC member obedience training club in the country.)

One of Weber's students in the U.S. was Blanche Saunders (The Complete Book of Dog Obedience, 1954 and The Story of Dog Obedience, 1974). Saunders and Helene Whitehouse Walker are the originators of AKC Obedience trials, and traveled around the country spreading the concept of companion dog training to the public. Among Saunders' students and followers were many of the well-known trainers of the 1950's and 60's, including Winifred Strickland.

It's important to have this historical perspective to understand the global nature of so-called "traditional" training - based on the teachings of Konrad Most.

So what of clicker training? A video produced by Bob and Marion Bailey called "Patient Like the Chipmunks" offers an outstanding view of the history of operant conditioning of animals. Marion Bailey and her first husband, Keller Breland, were graduate students of B.F. Skinner. Leaving graduate school in the early '40's, they started Animal Behavior Enterprises - a business that trained and provided scores of animal species for commercial purposes.

Keller Breland was the first dog trainer to use a clicker - a tin cricket to, as he said, "bridge the time between the behavior and the delivery of the reinforcer." (Quote from a conversation with Marion Breland Bailey). He used the sound to mark the desired behavior when training field dogs and herding dogs work in a field away from the handler. Breland called the click sound a "bridging stimulus."

It's possible that Breland's training approach using operant conditioning with a conditioned reinforcer might have spread beyond his own business were it not for World War II, which solidified the military model in pet dog training. Enter William Koehler, who, like Most was a military dog trainer. A Hollywood dog trainer, his book the Koehler Method of Dog Training was, and may still remain, the all-time best selling dog training book, forming the basis for virtually all dog training from the 1950's into the '70's.

Meanwhile, clicker training was being used by Keller Breland with other species. In the 1950's Marineland hired him to develop a training program for their marine mammals. In a matter of weeks, Keller devised the system of marine mammal training that is still in use today. The Brelands worked with many trainers and associates who worked in a variety of locations, including Sea Life Park, which was then owned by Karen Pryor and her husband.

Skip ahead a few years to 1984 when Karen Pryor wrote Don't Shoot the Dog, a guide to human interpersonal relations. Serendipitously, the book's title skyrocketed Pryor (well, perhaps 6 or 7 years isn't exactly a skyrocket) to the attention of dog trainers. Pryor met Gary Wilkes-a professional dog trainer and the first person since Keller Breland to use clicker training on a wide variety of dogs in a wide variety of applications. Gary and Karen hooked up to do seminars together and the die was cast for the word of clicker training to spread throughout the dog-training community.

It is through the wonders of the Internet that clicker training has spread as rapidly as it has-else what has happened in less than 10 years might have taken 25 or more.

Why is this history important? Well, history is important - and fascinating. And as this history demonstrates, clicker training is not just some touchy feely, New Age approach to training dogs. Keller Breland used clicker training with dogs over 70 years ago -a decade before marine mammals. But it's taken nearly all this time for the dog training community to catch up. And thank goodness we have. Dogs are the better for it!
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It Takes a Little Fear

Opening this week on Broadway, Julia Roberts makes her debut in "Three Days of Rain." The Oscar-winning actress expressed her fear about her upcoming theater début this way, "By the time I get there," Roberts told The New York Times, "I'll be entirely apoplectic. But the terror is part of the excitement."

That's not the case for most of us. The terror isn't the excitement that pushes us on but the barrier that holds us back. Too often we default to our fears, letting them reign over life's opportunities. It's the fear that decides if we're interested in going for a new position, moving to a new city, changing careers, speaking to groups or learning new skills. It's the fear that hijacks our potential, stifles our growth and constrains us from winning at working.

Maybe you're afraid of failure or afraid of success, so you decide it's better to stay with what you know. Maybe you're afraid you'll be disappointed in your results so you cocoon yourself into comfort zone confinement. Maybe you're afraid you'll look foolish so you opt out of competing, or you're concerned you'll be found out as an imposter or disliked if you pursue your passions or step up to more responsibility.

It doesn't matter what our fears are or why we give them control. What matters is if we let them limit us; if we trade our comfort for our relevance and if we compromise our life's potential to eliminate that pit in our stomach. And if we do, it's no wonder we're not living our dreams.

Join Master Coaches Marilyn Bonnett and Dolores Arste have teamed up. We have an insurance policy for SUCCESS! We have a new teleclass and an offer for you. Our new teleclass begins next month. Check out the new class at http://www.insuresuccess4u.com/. And now here's the great part. We've created a great affiliate opportunity for folks on our newsletter list. If you have a webpage or blog, you can use this link to tell others about our new venture and get paid for it. To find out more about this opportunity click: Success Insurance Affiliate Opportunity

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And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs - Saddle Fitting by Dave

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Exploring Rabbit Holes and Investigating the Impossible
(Click the Universe)
June 3, 2006 - Galway, NY
Visit http://www.zenhorsemanship.com/  for details.

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#9 From: Dolores Arste <darste3@...>
Date: Fri Apr 28, 2006 7:39 pm
Subject: Dr. Joe Vitale
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Hello everyone,
Normally, I wouldn't send this to this list.
But, I have been following Joe Vitale for awhile now and
I can tell you for certain that following his advise
works. Its working for me and its working for
others that I know personally.

Do you know how many times I've heard a horse
person say that they have no money? Why is this?
There's no reason for it. Anyone can do this.

If you are running a business now or if you are
thinking of starting one soon, this information is
for you. One of my friends went to Texas to meet
with Joe and came back with glowing reports
on the caliber of the man.

Dr. Joe Vitale's marketing manager,
Rob Hawthorne put together a video for you here
so you can see everything included in the course:
http://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/video

This is a very personal message from
Dr. Joe Vitale that I'm passing along...

From Joe:
It was around 7:30 this morning when it happened.

It had to be the 100th email that I've
seen come in from people asking if there
was a way to make payments on the Hypnotic
Selling Secrets Course.

http://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/g.o/darste2

So many people emailed me their stories
about how they are in debt...

How they lost their job...

How they just can't afford to pay for the
course in full right now...

They all very much wanted the course and
could see that by using the information
in this course, they could change their
lives.

For those of you who don't know, I'm going
to admit something that I very rarely
talk about.

It's something that personally, I never
think about because the feelings of
struggle, despair, sadness, even anger
are now long gone and a thing of the past.

But truth is, I used to be homeless.

For many years I struggled to make ends
meet.  I remember spending countless
hours in a library in Houston, Texas
going through every book I could find
that could help me get out of the bad
situation that I put my self into.

For many years, I had the wrong mindset
that ended up holding me back from obtaining
the success that I had always wanted for
myself.

After many books and countless hours of
thinking, I came to a realization:

The only way that I can change my situation
and the world around me is if I change
ME first.

It seemed no matter how hard I tried to
reach my goals, no matter how large or
small - I was the one holding me back and
I didn't even realize it.

It wasn't until I began to work on my self,
my mindset, my inner self that I finally
started to see some success.

Then, the more I worked on myself and learned
how to condition my mind for success, amazing
things started to happen to me.

Now, many years later, I almost chuckle
thinking back to the years I wasted trying
to do things "my way".  I was always fighting
and struggling thinking the world was against
me, when in reality, I was fighting against
myself.

Now, as I sit here in my beautiful house
on an Estate in Texas with a few BMW's in
my garage, many best-selling books published,
with many more coming out this year, I can
finally tell you that "I GET IT."

Why is it that when before, I was working
much harder than I am now and fighting for
every opportunity that never came - and
now opportunities and riches just flow to
me?

It's because I changed the way I think and
was willing to spend time each day working
on myself and dedicated my self to learning
the world of marketing.

You see, when you have the right mindset and
know a little about marketing - a whole new
world of opportunity opens it's doors for
you.

You literally have the freedom to write
your own paycheck and live your life on
your terms.

What is that freedom worth to you?

How would creating many income streams out
of thin air change your life and the lives
of everyone in your family?

Yes, the Hypnotic Selling Secrets Course
does go into a lot of detail about marketing.
After all, it's my life's work.

http://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/g.o/darste2

But more importantly, the HSS Course is
about changing your life.  It's about finally
achieving your dreams and goals.  It's about
helping other people obtain the success they
are striving for.

The information in this course completely
changes people's lives.

So this morning, I did a little thinking...

I remembered back to when I was struggling
to make ends meet but knew that I wanted
to be an author and be involved in the world
of marketing.

A thought then came to me... what would
have happened if someone had offered me
this exact same course back then?

What would my life be like now?

The thought came to mind that I'd be a
trillionaire by now.  ;)

But what really came to my mind was that
there would have been nothing in the world
that I could do to afford the course.  Yes,
I could come up with a few hundred dollars,
but not the full amount.

I would have missed out on something that
would have completely changed my life.

Now if the person offered me a payment
plan where I could pay for the course over
a few months - that was something that I
could have easily done.

I'm going to be totally upfront with you
here.

This decision did not come easy, but because
of all of the emails asking me for it and
because I've "been there" before...

Today I decided to...

Offer a payment plan for the Limited Edition
Hypnotic Selling Secrets Course!

hhttp://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/g.o/darste2

But that's not all I did today...

I also launched two new bonuses worth over
$1900.

Now because I truly want to help you with
creating a new mindset that attracts success
to you, I have decided to GIVE you the
complete Attractor Factor Blueprint DVD
set.

This was a very powerful, emotional, life-
changing event that people paid $5000 to
attend.  The entire event is captured on
18 DVDs and will be given to you at no
cost when you order the Limited Edition
Hypnotic Selling Secrets course today.

And because I am forever grateful to
everyone who has already ordered, I will
also be including these new bonuses in
your package - no extra charge.

The next bonus is something that you can
use to start bringing income into your
life right now.

If you know how to use email, this is a
business that anyone can run.

Others who have used this technique have
earned thousands of dollars in profit.
Some even tens of thousands of dollars.
One even over a half of a million dollars.

The great thing about this business is
that is costs nothing to set up and the
income that you bring in is 100% profit.

In closing, I wanted to let you know that
this is truly my final offer.

I've included tens of thousands of dollars
into the Limited Edition Hypnotic Selling
Secrets Course.

http://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/g.o/darste2

It's my way of giving back to an industry
that has completely changed my life for
the better and has allowed me to go from
being homeless to living a life of complete
freedom and happiness.  Not to mention, I
have recently lost 80 pounds - which is
what prompted me to sell each and every
last HSS course that I have!

Because there are less than 200 courses
left, and because I personally know that
there are at least 100 people that asked
for a payment plan - this offer will not
last.

My goal is to sell every single Limited
Edition Hypnotic Selling Secrets Course
I have so I can get rid of those "BIG
Joe" photos on them, so I can replace
then with the new "fit and trim" Joe
photos.

This may very well be your last chance
to get the Limited Edition HSS Course,
especially with the new payment plan
I just added.

I will also tell you that I will never
offer this again.  Once we sell out,
that's it.

Go for it.

Dr. Joe Vitale

    PS... With all of the new bonuses
and the new payment plan that I added
to this offer today - which is truly
my FINAL offer... I know that the
last few courses will sell FAST.  This
is your one shot.  Go to:
http://www.hypnoticsellingsecrets.com/g.o/darste2

Warmly,
Dolores Arste
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Date: Wed Mar 22, 2006 5:11 am
Subject: March 2006 Newsletter - Zen Horsemanship
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No.8 / March 2006                  Subscribe

 

 "Most people don't really need advice. They just need support and discipline in doing what they already know works."-Marianne  Williamson

Last Chance to register for the May 2006 Tag Teach Workshop - http://www.tagteach.com/ Register today!

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- What's New -

Master Coaches Marilyn Bonnett  and Dolores Arste have teamed up to create

SUCCESS INSURANCE FOR THE EQUINE ENTHUSIAST

Horse people insure horses, trucks, trailer, health, etc.  We all insure everything...

Why not insure success.

We have an insurance policy for SUCCESS!

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Talking Horses - Dolores Arste

 It's a simple matter of communications.

Can we imagine that horses are really just like mute children.  Mute, because even though they can think and reason and communicate and still  they cannot speak; children because at full maturity, they may have the emotional equivalent of a child's emotional development.  So, they communicate in a sort of sign language by using their bodies and expression, and in order to understand them, to speak to them, we must too! 

It's very important to realize that horses are also a little like aliens.  Or at least they can seem like aliens to us. We really can't assess their true intelligence or  their intellectual capabilities because it is alien to us.    Alien, because their entire culture, development and living requirements are extremely different from humans.  They are not only communicating in sign language,  they understand only an alien language and culture.  Thus, to understand them, to speak to them, we must learn their language or somehow teach them ours.

By far the majority of those of us who have learned a foreign language, have learned it from someone who knew both our birth language and the foreign language, providing us with a blueprint of the foreign language to learn; however, there are very few who go to a foreign country without any concept of the foreign language and learn that language from a mute alien child that weighs 1200 pounds!  The horse's problem is even worse, trying to communicate with us!  Can you imagine being a 1200 pound mute child completely dependent upon puny, frail aliens?

What's even more confusing still is that, just as there are many human languages, there are also many different horse languages, depending upon breed , their early life experiences and how much control they have over their emotions.

So it is reasonably difficult for a human to learn a horse's language from a horse -- one doesn't just pick it up, easily -- it takes dedicated time and effort to learn that way.  Helping that horse understand humans is even more challenging.  On the other hand, it's fairly easy for someone who has lived and depended on horses all their lives  to communicate effectively with a horse, understanding their language. These old horseman like the Old Man in Mark Rashid's books or Tom and Bill Dorrance lived whole lifetimes with the language and lifestyle of the aliens. To them, it may have seemed simple. Its all they ever knew.

Have you ever played the game, Charade?  Well communicating with your horse is sort of like playing Charade with a 1200 pound mute alien child.  And if you think that's difficult -- just imagine how confused your 1200 pound mute alien child is trying to communicate with you in a game of Charades!

Think about that for a moment.  If you were trying to talk to someone who spoke back to you in a foreign language you didn't understand; how would you get your point across?  Now realize that from a horse's point of view, most people are deaf and dumb to their language.  So, they gesture to us!

Therein lies the difficulty of most horse owners, handlers, riders, and caretakers -- they don't understand, and they don't speak the same language.  So, when they tell their horse what to do or not do, the horse is confused; and when the horse speaks, they don't notice or recognize the language. 

Imagine what would happen if you could speak to your horse and understand what your horse is saying to you as easily as talking to another person!  By simply teaching your horse a safe effective way to speak yes and no you can!

However, you don't have to live among horses, struggling to reinvent the wheel.  Simply learn to speak in yes and no and you too can both understand and speak  fluently to the horse. And you enable your horse so that he  can teach you how to handle and ride your horse better. Teach him today and allow the possibility of all he has to teach you by learning the language of the clicker yourself!

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Horses of Gettysburg

Humans have relied on horses since the dawn of time, but there is no stronger bond than between a man and his horse on the battlefield.

Narrated by Ronald F. Maxwell, director of the epic films Gettysburg and Gods and Generals, Horses of Gettysburg captures the relationship between soldiers and their horses that they so desperately depended on for survival.

Filmed in high definition with charging horses, battlefield panoramas and no "talking heads," this cinematic documentary tells the story of the 72,000 horses and mules that fought at the Battle of Gettysburg and uncovers the strategies employed to ensure that the millions of animals in service with the North and South remained healthy and well-trained for action.


Horses of Gettysburg celebrates the honor and courage of these four legged warriors and their critical role in shaping the United States of America that we live in today. Order your copy today

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Sugarcoating experiment - Neil Ousterhout
 

In my clicker training I'm a "blender," where I use the some of the more traditional training aids to start a behavior and use the clicker and my shaping skills to fine-tune the behavior. Training that focuses on corrections is not something I have done since I have developed skills with clicker training that let me get the results I wanted a different way. It is not that I don't use corrections or unpleasant consequences in my training, but I try not to put my horse in situations that may require it.

Normally I try to avoid or at least minimize the use of an unpleasant

Consequence when my horse does the wrong behavior. My feeling is that my horses will work harder, respond to lighter cues, and be happier when they work for something to be added such as a food treat or scratch of the withers. These are part of the advantages that positive reinforcement brings to animal training. Using a clicker to mark the behavior is just a tool to help the process.

Many clicker trainers never seem to see past the "sugarcoating" stage in animal training. Sugarcoating is just the addition of the clicker and treats to other more traditional methods of training horses. I wanted to have a better understanding of why trainers sometimes got stuck on sugarcoating and didn't try to incorporate some of the non-traditional techniques unique to with clicker training. So I decided to do an experiment. I trained one of my horses to do a behavior using a commonly-recommended, correction-based approach and simply sugarcoated the right answers with the clicker. The goal of this experiment wasn't so much about how my horse learned as it was about me, the trainer. I wanted to know what was so alluring about sugarcoating!

The behavior I chose for this experiment was standing for the farrier. The approach I used was based on a magazine article written by one of the leading horse training clinicians. The article started with a horse who already knew how to pick up his feet but just was not very good at holding it still. The approach was to pick up the foot, and when the horse held it still, he would set it down and praise or pet the horse to let him know he did it right. If the horse did not hold it still, he would send him out in what he called longeing for respect. This was to show the horse that it was easer to stand still than run around in circles. This fits the philosophy that we all have heard at one time or another of making the right thing easy and wrong thing difficult.

The horse I chose for this experiment was Henry, a sixteen-year-old Appaloosa sport horse that I have had for three years. Henry is a high-energy horse with a checkered past. He has some poor ground manners and is not very good at standing still when his feet are being trimmed. But he is fun to ride so I keep him. His poor ground manners have not been bad enough to motivate me to work with him beyond some basic skills. I thought he would be a good horse for this experiment.

The plan would be to cue Henry to pick up his foot. If he picked it up and held it still, great -- I would click him, set his foot down, and give him a treat. If, however, he did not hold the foot still, then I would send him out for a few laps of lunging as the consequence for not holding the foot still. Simple enough. Kind of like walking and chewing bubble gum at the same time -- or so I thought going into this little experiment.

The right thing easy and the wrong thing difficult is a excellent philosophy and the plan sounded easy on paper, but I found two areas of my training were affected. The first was my timing. I discovered that it was more difficult to focus on watching for both the correct and wrong answers at the same time. Each time I picked up his foot, I had to decide, "Do I click him or lunge him for that?" I found that the extra thought process I had to do slowed down my training and threw off my timing.

Second, I found was I gravitating more towards the consequence aspect of the training. With our human nature being as it is it is much easer to see when things go wrong then when things go right. With the consequence aspect in this training I found that I was more focused on catching his foot moving so I could lunge him again. Rather then the building duration, I wanted to correct him.

In my usual blending of clicker training, the goal would be to train him to want to hold his foot still by reinforcing that behavior. I would have focused on increasing the amount of time he could hold his foot still. Ten seconds, then click... next time fifteen seconds, and so on. With each rep, I would be building the time up, progressing at a pace he could deal with, always clicking before he wanted to move his foot. If I get it wrong and he did move his foot before I clicked, no big deal I just reset and start again. The goal is to train him to want to hold his foot still by reinforcing it.

The end result was that after forty-five minutes, Henry did stand better than he had at the beginning, but the next day he was back to his old self. I saw no long-term improvement. The next day I also saw a slight set back in his already-poor ground manners. He was more pushy than normal.

But the biggest change I saw was in me as a trainer. I found myself less patient with him. When things were not going quite right, I wanted to send him out to do a few lunging circles, just to show him that I'm in charge. Even though I saw no positive long-term effect in with this training, I still wanted to do it.

Now that I did this experiment I have a better understanding of why some people never get past this stage. It is very powerful and reinforcing to us, the humans when you get to correct our horses. You get to stop or change his behavior instantly. Long-term change may or may not occur, but that's secondary to the powerful instant feedback.

Instant feedback is a powerful training aid. That sold me even more on clicker training. Clicker training provides that instant feedback and reinforcement to the HORSE, and it produces the long-term results I want. No need to use the corrections of more traditional training. What better reinforcement is there?
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What the Firewalkers Teach Us About Fear - Dolores Arste

Fire walking in Africa, especially among the !Kung tribe of the Kalahari Desert, has been used in powerful healing ceremonies since their tribal beginnings. The !Kung are master firewalkers, and their ceremonies include rolling on the fire.

One of the first lessons we learn as children: fire burns. For many of us this lesson goes in very deeply, and not only includes the sting of a burn, but translates into a fear of the fire of our own passion, desire, and dreams. Up until 1492, most people believed the world was flat and that if you sailed too far you would fall off of the edge. Christopher Columbus, through his own direct experience, discovered that the world was not flat. Once he returned from his voyages, that belief was changed forever.

Perhaps you've had an accident with a horse. You've imbedded that experience into the very core of your existence. This lesson to runs very deeply. And, even if you have not directly experienced an accident, it is likely that you know or have hear of someone who has. Who cannot be affected by the tragedy of Christopher Reeves.

Our beliefs are our pre-conceived filters for our everyday life. We allow our beliefs to form our reality so that what we believe becomes what we experience. This is what Fire walking is about; it is a metaphor for all of the challenges we normally shrink from. When you learn to walk on fire, you learn that you control your beliefs and therefore your everyday experiences. In learning how to walk unharmed across a bed of red-hot coals, people are really learning how to overcome fear. The fire is meant to stimulate fear. We learn that fear is a belief - in this case an obstacle that is between you and where you want to go. As we step onto the fire, we pass through a membrane of fear, and in doing so, learn to make fear our servant instead of our master. The point is not to deny the fear, but to look at it closely and to see it as something that blocks you from attaining a goal. This close attention enables us to gain the insight that will set us free of our fears.  Step up to the fear and release the emotions that makes your heart pound, your palms sweat and your mind go blank. Visit http://www.zenguidance.com/ to find the support you need today.

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" And that's the way it is ...unless it isn't."  - Dr. Mary Lynch
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June 3, 2006 - Galway, NY
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TAGteach Primary Seminar - Middle Grove, New York

May 6th and 7th 2006

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Teaching with Acoustical Guidance (TAG) is marker-based teaching that uses positive-reinforcement and focused communication skills to enhance skill and behavioral development for students and teacher. The efficiency of this system depends on the use of a distinct non-verbal, marker signal and a step-by-step system for building behavior. This sound becomes an acoustical binary message that is quickly processed by the brain and speeds muscle learning. TAGteach is attracting forward thinking professionals from competitive and recreational sports, special education, physical education, physical rehabilitation, general classroom and management. In this introductory seminar to TAGteaching, attendees will learn the foundation skills they need to bring TAGteach back to their field and begin using it. Participants will be eligible to earn their Primary Certification.  

In addition to the current TAGteach Primary Certification curriculum Dolores Arste, Certified TAGteacher and CEO of Zen Guidance, LLC presents  TAG and the Power of Positive Thinking: Shifting Perspectives. This presentation will focus on how shifting perspectives via tagging/clicking thought will lead to a more harmonious life for folks of all ages.

The focused, positive nature of this method yields immediate and stunning results that are clearly evident. See for yourself with this terrific Video CD - TAGteach Dance CD-ROM Set

Read Lexi's story one teacher's success using Tag                     Watch how it works (lo-res)


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 February Book Recommendation

 

Horsemanship Through Life by Mark Rashid

I first met Mark just before his book “A Good Horse is Never a Bad Color“. We brought him here for the first clinic to be held in our new arena. It is so fascinating as his journey has so much paralleled mine. Different but at the same time so much the same.  

Who would have thought that just a year later I would be dealing with Cadbury and struggling to understand him. And from there to find clicker training, tag teaching and the spirituality that comes from understanding the power of the universe and trusting and letting go. 

This new book is a walk through life. It shows us that we always call to us the horse or horses that will teach us what we need to know at just the time we are ready to learn. I just loved reading about his journey. I have once in awhile corresponded with him with regards to clicker training and I was happy to see a reference to it in the book. I was also pleased to see that he noticed the limitations that some people put on the clicker at the point that they are evangelists about clicker training. Haven’t we all been evangelists about one training method or another at any given time? That is until we find the glass ceiling in the method and are driven to find the answer, which is really within us 

“Seeing things from a different perspective is an extremely important concept for ant horse person. It is widely agreed that one of the biggest assets in successful training is the ability to see thins from the gorse’s point of view. If we can do that one thing, it’s a whole lot easier to accomplish goals with the horse, using the least amount of energy on everybody’s part. “ 

“I think teachers can lose sight of the fact that learning something new can be excruciatingly difficult for their students“  

“When we listen to our horses, we get an education. When we don’t, we get experience“   You can find out more about Mark Rashid visit his website:  http://www.markrashid.com/  

Purchase this book and others at: http://www.zenhorsemanship.com/ 

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 "Most people don't really need advice. They just need support and discipline in doing what they already know works."-Marianne  Williamson

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 Simply Horse Training – Dolores Arste

Does it really all come down to Motivator, Spot, Direction, Reward?  Understand yourself to better understand your horse. 

People often try to explain a horse’s action by comparing and rationalizing them to how a person thinks. Others try to explain a human’s action as if he were a horse. I’d like to submit that, after all a horse is the only expert on the horse, we can only have a second opinion because the horse can’t confirm what any of us think is absolutely right. 

Horses have no value for material things; they have no greed. A dog will bury a bone to have later, a squirrel will store food for winter, and people store goods and valuables for later. People, probably more than any animals are so greedy they hoard treasures and money they may never use. The horse lives entirely for the present moment. Enlightened humans share this thought as well and we would do well to follow the horse’s example in this. 

The horse looks to satisfy their immediate needs, if they can find shelter when needed and satisfy their nutritional needs they can be content. If they have stored excess energy they have a need to exercise. When they feel threatened they respond with whatever means of self-preservation they feel is necessary. The larger share of the horse’s actions come down to these few basic needs. Horses don’t care what the Jones’ down the road are doing. Their peers do not influence them; their appearance doesn’t change with the new styles. They grow long hair for the short days of winter and short hair for long summer days. Their decision-making isn’t based on bettering their future, just taking care of the present. 

A person’s ego is probably one of the horse’s greatest enemies. Horses are non-judgmental, honest mirrors.  Working with horses helps you become aware of confusion, anxieties and limiting beliefs that inhibit your ability to reach your goals.  Working with the horse as a dance partner will clarify your vision and give you words and actions to reach your goals. Training the horse as an employee or slave will give you none of these. 

Horses naturally and primarily use their bodies to "know" the world, and training methods that respond to their socio-sensual way of being are the most effective. Although human beings at this time in history rely heavily on language, we are still wired up, as our ancestors were, to learn things through our bodies that can only be described in language after the fact.  Some examples are: sensing danger, reading the wind before a storm comes, and responding to the look on a child's face.  

Horses are intuitive beings who can show us in an instant when we are fooling ourselves and when we are on the right track. As herd animals who, for their survival, are tuned in to the slightest inconsistency in their environment, they mirror back to us inconsistent behaviors we may not have been aware of -- behaviors that stop us from moving forward in life or moving deeper into our own authenticity.   

Basically horses are motivated by comfort, security. Comfort and security come in all sizes. If you are cold, a warm blanket is comfort. But, if you are hot that same blanket can be torture. You have to keep horse training just that simple. What makes training hard is when you let everything else interfere, other people, other horses, noises, moving objects, etcetera.  

Operant conditioning [OC] is a concept that describes how something the horse does (simply termed behavior) and the environment interacts. Operant behavior exists because it has repeatedly been followed by something in the environment that reinforced it. Or simply put; it worked or it didn’t.  

The reinforcers may be delivered from the fingertips of a clicker trainer, or release of the rein, the realization of leg of the seat or the things that are ongoing in the world may deliver them. A baby’s smile usually results in a mommy picking him up. A friend’s intimate confidence results in attention from her friend. Coins inserted in a soda machine result in the delivery of a soft drink. A lover’s kiss results in arms being wrapped around his neck… or maybe more!

OC occurs everywhere and anywhere there is an organism with the ability to do anything. Look at your spouse or roommate or child. There is OC operating in their interactions with their environments. Look out your window. See that squirrel, that grackle, that sparrow? There is OC at work in those organisms as well. Your dog, your cat, your parrot? There is OC there. See that cockroach, that worm, that ladybug? OC is also guiding their behavior. Even amoebas and germs learn by operant conditioning. Unattached muscle tissue learns by OC. Experiments have demonstrated that muscles in human bodies can be taught to twitch through reinforcement without the owner of that muscle being aware it is happening.  

Look in the mirror. There is OC in the behavior of the person you see there. And, so horse training does become that simple. As Dr Phil is fond of saying “How’s what you are doing working for you?“

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Horses of Gettysburg

Humans have relied on horses since the dawn of time, but there is no stronger bond than between a man and his horse on the battlefield.

Narrated by Ronald F. Maxwell, director of the epic films Gettysburg and Gods and Generals, Horses of Gettysburg captures the relationship between soldiers and their horses that they so desperately depended on for survival.

Filmed in high definition with charging horses, battlefield panoramas and no "talking heads," this cinematic documentary tells the story of the 72,000 horses and mules that fought at the Battle of Gettysburg and uncovers the strategies employed to ensure that the millions of animals in service with the North and South remained healthy and well-trained for action.


Horses of Gettysburg celebrates the honor and courage of these four legged warriors and their critical role in shaping the United States of America that we live in today. Order your copy today

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Be at peace with yourself – Release the resistance. – Find peace with a horse – Dolores Arste 

We often forget that in order to help others thrive and be whole and be the best we can be that we must first be thriving, whole and at the best we can be. To be at our best we must first put on our own oxygen mask and then attend to others.  

The very first thing to do is to stop. Allow your body to be still. Take yourself outside to your horses and find an attractive place in which to be still. Ask permission to visit. Feel the consent, get comfortable, and just be still. Even if your mind is demanding and restless and urging you to "get things done" allow yourself to be still. Give yourself 20 minutes of stillness at least once a day.  

And if you are feeling a bit on the wild side go for 20 minutes of stillness twice a day. When you are outside in a natural place and are still, you are being resynchronized as you entrust yourself to the supportive and loving embrace of nature. Nature is the repository of the common ground of wholeness that you both share. She will replenish and rejuvenate you if you simply place yourself in her presence and allow yourself to be still letting her reconnect you with the wholeness that is inherent in both of you. You don’t necessarily have to do much else. Be there. Be still. And you will recognize again this common place of wholeness. So many things are trying to turn you outward. It is important for you to find a way to turn inward. This inward turn is needed to reconnect with your intuitive, mysterious, magical, soft and brilliant side. It is the light of those qualities that will enable you to love, tend and care for those you wish to nurture into wholeness. This inward turn is what affords patience. It is what internalizes your focus. As you allow your energy to move inward and downward, you concentrate your power and become orderly and efficient as you hold your direction. Allowing your pace and rhythm to match that of the natural place surrounding you lets you experience your peace and wholeness. Be still. Be patient. Be at peace. Be powerful. "We have forgotten what we can count on. The natural world provides refuge…each of us harbors a homeland, a landscape we naturally comprehend. By understanding the dependability of place, we can anchor ourselves just as trees in the pasture. 

It is from this place that the best horse training will occur.

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And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs - Saddle Fitting by Dave

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Just remember - "keep it light - and in the light!" and have lots of FUN!

" And that's the way it is ...unless it isn't."  - Dr. Mary Lynch
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3-Days 3-Horses 3-New Presentations

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Exploring Rabbit Holes and Investigating the Impossible
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Mar 4, 2006 - Galway, NY
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"Do the thing that takes the courage...  decide."   Click Here

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Naked Liberty by Carolyn Resnick

Reviewed for Zen Horsemanship by Kris McCormack

 At first glance, the title and cover illustration of Naked Liberty might give you the impression that you are holding a steamy novel.  But, for a lover of horses, this rich and moving book is better than any steamy novel could ever be.  Why? Because this is a true story about a young girl’s education by horses.

Carolyn Resnick is a lifelong horse trainer, a former breeder of Arabian horses, and an expert in wild horse behavior who has developed and teaches a method of working horses at liberty.  She calls her program “Liberty Training Beyond the Whisper.“  This is true liberty work.   Horse and handler are in an area large enough that the horse can, if he chooses, escape the person’s influence…something that cannot occur in a round pen or picadero.   There are no halters, ropes, reins, or other implements of bondage.  The core of the program is the 7 Waterhole Rituals which are designed to progressively develop the horse’s acceptance, trust, submission, willingness, focus, a desire to match energy in movement, and an ability to perform quickly in all circumstances.   The Rituals enable the person to enter the horse’s world and assume the role of leader, as that is defined by horses.  Since horses are hard wired to follow a leader, if a person is behaving as one, his horse will gladly follow him.   When horses are not being pressured or forced into doing something, but are following a leader of their own free will, they become engaged, enthusiastic partners. This leads to brilliant, expressive performance.  The foundation of this system, of Carolyn’s life’s work, was laid during her childhood experiences with horses.  Naked Liberty details how this gifted horsewoman learned much of what she knows and teaches. 

Carolyn grew up in the desert around Indio, California in the 40’s and 50’s – before the landowners in the area fenced their property.  The horses of Carolyn’s childhood were free to roam.  They did not stray too far from home because, in the desert, they were totally dependent on their humans and their small plots of irrigated pasture for food.  Nevertheless, there were no fences, and if a little girl wanted to go for a ride on her pony, she had to find a way to make that pony *want* to be with her and want to carry her around the desert.   Otherwise, she was plain out of luck.    

How Carolyn got various ponies and horses to do what she wanted or needed them to do of their own free will is the “plot“ of this extraordinary story.  In the course of the book we meet several ponies and horses and confront the problems and challenges they presented to this young trainer.  Through Carolyn’s experiences, we learn the lessons she learned from each of her equine teachers.  And we are beside her in spirit as she begins the task of achieving a goal she has set for herself: to join a band of wild horses and work her way up in the herd hierarchy.

I do not want to write too much, for fear of spoiling the experience for you.  Naked Liberty is a book to be savored.  It is not a how-to book although there is a lot of horse wisdom in its 200+ pages.  I am reading the book for the second time and am amazed at how much “new“ material I am finding.  And I am surprised to find myself moved to tears, even the second time around.   It is one of the few books I think I will be reading again and again.                 

 You can find out more about Carolyn's work at her website http://www.beyondthewhisper.com/

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Making Two Ends Meet - Some Thoughts on Equine Dentistry

Birgit Schipper 

Can you tell a horse's approximate age by looking into his mouth? Sure, basically the form of his front teeth indicate its age, right? In a young horse, the front teeth are aligned almost vertically, while the older horse the smaller the angle at which the front teeth are meet, isn’t it?

Well, according to recent findings not necessarily: the front teeth (incisors) of wild horses will usually be aligned in a way that the front teeth meet almost vertically - regardless of the horse's age. So what, you might say - does that make any difference? Oh yes, it makes a world of a difference to the horse! 

Let us consider for a moment the function of the front teeth: they primarily serve to bite off grass, lots of and different types of grass. This cutting of the grass is most efficiently performed by teeth with sharp edges, i.e. when the incisors meet more or less vertically. So if nature provided this efficient system for a young horse, why would it fade out this efficiency in an older horse? Well, nature does not, us humans do!

The unnatural conditions in which we keep our horses do this. In the wild, the horse would feed on grasses of much less nutritional value than the grass in our pastures, which means it has to cut off much more of it; and, these grasses are usually made of much harder fibers than pasture grass. Add to this that a horse (in the wild) will use its front teeth also to nibble off bark from trees as well as dig for roots and minerals. All these factors contribute to a natural wear of the front teeth. In other words, the front teeth for cutting (incisors) and the back teeth for chewing (molars) the food get worn down evenly. In order to balance the wear, the teeth of a horse continually erupt by about 3 mm per year. 

Things are quite different for our domestic horses:

¾          The least percentage of their daily food involves actual biting off food (eating hay does not include cutting off the grass!)

¾          On the pastures, the grass is much softer than in the wild (and also of much higher nutritional value).

¾          The share of grain and corn in what we daily feed our domestic horses is much higher than in the wild, both being hard materials which add to the wear on the molars.

¾          Some horse dentists file down sharp edges and hooks on the molars, while neglecting the length of the incisors. 

Can you imagine the result? There is lack of wear on the incisors, while on the same time the molars get worn down. In other words, the front teeth will get too long, actually holding the molars too far apart to meet.  

Try this for a moment: In your own mouth, place your upper front teeth right on the lower front teeth. Can you feel the gap between the chewing surfaces of the molars in the rear of your mouth? Now take a strip of chewing gum, put it between the chewing surfaces of your molars and start chewing, while still keeping your front teeth aligned on each other! Can you feel the pressure on your front teeth, while at the same time chewing is really hard and yet quite ineffective, because you just cannot bring the teeth of the upper and the lower jaw into contact? Can you imagine That is exactly the situation for our horses, when their front teeth get too long!

There is even more to it: after some time, the long front teeth will no longer be able to withstand the continuous pressure and begin to yield forward, slowly but steadily. Until in an older horse, the long-time pressure will have pressed the front teeth visibly forward. 

The tension created in and around the horse’s mouth will also affect a horse’s well-being in numerous aspects, some of which you would never have attributed to his teeth. For more details you may want to read  Nancy Camp‘s “What Every Rider Needs to Know about Equine Dentistry“. 

But there is also good news: Keeping your horse's teeth (molars and incisors) on a regular dental maintenance to balance the wear will take off the unnecessary pressure on the horse and even allow the teeth to return to their original orientation. There is a way of return!

Does Positive Reinforcement Really Work?

Kellie Snider  

“You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.“  -Everybody’s Grandma

 “Positive reinforcement is defined by what the other person does, not by what you do.“

Aubrey Daniels, author of Other People’s Habits

When my children were at the potty training age, I looked high and low for a good guide to potty training.  There weren’t many to choose from.  One book suggested giving a child an M&M every time he sat on his potty seat and claimed that pretty soon he would begin to relieve himself there.  Right.  I doled out quite a few M&Ms in the bathroom, but my first child did not seem to have any clue that there was a relationship between the candy and his bodily functions, or else he didn’t care.  (And since he really preferred fruit to chocolate, I ate way too many M&Ms in the process!)  The worst thing was that pretty soon he began to resist going into the bathroom at all.  Clearly the book overlooked teaching me some fundamental details about positive reinforcement.   

 “Oh, I tried positive reinforcement.  It didn’t work.“  I have come into contact with several people who claimed to have given up on clicker training with their dogs or on using positive reinforcement in changing their children’s behavior because they tried it and nothing happened.  But did they really use positive reinforcement?  Or were they just doling out M&Ms? 

 The definition of positive reinforcement states that a behavior is followed by a consequence called a reinforcer and results in a future increase in the rate of that behavior.  The consequence, of course, must come after the behavior happens.  And the consequence must cause the behavior to happen more often in the future.  Otherwise it’s not positive reinforcement in the first place. 

 A reinforcer can be anything that follows a behavior and makes the behavior’s rate increase.  It’s not just food.  It’s not just toys.  And especially it’s not just praise.  It could be any of those, and just about anything else you can think of.  Every individual has a unique collection of experiences that will reinforce certain behaviors for that individual.  One reinforcer may not work in every situation or at different times in the learner’s life.  And one individual’s reinforcer may seem just weird as can be to someone else.  It has to be something that really works to increase the rate of behavior for that person in that situation to be called a reinforcer.   

 The consequence must come after the behavior happens. In every day lingo, the term ‘consequences’ is sometimes loaded.  When we hear someone say, “There will be consequences!“ we have learned to expect something unpleasant to happen.  But consequences are really just events that happen after and in relation to some behavior.  So the behavior and the consequence have to be related in time.  

 The behavior must happen more often in the future.  More importantly, the consequences must result in an increase in the behavior.  If the behavior doesn’t increase, no positive reinforcement took place.  You can’t accurately say it didn’t work if it didn’t even happen to begin with. 

But why wouldn’t giving a child an M&M increase his doing his business on the potty, especially if he likes and will eat M&Ms?  Why wouldn’t giving a dog a Milkbone increase his sitting on cue?  There are several things to consider.  In his directed learning textbook for college students, Principles of Everyday Behavior Analysis**, Keith Miller describes four principles of effective reinforcers.  They are Deprivation, Immediacy, Size and Contingency.  To make it easier to remember, their first letters spell the word DISC.

 Deprivation.  In order to be effective, your learner must be deprived of the item you plan to use as a reinforcer.  When we talk about deprivation, it doesn’t mean that he has to be starved for 2 days before you can train him.  It just has to mean he hasn’t had so much of the thing you’re offering him that he’s not tired of it, too full or just not interested in it any more.  Your dog may love Scooby Snacks, but if he’s just eaten the whole pot roast you left on the kitchen counter, chances are he’s not going to be that hungry.  He has to be at least a little bit deprived of the thing (or type of thing) you’re offering him.  If your dog has just eaten a lot of food, you’ll have to find some other kind of reinforcer to use that he hasn’t just had too much of.  Attention, a favorite toy that he doesn’t usually get to play with, going on a walk or riding in the car could work.  If your learner is not deprived of one reinforcer think of another thing he likes and see if that works.

 Immediacy.  The sooner the reinforcer is delivered after the behavior, the better chance there is of it being effective.  If you deliver a reinforcer too late, you might accidentally reinforce what the learner was up to when you finally got the prize delivered.  For example, if a student, Little Kim finally succeeds in getting a math problem right and her teacher gives her a sticker 5 minutes later when she is talking to Little Josie, what behavior is most likely to be reinforced?  Yep.  Talking with Josie.  Not the behavior the teacher wanted to see increased. 

As adults we are used to waiting for our reinforcers.  We work for a week or two… or even a month… before we see a paycheck for our efforts.  As a freelance writer I've sometimes waited 7 or 8 months, or even a year to be paid for writing I've done!  The paycheck works to keep us going to work.  But with young learners and animals time is of the essence.  The truth is that with adult learners the very same thing is usually true, even though we’ve learned to wait for reinforcement in some situations when the reinforcer is really valuable.  We may persist at working for pay that won’t show up for several weeks, but what happens to our day-to-day work quality if that’s the only reinforcer we get?  If you want the reinforcers you deliver to be effective, get them to your workers and learners as fast as possible.

Size.  Well, you have to give Dr. Miller credit for finding a word that works in the DISC acronym, but size isn’t all we’re talking about here.  Size is only part of it.

Size refers to how worthwhile the thing we want to use as a reinforcer is for the learner.  How large or how many pieces of a reinforcer there are is part of it.  Most learners will choose the larger reinforcer.  If your horse won’t work for a 1/2“ slice of carrot, try a 1“ slice.****               

But size isn’t the only thing that makes a thing worthwhile.  If you’re using an activity as a potential reinforcer, it should be something the learner enjoys doing.  If it’s food, it should be food the learner likes a lot.  (In my potty training example above, had my overall training skills been better, I probably would have had better luck training with bits of fruit rather than M&Ms with my son.) 

 But liking it ain't enough.  Even if your learner really likes what you’re trying out as a reinforcer, it has to be something he is willing to work for.  If he’s not willing to work for it, it’s not a reinforcer.  Sometimes a learner will appear to be quite fond of something, but still not work for it.  In that case it isn’t a reinforcer.  Try something else! 

 Contingency.  This is an important one!  When we’re talking about behavior, contingency refers to a relationship between behavior and the consequence.  What Miller says is that the consequence has to happen if and only if the behavior occurs.  If a teenager does the dishes and his mother says, “Thank you!  Now you can watch TV!“ the television viewing won’t be very effective as a reinforcer if the kid has free access to the TV any time he chooses to watch it.  He can always watch TV, so what’s the big deal about doing the dishes?  But if there is a family rule that TV viewing is doled out in relation to performance, and if the child enjoys watching TV (remember the size/worthwhile principle!) then it is much more likely to act as a reinforcer. 

The bottom line is that positive reinforcement always works.  You just have to be sure that what you’re delivering is really positive reinforcement.     

Copyright, 2004  Kellie Snider December 12, 2004 Reprinted with Permission of Author

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What about the Book?

Dolores Arste 

When we learn a horsemanship method, there is a tendency to treat that method as universal truth. And as part of any learning process we may encounter a certain amount of frustration or . "Stuckness". Part of the learning entails how to get beyond that place of being “stuck“. How does one learn how to cope and/or deal with such difficulties and frustration. Learning horsemanship is a lifetime process. We'll never get it done because within each new learning is the desire to learn even more. What we do with that, whether we let it carry us on to a new level, or whether we let it hold us back, is completely up to us... and more specifically, a matter of our perception.

Robert M. Pirsig wrote a book which many people claim has changed their lives, titled " Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry into Values." An interesting book, on the quality of "Stuckness." , he uses the process of repairing a motorcycle as a sort of metaphor for the larger issues of life.

"A screw sticks, for example, on a side cover assembly. You check the manual to see if there might be any special cause for this screw to come off so hard, but all it says is "Remove side cover plate" in that wonderful terse technical style that never tells you what you want to know. There's no earlier procedure left undone that might cause the cover screws to stick.

"Your mind was already thinking ahead to what you would do when the cover plate was off, and so it takes a little time to realize that this irritating minor annoyance of a torn screw slot isn't just irritating and minor. You're stuck. Stopped. Terminated. It's absolutely stopped you from fixing the motorcycle.

"This isn't a rare scene in science or technology. This is the commonest scene of all. Just plain stuck. In traditional maintenance this is the worst of all moments, so bad that you have avoided even thinking about it before you come to it.

"The book's no good to you now. Neither is scientific reason. You don't need any scientific experiments to find out what's wrong

" It's a miserable experience emotionally. You're losing time. You're incompetent. You don't know what you're doing. You should be ashamed of yourself

"It's normal at this point for the fear-anger syndrome to take over and make you want to hammer on that side plate with a chisel, to pound it off with a sledge hammer if necessary.

"It's just outrageous that a tiny little slot of a screw can defeat you so totally.

"You need some ideas, some hypotheses. Traditional scientific method, unfortunately, has never quite gotten around to say exactly where to pick up more of these hypotheses. Traditional scientific method has always been at the very best, 20-20 hindsight. It's good for seeing where you've been. It's good for testing the truth of what you think you know, but it can't tell you where you ought to go,.

"We're still stuck on that screw and the only way it's going to get unstuck is by abandoning further examination of the screw according to traditional scientific method. That won't work. What we have to do is examine traditional scientific method in the light of that stuck screw.

"The difference between a good mechanic and a bad one, like the difference between a good mathematician and a bad one, is precisely this ability to select the good facts from the bad ones on the basis of quality. He has to care!"

"If you want to build a factory, or fix a motorcycle, or set a nation right without getting stuck, then classical, structured, dualistic subject-object knowledge, although necessary, isn't enough. You have to have a sense of what's good. That is what carries you forward. This sense isn't just something you're born with, although you are born with it. It's also something you can develop. It's not just "intuition", not just unexplainable "skill" or "talent". It's the direct result of contact with basic reality, Quality, which dualistic reason has in the past tended to conceal."

"The solution to the problem often at first seems unimportant or undesirable, but the state of stuckness allows it, in time, to assume its true importance. It seemed small because your previous rigid evaluation which led to the stuckness made it small.

"But now consider the fact that no matter how hard you try to hang on to it, this stuckness is bound to disappear. Your mind will naturally and freely move toward a solution.

"Stuckness shouldn't be avoided. It's the psychic predecessor of all real understanding. An egoless acceptance of stuckness is a key to an understanding of all Quality, in mechanical work as in other endeavors."

We can relate all of these quotes from a point of  “what works“ and how well is it working for us and the horse. If its not working, we need to look outside the box or outside the book or outside the method. Sometimes the answer will be found in the passing muse that we heard years ago. Maybe it didn’t make sense then. But all of a sudden that though comes racing back and we make it our own in our own situation that we find ourselves in. Nothing is really new. Its just restated, reprocessed and put into a format that we can understand in the context of what we know now.

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Just remember - "keep it light - and in the light!" and have lots of FUN!

" And that's the way it is ...unless it isn't."  - Dr. Mary Lynch
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This month the focus of the newsletter is on Well-being and Being well. We all talk about motivators. And whether you are using the release of pressure or a treat for or both for a job well done, we must always include that the primary reinforcement for all living creatures is that of safety. That sense of knowing that all is well and that no matter what, we’ll be OK. For this reason, I am including two books for our arsenal of awareness this month. The first is by spiritual healer Pamela Au. Listen as she speaks of the parallels of feeling in horses and in humans. The second is long time instructor and author Mary Wanless. I’ll bet all of you reading this newsletter have picked up a copy of one or more of her books. Ride with Your Mind focuses on building a clear mental concept of how it “ought to be”. Changes in the horse and rider can often be profound when deep listening occurs while both come from a place of presence and peace in knowing safety in each other.  – Dolores Arste

Find these books and others that will improve your riding and ground skills at: http://www.zenhorsemanship.com/

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Zen and the Horse

Body, Mind and Spiritual Unity through the Art of Equitation

by Pamela J.G. Au

 

Character

 Every horse has a lesson to teach us.   Some horses are explosive by nature, while others may be lazy or cautious, thinkers or daydreamers.  By understanding the subtle differences, we can make adjustments in the application of proper riding and training techniques to aid in clearer communication and to avoid confrontations with the horse.   With this experience, we become equipped with the tools to better understand different types of people in a variety of circumstances.  This allows us to respond in a way that is conducive to the circumstance, instead of reacting without thought.  Let's expound on that. 

Suppose you own a six-year-old thoroughbred mare.  She raced for a few years and then was sold to a beginner.  After a year of frustration and injury, the beginner put her up for sale.   She is a nervous but obedient horse with occasional mood swings.  She is talented.  You love her. 

You take her out and groom her, only to find a new cut or scrape on her in the most unusual places.   When you ride her, she trips over her own feet.  Obviously, she is not traveling in balance.  Improper training and handling, along with a lack of understanding, are contributing factors to the horse’s lack of balance and insecurities.

If you pressure her, watch out, for she may explode with a temper tantrum.  If it is one of her better days, she may give you impulsion that can unseat you.  Her previous owners neglected her.  This created in her a lack of trust for human companionship.  What a challenge this type of horse is.  In most cases, they end up going from one owner to the next, where they may eventually meet their doom.

To make progress training this type of horse, first, trust needs to be reestablished.  This is accomplished by building confidence.  Patience, compassion, and proper schooling are essential to begin the re-schooling process.  Confidence is gained by reestablishing her natural balance.  She now is comfortable carrying the rider. Once the pain and discomfort is removed, there is no need for her to panic and run out of balance.  The trainer replaces fear with confidence. Building confidence encourages her to trust in the rider or trainer.  She now can perform within her level of ability. 

The training of a horse must progress in a way that allows physical and mental development to be built upon the previous level of training.  Each stage of training supports the next. You cannot expect a two-year-old to have the concentration, balance and skill of an eight-year-old, nor can you expect a horse in training level to execute a flying lead change or extended trot.  These movements are too advanced for the level of mental and physical development.

To force or manipulate the horse before it is ready will make it lose confidence and trust in the rider or trainer.  Most likely, this is reflected by a refusal to cooperate. The horse simply cannot do what is asked.  At this point, the rider or trainer must be detached emotionally from the defiance in the horse.  Simply ask again in a precise, calm manner.  Communication must be implemented properly and clearly within the capability of the horse.  By riding and training this way, the horse regains trust and confidence in its ability to perform and in its relationship with the rider.

In comparison, let us say you have a son with a similar personality.  Maybe he is 8 years old.  He is sensitive and his ego bruises easily.    He has a strong need to express himself.  He stutters when trying hard to communicate.  He competes with his older brother, causing frustration.  This develops into a lack of confidence.  Minor cuts and bruises mysteriously appear on him.  While playing ball, he trips over his own feet for lack of balance.   He is a strong-willed individual.

Letting him surpass a small challenge within his level of ability establishes self-confidence.  Developing self-confidence builds trust not only in one's self but also in the surrounding environment.  The more trust established, the more confidence develops.  Both attributes work hand in hand.

When discipline is required, a firm yet direct approach, without pressure, yields results.    Mean what you say and follow through with the necessary actions.  Discipline that is too lenient becomes an advantage, but applying forceful action will cause panic.

A frightened or insecure horse starts to run, fall on its forehand, change gait, or pick up speed to avoid confrontation.  In the same way, an individual may lash out verbally, cower, become emotionally unstable, or shed tears due to insecurity.  At this point, no learning takes place. 

A horse's personality/temperament is as individual as a man's.  We do not get along with some horses, while we are attracted to others.  The same is true of people.  There are those with whom we do not care to associate and others with whom we resonate.  We can be frank with some people, while others may easily take offense.  Some horses need firm discipline while others would feel hurt or rejected by strong discipline.

Occasionally, a rider's ego refuses to respect the subtle differences of personality.  A mare that is in season, for example, may exhibit a resistance or stubbornness that may irritate or annoy the rider.  Refusing to understand and look at the situation clearly, force is applied in efforts to manipulate the situation.  Instead of complying, the horse rebels against any forceful action with superior intentions.  This is nature's way.  At this point, the frustrated rider feels powerless and loses control.   The horse senses the rider's loss of power and most likely takes advantage of the situation. The result is an unproductive battle of wills.

A child who does not get his way immediately responds with a temper tantrum. The ego of man is like the child.   He rebels against being powerless.  He refuses to succumb to authority.  The authority in this case is nature.  Learn to be flexible and feel the subtle differences of personalities.  Recognize the signs of powerlessness.  Then, you will know  “right action.”

Right action is critical, whether it be riding horses or being in a heated discussion with your spouse.  This skill is a foundation for developing harmonious relationships and bonding with your horse.  From this foundation, it becomes easier to understand and abide by natural law.

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Ride with your Mind By Mary Wanless

 Mary encourages riders to think of their body-mind system like a musical instrument; before they can learn to play music with it they must firstly learn how to tune it. But, most riders want to play complicated music without ever having done this, and as a result there is always discord  Like the strings of a violin, the muscles of the body can be too tight or too loose, and different muscle groups might need different adjustments. The mind too can be under focused, where is perceives a large amount of information as a blur, or it can be in the state of over focus which comes from trying too hard. Very, very few people have naturally the right “tuning” in either body or mind, and developing this is the primary challenge facing us as riders. Finding it makes riding – and learning to ride – very much easier than most people believe it is. For some it makes the apparently impossible become possible; for others, it adds ease, grace and an intuitive understanding of how to approach each horse’s problems. If also opens the door to many other skills, and it you let it it has the potential to change the quality of your life ________________________________________________________________________
 

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Zen Clicker Horsemanship - A Holistic Approach

Zen clicker horsemanship strives to take riding into a realm of deeper spiritual awareness and growth where it becomes an art form.  It incorporates all the systems of the horse holistically. This includes body, mind and spirit of both horse and rider/owner. 

Each individual handling and riding a horse has a responsibility.  This is one of nurturing, training and communicating. It is a mutual understanding based on trust and being polite.  Communication is precise and the results are happy horses willing to work for their owners/riders. 

Many of the problems associated with riding and being with horses originate from the rider.  As long as the horse is sound, the rider is of utmost importance to allow for communication and relaxation.  The rider communicates through the seat, leg, hand and voice aids.  If these are not in harmony with the rhythm of the horse, if there is tension in the body the communication is not clear and you have a frustrated horse and rider. 

Riding is about balance and feel.  If you are out of balance you can’t feel the rhythm of the horse. If you are holding tension you cannot be in the best balance., And, cannot interpret what the horse is telling you.  When you are in balance, meaning sitting in your center as well as the horse’s center of gravity, the energy running through the spine aligns and connects from heaven's energy to earth's energy.  This opens a channel and allows clarity of mind or empty mind.  This state of mind nurtures a reception center for receiving communication from your horse and the environment.  You are better able to sense or read what the horse is thinking about before he has a chance to react. In the deep listening at these times, together you are able to respond or to think first. This creates a safer atmosphere for you and your horse.   

This holistic approach opens a doorway into understanding and connecting with the horse at a level of oneness.  All living things are influenced by a life force that flows in and around us.  When a balanced rider synchronizes their “Ki” or life force with that of the horse, harmony and a clear line of communication is the result.  Both are working towards the same goal instead of in opposition. Applied awareness to all that we do nurtures an atmosphere of growth.    

Your horse has an energy system, both physical and etheric. The system encompasses the chakra centers.  These centers hold the memory of the past and present emotional traumas.  Any aspect of emotional energy that has not been healed or released affects the health and mental state of the entire being.  

 There are many reasons for the energy system of the equine to become sluggish, blocked or broken.  Chronic pain, poorly fitted tack, improper hoof maintenance, unbalanced riding, poor nutrition, stress or an emotional habit creates a blockage in the energy system.  If left unattended, eventually lameness or other physical discomforts manifest.

Symptoms may include but are not limited to; uneven gait, pain, lack of enthusiasm, evasions and spooking. 

The horse naturally is wired for flight or fight.  If he is in pain or discomfort or a frustrating situation, he will choose one of the two options or both. This can manifest in the form of shying, stopping, bolting, bucking, and much more.  These are within the horse whatever the horse feels it needs for self-preservation at the present moment. 

Energy-therapy can help to locate areas of distress in the body as well as recharge the cellular structure.  It is a slow release of trapped emotional energy associated with trauma or discomfort.   

Think of it as an electrical current running through the body.  You cannot see these currents but if the current hits a frayed or broken wire, the current becomes weak or dispersed.  It manifests itself physically by symptoms of fatigue, weakness or illness. Energy balancing mends the frays and restores a complete circuit of the life force allowing the body to heal itself

If the cause of the imbalance is not corrected, it is only a temporary relief.  In most cases, poorly fitted tack, improperly shod or trimmed hooves, and poor riding, training and miscommunications are the major causes of these imbalances.   

With a holistic approach to riding and training your horse, these imbalances can correct itself over time if the cause is recognized and corrected.  The more you ride in balance with your horse and allow the horse to carry itself in balance with the rider, the less you as a rider interfere with what the horse knows how to do naturally.  The result is a release of trapped emotional energy, pain and discomfort for both the horse and the rider.  Riding and communicating with your horse becomes effortless.

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 Physioballs – The Easy and Cheap way get ready to ride

Are you looking for ways to improve the biomechanics of your riding? Could you use some training, which will increase your balance and stability? Would you love to own a horse but cannot afford to? Would you be willing to settle for the next best thing? Or are you temporarily grounded, and wanting some off-horse activity, which has the potential to enhance your riding?

The answer to all of the above lies in a physioball. Very cheap to keep, they take no feeding, and no mucking out. They roll you off, but they never buck you off. For - as you will realize if you let yourself loose on a ball - the vast majority of horses are courteous enough to hold you up when you lose your balance, whilst physioballs are not! Physioballs are commonly used for patients who need training in spinal stabilization. One of the reasons for this is that playing with the balls is so much fun that patients actually do their homework. Exercise that makes you stabilize your spine strengthens the muscles, which surround it, and this often leads to a reduction in pain for those who are recovering from injury. Physioballs are available in three sizes from http://www.evacperformance.com/

And, Don't forget to contact us for all of your saddle fitting needs - Saddle Fitting by Dave

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Just remember - "keep it light - and in the light!" and have

lots of FUN!

" And that's the way it is ...unless it isn't."  - Dr. Mary Lynch
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Come visit us at:  Pa Horse Expo - Feb 24 - 26, 2006

3-Days 3-Horses 3-New Presentations

And coming in May 2006

Tag Teach Certification Workshop

When you visit the barn are you full of worry or fear? Is your horse a partner or a task. We specialize in creating the partnerships of a lifetime. A rider who rides without a care and a horse any parent would buy for their child for any event they desire. Let us help you! Visit: http://www.zenhorsemanship.com/

This newsletter is a product of Zen Guidance, it may be freely distributed intact with all credits in place.
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No.3 / September 2005

Right from the Start

Five Rules - Rule #5    Michael Schaffer  

Sidebar; "Many repetitions followed by positive reinforcement are required for true learning 

In essence, this rule really just says to take the time to follow all the other rules. How much time? Well, it could be moments or it could be months, but that isn't important. Its important that the rules are followed, not how long the process takes. It is not necessary to fix everything today; It's not necessary to fix anything today. 

A strongly ingrained notion of the equestrian culture is that corrections must be made immediately. The theory is that unless the horse is promptly punished for aberrant behavior, he will learn that he can "get away with it" and forever be spoiled as a mount. Nonsense! Horses do not learn after only one or two repetitions of any behavior. Many repetitions followed by positive reinforcement are required for true learning-whether it's good or bad. Otherwise, Grand Prix horses would be made in a week. 

Yes, of course, it's "best" to always correct a problem as it occurs and end on a good note; however, there will be times when the solution eludes us and the ride just has to end. There's no rush. Training problems are like dinner dishes left in the sink; they're still there in the morning. Keep that in mind and take a night to ponder a new approach or two. The problem may prove much less severe tomorrow. 

Problems really come in only two varieties, technical and behavioral. A technical problem consists of difficulty teaching something new. Although riders sometimes become frustrated because a horse doesn't understand a particular training method, I think these problems are actually fun. They are opportunities to figure out new, and often better, methods. Many of the training techniques I describe later in the book are simply the result of my having had to figure out a different approach to get a horse to understand a new concept.  

To fix behavioral problems, just remind your horse that he is supposed to soften to the hand and leg, then you can help him find his balance again and you'll be amazed at how quickly these problems disappear.  

Regardless of the nature of the specific problem the procedure to fix it remains the same. First, figure out which basic you think is going wrong and then pick an exercise with a reasonable chance to fix it. For example, if a horse continually ends up by the in-gate when he's supposed to be doing school figures, he's not running for the gate (although it may seem that way). He's falling out. Take a few minutes to fix the falling out and then go back to riding the figures. A horse that is anticipating or getting worried about flying changes may be picking up speed and trying to rush through the change. He is rushing through the aids. Forget about the changes for awhile follow rule number 3 and make the horse soft again. Perhaps work on half-halts, counter bend in the canter, maybe even some canter-walk transitions followed by some simple changes. When the horse will canter across the diagonal and half-halt in response to just the touch of your seat, he is ready to try a flying change again.  

Rather than worry about accomplishing things today, look at the big picture. A well-trained horse should be useful until well into his twenties. Whether he is a youngster or a teenager, spending a few minutes, days, or weeks to find and correct the root of a problem should return years of use and enjoyment. I don't know a better investment of time and effort. It's like putting a hundred dollars into the bank once and then being able to withdraw a hundred dollars from it whenever you want and as often as you want for the next ten or twelve years  

There is another benefit too. It is quite impossible to solve a behavioral or technical problem without learning something new or arriving at a deeper understanding of the basics. So, by taking enough time to figure out and fix them correctly, you not only make your horse a better horse for the rest of his life but you make yourself a better rider for the rest of yours.   (excerpted from the October book recommendation "Right from the Start" by Michael Schaffer)

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Smoothing Out the Rough Edges
Elizabeth Hatch

It rained last night. Stepping out into a rain-washed country morning, I am struck by the clarity of the scents and sights - the leaves are just starting to turn from green to gold. The horses meander across the pasture, lean pickings following a dry summer, but still green and growing; still enough to keep from needing to break out the winter hay.  

We live on 420th Street in rural Minnesota. The straight, sandy gravel of the lane that, in slower more patient times, used to carry the moniker "Sinkhole Road" runs right by our pasture. After last night's rainfall, I can see that it won't be long until the grader is along to pack fill into the potholes and smooth out the now washboard-like road. Until it finishes its job, the road won't be pleasant to drive on.  

Smoothing out the rough edges seems to be a necessary part of life; a necessary part of keeping travel possible; a necessary prerequisite to illumination. Recently a student asked me why I have chosen to train using positive reinforcement in general, and food in particular. I see both things as a smoothing of the road that I and the animal are traveling on. 

In animal training, it can sometimes be necessary to smooth out the rough edges of emotion before you can get any training done. Because of the horse's evolutionary background as a fleet-footed avoidance machine (prey animal), negative emotions like fear, anxiety and worry are frequently a normal part of a horse's emotional makeup. In situations where the horse has been inappropriately treated, angry and defensive behaviors including biting, kicking or threatening to do so can become normal coping mechanisms for the animal. It can be difficult to accomplish anything in training until some of the emotions that drive these types of behaviors are addressed. 

Because horses, like most animals, are very quick to make emotional associations, a horse owner may find that he or she is willy-nilly paired with unpleasant associations from the animal's past. When this happens, the road to communication between the horse and the human is often blocked, and not much can be accomplished until the horse's feelings are addressed in a positive way. So often we are tempted to resort to punishment to solve such behavior problems. I'm going to argue that this is counterproductive, and suggest a way to circumvent this downward spiraling cycle to achieve positive results. 

First, a technical definition: the word punishment often carries connotations of revenge and wrath-full interactions. However, in the behavioral sense, punishment is simply the administration of an aversive consequence that suppresses a behavioral response. Notice I did not say an "unwanted" behavioral response. The truth is that punishment suppresses behavior. The problem with punishment as a training strategy is that it can be rather unpredictable as to which behavior it will suppress. Using punishment is often a bit like swatting a mosquito with a 12 lb cannon. You may get the mosquito, but the unintended side effects may be more comprehensive than you'd planned. Or - you may totally miss the mosquito, but still be left with the side effects. 

An even more unfortunate consequence of punishment-based training methods has been noted by author and researcher Murray Sidman. In his book, Coercion and Its Fallout, Sidman argues persuasively against the regular use of punishment in training. In situations where a person or animal has been coerced into doing something they really prefer not to do (through punishment), the person who has administered the punishment runs a grave risk of  becoming an aversive in their own right. To put this into rubber-meets-the-road terms, if you punish your horse with a good smack every time he gets fidgety in the crossties, you are very likely making yourself into a person the horse would frankly rather avoid. The risk of this result increases the more you use the smack to get the horse to stop moving around. Furthermore, if your smack isn't stopping the behavior from happening, you need to take a step back and ask yourself whether there might not be some more effective intervention you could try. 

The flip side of Sidman's findings is that if your horse discovers that being with you results in an increase of positive interactions, you can increase his affinity for you. Please do not assume I am claiming that all of your problems will be solved if you indiscriminately hand out horse treats and do not insist on respectful behavior from your horse. I am not. As Susan Garrett, the noted author of Ruff Love, has stated repeatedly, "Positive does not mean permissive". However, I do want to discuss briefly how learning happens, and how you can use positive reinforcement to improve your horse's emotional state as well as helping to set your horse up to learn faster when you are teaching new behaviors. 

As behavior research has unfolded over the years, it has become clear that a simple stimulus-response model is not at all an apt way of describing the process of learning. All learning occurs on a spectrum running from simple reflexive associations (Respondent Conditioning, a la Pavlov's dogs) to complex patterns of behavior where the subject "operates" on the environment (Operant Conditioning, a la Skinner's rats).  

Ultimately, food and other positive reinforcers more or less pave the way (on the respondent conditioning end of the spectrum) for the positive relationship between you and the horse. Food is a natural tranquilizer anyway; you may as well use it on your own (and the horse's) behalf. Once the relationship begins to be established, you start moving over towards the operant end of the spectrum, at which point the food serves as INFORMATION-not as a bribe. The animal begins to respond to you or to his environment in some way, and if it is a behavior you like, you pay him for doing it. It doesn't take long for him to realize that he can get you to "pay out" when he does this behavior. 

With some animals, you can actually build the relationship WHILE you work on the operant end of the spectrum. However, with some, you must start by working far over on the respondent scale and gradually work your way over to the operant. Examples of animals in this category might include those that are naturally wary, wild, or completely undomesticated, or with animals that have been neglected, under socialized or abused in some way.  

Learning new things is always stressful for the learner at some level, and different animals will act out on that frustration in different ways. Horses can become aggressive, acting out their emotional baggage by biting or kicking, an innate response in some animals.  However, a trainer can inadvertently cause this response by being insensitive to the animal's confusion and introducing punishment for what they (often) see as obstinacy, spite or even defiance. The animal learns to expect the punishment at times when she is confused, and the association can cause an angry, aggressive response. 

In either case, a horse like this one is one is going to require a fair amount of respondent work and extreme care with the operant-based training-to make sure that she understands how to operate her "personal vending machine" (the trainer). The trainer of such a horse must pay especially close and careful attention to breaking the learning task down into very small "slices" of behavior. As the horse begins to trust the human's commitment to positive reinforcement and the relationship between horse and human grows, we may find that her ability to handle frustration (and our often improper "lumping" together of these behavior slices) will get better. At worst, the horse will continue to be difficult, but the trainer will learn some important lessons from the horse, not least of which is the skill of breaking behaviors down into easily accomplished learning tasks. 

In the short run, though, the respondent rules with this type of horse.  This translates into a need for caution on the part of the trainer, both on her own behalf, for safety reasons, and also on the horse's behalf for understanding reasons. As a training strategy for these types of problems, the correct use of food as a positive reinforcer can be extremely beneficial. 

Some basic rules for the use of food in horse training: 

1)       The horse must learn not to grab at the trainer to get the treat. This may initially require working with the horse across a barrier, for safety reasons while the horse learns to keep his mouth (and head) in his own space. This should be the first lesson every horse learns anyway.

2)       The food should never be used indiscriminately. It should always serve to inform the horse as to which behaviors are more valuable to you, the trainer (i.e., result in payment). Think before you give out food treats.

3)       For an extremely mouthy horse, it may be necessary at first to deliver treats to a bucket or other receptacle. As the horse learns how to take treats from your hand politely, as well as to keep his head out of your space, you may be able to begin delivering them by hand. A clicker can be very helpful for this process, as you can clearly mark the moment when the horse is using his lips and tongue to get the treat rather than his teeth.

4)       Use food the horse will work for in the environment in which you are training. Your horse may work fine for his oats in his stall, but if you are working in an arena with other horses around, you may need to use pieces of apple or carrot coins, small handfuls of sweet feed or other horse treats to keep him motivated.

5)       Work when your horse is hungry enough to care about getting the treats, but not so hungry that he is consumed with eating. If your horse has become overweight, you may find it hard to motivate him with food treats.

6)       Use the reinforcers that are available to you. Spend some time teaching your horse that free grazing is something he must work for if he's with you. Don't allow him to graze in hand without clear permission, and work at teaching him to stop grazing on command.

7)       Don't be afraid to reinforce at a very high rate when teaching new behaviors. Remember that your horse needs to be successful about 80 - 90% of the time in order to really understand how the "game" works. Anything less than that is going to slow or even stop his learning the new response.  

I'm thankful for the Minnesota Department of Transportation's grader operator. If he didn't regularly grade the roads, particularly after rain, the road would very quickly be nigh on impassable. Sooner or later, 420th Street would once again live up to the reputation of its erstwhile name. But I know that later today, I'll drive out on the clean, packed class 5 dirt that the grader has compressed into the cracks, crevices and canyons of my rain-eroded street. In the same way, I expect to use the power of association, Pavlov's monumental discovery, to smooth out the rough edges of the horse's emotionally charged expectations. By using positive reinforcement, and especially food treats, in my training strategies, both the horse and I can avoid communication blocking and thoroughly enjoy the journey as well as the resulting relationship.

Elizabeth Hatch is the owner of the True North Training Group in Minnesota. She specializes in animal behavior problem solving and training. http://www.truenorthtraining.com/ You can reach her at: batndwn@...

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Someone Must Lead - Everyone Must Lead

Dolores Arste 

We've all heard the expression lead, follow or get out of the way. When thinking in terms of horses and dogs that are herd and pack animals having a leader is important. Dogs and horses are always looking for who is the leader in any given relationship. They are capable of discerning who's in charge in an instant and if no one is in charge most dogs and horses will assume the leadership role even if it is not their natural propensity.  

And, so many problems arise from the simple lack of a leader. I like to joke that if we got 10 clicker trainers getting to a doorway at the same time, no one would get thru the door. "After you, no please after you" the conversation might go. That's because clicker trainers as a group are polite and kind. But, does this preclude being a leader? I don't think so. Someone must decide to go through the doorway first. 

You don't have to be the smartest, the most fit, the tallest, nor the most aggressive to be the leader. You need to be the most persistent. The one who never gives up and never gives over.  

It has been said that in horses that they "just want to get along". Well, I'd say that's true for a good percentage of horses. And, it's also true for a good percentage of people and dogs too. And then there are the few who are different. Some are born leaders. Perhaps it's the ones that are self assured, or talented in a certain way or sometimes it's just that they never give up. 

There is a misconception that in wolf pack or wild horse herds that there are fights to determine who will be the leader. And, while this is true in some cases in other cases it is simply an acceptance of where they are in the herd. Some horses, dogs and people just don't feel comfortable being a leader. Even so, it is important to learn the skills of leadership so that if you are called on, you know what to do. 

When we raced sled dogs, the ones who would lead sometimes stood out. But, we trained each and every dog on the team to be a leader. In that way, if your leader got hurt, you could call on any dog to lead. Some were not comfortable in that role. I remember one of our most talented, and fastest dogs wanted to be towards the back of the team. As he was moved up closer and closer to the front them more worried he got. He was simply happy running hard and following. On another occasion, there was a very talented young dog that skipped running with the puppy team. I usually ran the puppy team and Dave, my husband, ran the main team. This girl moved right to the main team from her very first year and became a superb leader. But, one day, Dave had to be gone so I had to train the main team. I confidently put this girl up front and off we went. Not thirty yards from the start this talented leader took the team off the trail and quit in a snow bank. What had happened? I brought her back up with encouraging words and started again. Again, she quit. I had not choice, I was too far out to go back now. So, I took a far slower dog that I knew could lead and put him up front. This dog had lead for me on the puppy team but was no match for the speed of this main team. The real leader was put just behind him to run point. We took off again and even though the slower leader's ling was hardly tight as he struggled to stay out in front, while I rode the brake a bit to help him all was well. Candy the female leader was happy now. 

What had happened was that Candy had not recognized "me" as the leader. It is really the driver of the sled who is the real leader in a sled dog team. And, even though we trained exactly the same, used the same commands, she did not know me and so she did not feel safe.  

How often this is with our horses as well. We have them trained, or they come to us well trained. But, they don't know us. Who are we to be asking these things of them. We need to earn our place with them. We need to earn our leadership role and we need to be willing to lead. If we do not lead, then the horse has no choice but to take that role.  

I have found that it is important to also teach the horse how to lead and at the same time teach him that he is not the leader. This is a delicate balance. You never know when the horse might be called upon to lead. Perhaps the rider gets hurt. Or the rider must depend on the horse to make a decision out on the trail. Perhaps the rider is lost and wants to depend on the horse's homing skills to get back. If the horse has been taught how to lead then he can and will help his human out. If he has never been given that opportunity, he will be lost when he is called upon. He'll be afraid or he may take over in an inappropriate way.  

A horse that has been taught how to acceptably be a leader and how to keep his human safe will gladly teach a young or inexperienced rider. This is why the relationship that you teach with clicker training is far more important than the "what". Be consistent, teach them how to keep you safe and then teach what ever your heart desires.
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frustration/anger side means you are not allowing it to flow. Strong summoning of emotion on the frustration/anger side means you are creating a lot of what you don't want. Strong emotion on the elation side means you are actively creating what you do want."

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Instruction in Tai Chi, once available to only the elite in China, has become widely available to almost everyone. In James Shaw's new book "Ride from Within", James takes you on an adventure of mind, body and spirit as he teaches the reader to align in flowing movements of posture, breath and inner being. You will discover the imbalances that limit you by causing tension in you. By releasing your tension, the horse can also be in less tension because he does not have to fill in for you. By developing flexibility, balance and the ability to use the skeleton as a source of strength and softness at the same time, Tai Chi will enable you to slow down, to be with your horse as one.

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Focus

by Dolores Arste

Recently, Alexandra Kurland wrote about how "we often don't stay with an exercise long enough to see what it can do for us" Perhaps many of us don't because we want more. Always more. Whenever we focus, really focus on one thing, that thing is already on its way to us to see. This is true in our lives as well as with our horses. What your attention is on is what you will see.

With our horses, if we can focus on a single behavior or piece of a behavior we will see things begin to change almost immediately. Its that focus that allows us to notice and teach the little things that mean so much. It might be space. Or, it might be softness. Or, perhaps its that extra lift of the whithers that you all of a sudden notice that you don't have.

What we practice is what we will get. And, what the horse practices is what he will give you. Notice and see what your horses are practicing every day. Are they practicing bumping into each other. Then, how can we expect them not to bump into us. If we can get them and ourselves practicing the the things that we want. Things that will make us and them feel better, then won't that be the start of feeling really, really good.

This brings to mind when as a young woman endurance rider, Robin Forester, let her horse rub his head up against her back while in the paddock and his stall.  Then one day on a small ride on top of a very steep hill, on a very narrow path, she got off to walk for a while.  Her horse proceeded to, abruptly, rub his forehead into her back.  She lost her footing - and well - I am sure you all know the rest of the story!   Six months of casts and traction would not be a fun thing to do. 

Science knows that if you visualize doing something, like shooting a basketball into a hoop the effect on your performance will be as good or sometimes better than if you actually do the practice. Recently, experiments have shown that if you visualize the move going perfectly just before trying it, the results will be the same.

So, what's your horse thinking about and what are you thinking about. What thoughts about him are you sending. What thoughts about you are you sending. Become aware of these thoughts moment to moment. What am I thinking now, and now, and now. What am I seeing now, and now and now.

Often, we think that something is "trained" and we never have to deal with it again. Suppose you learned something one day. And then you did not practice it for awhile how quickly would you loose the ability. Now, if you worked really hard as something and got it really good and began to live it well, then it becomes part of you and you no longer have to think about it. It just is.

Such is the way of the horse as well. If we practice softness and we practice learning. The horse will learn to live in softness and learning. It can be no other way. Its then built in just like breathing. And, yet, don't we sometimes forget to breathe? In times of difficultly or stress check your breathing. Is is deep and full? Check your horse's breathing. Is it deep and full as it would be if he were completely relaxed. Stop, have a moment of fun or take a nap. Re-group, allow the horse to re-group and come back later. You'll find that simply taking the time will allow you to notice more. It will give the horse the space in himself to take on new work.

A horse can come to us filled with "Stuff". Sometimes that stuff works for us and sometimes it does not. If we allow "stuff" to go, then we can fill the horse with new stuff that feels good to us.  But, first, we must find the way to allow the old stuff to go.

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Correcting versus Reinforcing

by Neil Ousterhout

A while back I gave a presentation at a wild horse workshop about clicker training and why I use it as the foundation principle in my horse training. Rather than boring them with a speech filled with behavioral science terminology, I wanted to demonstrate the emotional changes horses go though when we train them. I wanted to compare the difference between two fundamental training platforms: correcting a horse for doing the wrong thing versus reinforcing the horse for doing the right thing. To illustrate the two I decided to demonstrate “training” a human instead of a horse as it is much easier to see the emotional changes with a person than a horse.

It was easy to get a volunteer. A gal stood right up, anxious to learn. I sent Mary out of the room so the audience could know what the training goal was going to be. From the center of the arena we wanted her to simply walk over to the round pen and put her foot on the bottom rail.
Here was the twist; I was only going to let her know when she was doing something wrong. When Mary came back into the arena I explained to her that we had a simple task we wanted to train her to do, but I was only going to let her know when she was wrong so I could correct her and keep her on course. I would do this by saying the word, “wrong” to her.

If she still continued to do the wrong behavior then I'd give her a second warning. If a third warning was needed then it would then be followed by a punishment. At this point I pulled out a dog shock collar and put it around her leg, telling her that it would only be used if the warnings failed. I'm a nice guy so this is why I put it on her leg and of course it was on a very mild setting. I was only going to use the shock collar if we need to fix the problem because the warnings didn't work. Needless to say Mary had a look of concern on her face.

Now it was time to train Mary. I guided her to the center of the arena to get her started, but Mary was reluctant to move. I gave her the warning “wrong” and she still wouldn't move so I gave her a second warning, still no movement. Not wanting to have to punish her right off the bat I walked up to her and gave her a little push to get her moving. She walked very slowly but in the wrong direction. I told her “wrong” and she stopped. She was again reluctant to move so I gave her another push toward the round pen. She again walked toward it very slowly and turned to the side when she got there. I again told her “wrong” and she just stopped and would not move.

Again I had to push her to turn towards the panel so I could get her to face it. Mary kept on turning and then walked away from the panel. I yet again I said “wrong” where she stopped and would not move. I got to crack a few jokes to the audience about this stubborn horse not wanting to do this simple task. Poor Mary was standing there not knowing what to do and afraid to move. In the end I had to go to her, physically turn her to face the panel and then pick up her leg and put it on the bottom rail of the round pen. As I removed the shock collar from her leg I let
her know that it didn't have batteries in it and was only there to scare her.

Through this exercise I did get a simple behavior task accomplished, but it sure was a lot of work for me, and it wasn’t clear that Mary would ever repeat the behavior on her own.

I sent Mary back out of the room so the audience could know the new task I will train her to do for our comparison test. This time I picked standing on a small piece of plywood and waving to the audience. Mary came back into the room and I explained that this time we are going to
play the clicker game where I clicker train her to do this next task. I will click her when she is doing the correct behaviors that lead to the task we want her to do. The way clicker training works is that you need to pair the sound of the clicker with something the trainee likes. With
horses a small food treat is often used. This way the trainee will work to get a click. With people I like to use something we all already work for, money! Unfortunately I have 5 money pits (i.e. horses), so I'm usually short on real cash. So I used fake “Monopoly” money with the
hopes that Mary and the audience would enthusiastically play along.

At first Mary was reluctant to move remembering the shock collar training we had just done. Slowly Mary took a few steps and I clicked her for that. Then Mary took a few more steps and earned more clicks.

Soon Mary started walking at a faster pace and walked right by the plywood piece. She stopped getting clicked and treated with play money.

Mary kept on walking until she figured out that something was wrong then stopped and turned back toward me and the plywood piece. She got clicked for that. Then I clicked her as she got closer to the plywood target.

She figured out that it had something to do with the plywood piece so she stepped on it. Jackpot! I gave her an extra amount of the play money that I had been treating her with. Now that she was standing on the plywood, my next task was to get her to wave. To do this I took a few
dollars of play money and I held it up so she would raise her hand to get it. She got clicked for that. To get her to wave I just waved the money back and forth as she reached for it. We got our goal behavior. Mary was standing on the piece of plywood waving to the audience.

So here we have two different ways we can train our horses. In the first exercise our human horse was very reluctant to move, fearful of the punishment she may receive. When she did move she was very slow and cautious. This required me as the trainer to constantly get after her to keep her going. Once we took the shock collar off and removed the fear of punishment Mary was more comfortable. In this second exercise she walked faster, actively searching for the correct answer. We witnessed this when she walked past the plywood target. I simply left her alone and stopped rewarding her. She very quickly figured out that she had gone too far and turned around on her own without me having to correct her. Essentially she was looking to get clicked.

To sum it all up when I was focused on finding the wrong things with our human horse she was doing what she could to avoid interaction with me.

When I was focused on finding the correct thing so I could click it, our human horse was looking to do behaviors to interact with me. Punishment and reinforcement are facts of life and the better we understand the emotional aspects they bring into training the better we can be as trainers. Neil Ousterhout
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Focus on What You’d Like to See

By Dolores Arste


Rather than starting with a training action to get to some ending behavior, begin in your mind by visualizing the ending place. What would it look like if it were perfect? What would you be feeling like? Where would your body be and what would your horse be doing.

As you become very good at visualizing, you are seeing in
your mind what you want, and as what you want is so clear in your minds
eye you will begin to see the smallest steps in that direction. By seeing those small steps you will feel happiness for what you and the horse have begun to create. And then, you and the horse can find the next step and the next with a feeling of happiness in each small success. I like to call this kitchen table thinking.

During your day can you think of a place that you visit or thing you do every day. It might be where you shop or it may be the place where you work, or a place where you go every day. 
 

And, when you get in to your car can you imagine driving to these places. Does it ever enter your mind that when you get into your car that you will not know how to drive or that the places you normally drive to may not be there?

Do you ever approach a corner wondering if you will remember how to turn that car?  Of course you don’t.  You get into your automobile and you drive to that building knowing it will be there.  Once you have visualized something that you want, so much that you feel excitement about it, a sort of emotional release, will occur in that you will know exactly what must occur to have that vision become a reality. Now, you may not know how to get there. But, knowing and visualizing what you want, will allow you the patience and the focus to find the pieces to the puzzle. That vision that you have created in your mind exists, just as surely as the building that you are driving to every day along with the skill to drive the car there.

Yet, when you first learned to drive, you did not feel that you could simply jump in and drive and if you had never been to a location before, it was required that someone give you directions and sometimes very detailed directions.

If you could accept that you and the horse can do whatever it is that you want to accomplish and that it only needs for you to know what the horse needs to know and what you need to know to accomplish it then the steps in the learning will become clearer and clearer

Imagine that as you are standing there thinking about imagining what you don’t want that you are creating sort of a fog a limiting haze.

Conversely, if you are standing here in your now and you are thinking or speaking or acting in the direction of something you do want, the focus lens becomes clear and sharp. And the distance to that place that you want to be becomes nearer to where you are now.

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TAGteach in Ireland: First case studies wow conference participants

TAGteach founder Theresa McKeon and Karen Pryor traveled to Dublin, Ireland, in June to participate in the conference Opening Doors to Learning, hosted by the Festina Lente Foundation. Festina Lente (”make haste slowly”) provides training in employable skills in equestrianism and horticulture for people throughout Ireland whose needs are not met through mainstream services.

A beautifully restored antique walled garden and an up-to-the-minute riding school and stables provide working environments and learning opportunities for the Festina Lente Foundation’s clients, students, and volunteers.

The conference introduced TAGteaching and reinforcement-based teaching concepts to the equestrian community in Ireland. More than eighty people attended the two-day meeting, including riding instructors, horse breeders, trainers, coaches, equestrian sports competitors, special education professionals, and members of the press. A wide range of well-known speakers from the equestrian, business, and sports worlds in Ireland addressed topics related to learning and teaching, emphasizing and encouraging the acceptance of new ideas.

Theresa McKeon and Karen Pryor spoke to the conference on TAGteach. Pryor also discussed why some people may resist change, and ways to negotiate transitions and develop acceptance.

TAGteach case studies at Festina Lente

Festina Lente Director Jill Carey and two other senior staff members were certified as TAGteach instructors after attending a TAGteach International seminar in Boston, MA, last October. The staff presented four case studies of TAGteach applications and interventions carried out at Festina Lente in 2004-2005. Each presentation included “before and after” video clips, a description of the TAGteach methods used, data related to the study, and discussion.

The case studies

I. Teaching young children to ride

Clodagh Carey, Director of the Festina Lente Riding School and Foundation Director Jill Carey’s sister, presented a TAG-based study of four boys, ages 5.5 to 7, who were taught to ride through TAGteaching. The children learned the basics of marking (tagging) an action as it is happening, through TAGteach games in the classroom. Then they began lessons in riding, each on a pony being led by an assistant. None of the children had previous riding experience.

The goals were:

  • Sit well-balanced and secure at the walk and trot.
  • Hold the reins correctly so that you are gently “in contact” with the horse at all times.
  • Learn the rising trot (what in the US we call posting: rising from the saddle in time with the horse’s gait to avoid bouncing uncomfortably).
  • Understand how to signal the horse to stop and go and use these cues aptly.
  • Steer the horse easily in any direction without being led.

In ten one-hour lessons, all the boys were riding safely, comfortably, and correctly at the walk and trot, all could start and stop the horse, all could post at the trot, and two of them were off the leadline and able to control their ponies entirely by themselves. According to several experienced riding teachers in the room, for such young children the level of achievement and speed of acquisition was remarkable.

II. Improving riding skills in an adult with autism

Festina Lente riding coach Colm Nolan presented the case of an adult male client diagnosed with autism who had learned to ride but flailed both legs in all directions, trying to kick the horse, instead of gently squeezing the horse to go forward. The difficulty, Nolan suggested, appeared to be that he could not process verbal instruction while trying to accomplish a physical action at the same time. Introducing TAG points for leg position produced very quick results. The client was able to ride normally, signaling the horse gently and keeping his legs in correct position, and the improvement was permanent. The “after” video showed a beaming rider and a much-relieved horse. [photo from Nolan’s ppt in KP’s computer]

III. Coping with an aggressive horse

One of the riding school horses had developed intimidating behavior toward people entering his stall, including laying the ears back, threatening to bite, and, more dangerously, turning the hindquarters toward the person and threatening to kick.

While an experienced horseman might prevent this kind of behavior in its earliest stages, a timid person can accidentally reinforce even small aggressive actions by withdrawing or avoidance, so that such behavior rapidly escalates. Many people in the Festina Lente facility are likely to be novices, including new clients, pupils in the riding school, and a summer volunteer corps of children, ages 10-14, who tend to the daily chores of the stables.

Training all personnel, students, and clients to manage horses skillfully is certainly an ongoing goal but meanwhile changing the behavior of the horse seemed a desirable solution. Staff member Helen Keogh successfully used the tagger and food treats to retrain the horse to stand quietly facing any entering person and to permit haltering and grooming without aggression, even if the person was hesitant. The intervention was successful and a program of reinforcing good behavior is ongoing.

IV. Improving jumping skills in an advanced rider

Riding coach Jim Mernin presented the case of a normal and experienced rider in her teens who tended to lose her balance going over jumps (sometimes referred to as “falling behind”). TAG techniques were used to improve her basic riding position, giving her better balance over fences. Video clips demonstrated the initial problem, the series of TAG points that were selected to restructure her position, and the end results: smooth landings for horse and rider both. The details of the TAG points appeared to be very clear to the riding instructors at the conference, and Karen Pryor reported that this case study elicited perhaps the largest audience reaction in terms of gasps and comments.

Coach Jim Mernin summed up some of the less-evident but equally important advantages of the TAG-based intervention:

  • The method immediately established the same expectations between coach and rider.
  • The rider received positive feedback (instead of correction).
  • The coach used much less language (the process reduced the need for verbal discussion, explanation, reminders, reproaches, etc.)
  • The process focused on one task at a time; therefore:
  • Both participants had “more time to think” between trials.
  • The coach had “quality time” to observe the student’s performance.

After the conference: Tagging at Festina Lente

The American guests also visited the riding school at Festina Lente for a day of practical teaching and demonstration for the staff and volunteers. Theresa McKeon observed TAGteaching by several riding coaches and followed up with discussion and exploration of additional applications of TAG methodology to teaching riding. Reprinted with Permission - Visit: http://www.tagteach.com/ for upcoming events and highlights

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" And that's the way it is ...unless it isn't."  - Dr. Mary Lynch
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Its gotten cold in Upstate New York. Time to go south. This year, we'll be staying in beautiful and maybe cold New York until the end of January. Due the the iffy-ness of the weather at this time of year we don't have any more open houses planned. But, we're always open to having friends come to visit. So, if you are in the area, stop by, hang your hat, stay awhile and play with our generous bunch of clicker trained horses.

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No.3 / September  2005                                                                                                                                       

Ten Feet Tall, Still
Julie Suhr


The ride traditionally starts at 5 AM. I have already been up well over an hour in the dark. I try to eat breakfast., but the butterflies in the stomach make it difficult. I know I should; I know I need it: I don't want it. But I force it down, add one more Power Bar to my fanny pack and walk toward my horse. He has been tied to the trailer all night with his feedbag hanging nearby. I note that he's eaten well, but the water bucket is still quite full. I silently wish he had drink more. Nearby, 250 horses are being saddled and my case of nerves has now transferred to my horse. He senses my anxiety and reacts accordingly by fidgeting and refusing to stand still while I try to place the saddle on his back in the dark. I get the job done and tighten the girth one last time. I ask him to take the bit and am grateful that he is willing. I put on my helmet, adjust the strap and climb on his back, and, as I do, I get the encouraging words from Bob that have become routine, but I need so desperately: "I know you will have a good ride"
 

I have never started a ride unafraid. It is a frenetic time and all I want to do is get going. I question my wisdom at having undertaken this ridiculous event again. Does a silly old woman's craving for adventure dwell in others' hearts as it does in mine or are most better adjusted? Is age driving me in quest of my pioneer roots before I leave my own behind for future generations to seek? Each year I promise my family "just once more" They know I am lying, as do I. But, then I see other old-timers' faces in the crowd and I have my answer. I am not alone in my falsehoods. They lie too-to their families, their friends and, as I, to themselves.
"I've ridden 27,000 miles of endurance trails-that's more than once around the world-and that's not nearly far enough" - Julie Suhr


76 years young at the time of this writing, Julie rode 96 miles of the Tevis Trail in 2004 at the age of 79. Her body stopped at mile 96, it told her they were at the end. And so it had been the finish line for nearly 20 years. In 2004, however, the finish was 4 more miles down the trail because of the new housing development.
 

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What To Do When A Good Cue Goes Bad
Neil Ousterhout


A cue is more than just asking our horses to do something. It is any stimulus that elicits a behavior. It can come from the environment: Rain is a cue to get under cover unless I want to get wet. Flashing lights in my rear view mirror is a cue to pull over. "A cue does more than request a physical behavior. It evokes a strong emotional association that was developed during learning," according to author and animal behavior expert Melissa Alexander. "A poisoned cue" is a cue for a behavior that has at some point been associated with a correction or other unpleasant event. Just the cue for these behaviors can evoke fear, stress, and other reactions associated with those kinds of aversives."


I reluctantly pulled my pickup over for the sheriff deputy's car right behind me with the flashing lights. It has been more then twenty years since I have had a traffic ticket but the sight of flashing lights still evokes unpleasant feelings in me.


The term "poisoned cue" was first described by Karen Pryor in Training Dogs Magazine June 25 2002 http://www.clickertraining.com/ to describe what happens in training of an animal when a positive reinforcement trained cue has had corrections of a uncomfortable or even painful added to the training. An ongoing study at the University has shown that you can never totally un-poison the cue. In the study, a dog was taught the same behavior---a recall---with two different methods and two cues, one in English and one in French. Initially, the dog was taught using only positive reinforcement. Correct responses resulted in a food treat and mistakes were ignored. But then the rules changed. Although the dog continued to be reinforced for correct responses to either cue, when the dog was cued to "come" in French, he was corrected with a mild tug on the leash if he failed to respond.


The dog began exhibiting fearful, reluctant behavior when the behavior was cued in French, but his attitude remained upbeat when cued in English, which was still strictly positive. The trainers then stopped using the leash tug and returned to strictly positive reinforcement after the French cue. To their surprise they found that the dog never completely regained the happy attitude he had before they added the physical corrections.
When I was a child, I once found half a worm in the cauliflower I was eating. I don't want to speculate where the other half was. Needless to say, I lost my appetite for cauliflower after that. You could say cauliflower had become a poisoned cue.


Horses can have poisoned cues as well. Years ago I taught my quarter horse, Willie, to back up to a wiggling lead rope. One of the Natural Horsemanship trainers calls this the "Yo-Yo Game." You start by wiggling your finger at your horse. Then you increase the pressure until the horse backs up: wiggle the lead rope a little at first, then more and more until, if necessary, your arm is swinging so hard that the rope buckle is hitting your horse on side of his face. When the horse takes a step back, you reward the correct behavior by stopping the swinging rope.
Willie did learn to back up to the Yo-Yo Game but he also was grinding his teeth as he backed. Teeth grinding is a behavior that is normally manifested in stressful situations. It's easy to see the wiggling finger/rope cue for backing may have become poisoned.


Another example of a poisoned cue was observed on the first camp trip I took with one of my new horses. Henry was 13 years old when I got him and barely ride-able and I was the ninth human to own him. I spent 6 weeks getting him ready to ride for this trip and thought we were ready. This was the middle of summer and it didn't occur to me that water crossings may be a issue. The first day out about one mile from camp, we stopped at a shallow mud puddle. Henry refused to move forward though the puddle. After I insisted with a little more leg tapping, he skirted around the puddle through the brush where he hooked his reins in the bushes, pulling him sideways and tossing me to the ground. Lucky for me, it was soft grass I landed in. Apparently, Henry didn't like water crossings. This too sounds like a poisoned cue.
 

Once you have a poisoned cue, you have a couple of options according to police K9 trainer Steve White. You can dilute the "poison" by adding lots of positive associations to the cue in an effort to change the emotional association. Or, you can train a new cue for the behavior.
 

For Willie, I chose to teach a new cue for backing up. Now, instead of wiggling my finger, I point my elbow at Willie so I can wave it up and down in the rhythm with the movement of his feet. Willie backs to this new cue without grinding his teeth. The cue is different, and the way I taught it is different. The behavior is the same. Willie, however, is happier, and he is even starting to back at a slighter faster speed then the old cue.
 

With Henry, I chose just to dilute the negative association of the old cue by flooding him with positive experiences. After he tossed me to the ground, I didn't want to make the situation any worse so I just climbed back on him and continued the ride. At the next water crossing we came to, I let him have lots of time to figure out that the water was not that bad. When I could, I had another horse go first and wait in the middle of the stream for us. By the end of the six-day camping trip, Henry was crossing most water with only a little hesitation. We even got to led the group though an easier creek crossing. Now three years later, Henry is becoming a fine trail horse. Most of the time, he stops and drinks in the middle of a water crossing. By giving Henry the time to figure it out on his own with minimal pressure from me and pairing the scary thing with things he finds rewarding, like a food treat, a drink of nice cool creek water, or staying with his horsy friends, I was able to dilute the "poison" of the water crossings. However, he isn't completely cured. Sometimes he lapses back to his "I can't cross that water!" mode. Henry will most likely never be able to step into a creek without a little hesitation or flashback to the past. As long as I don't push him past his comfort level and continue to further dilute his negative association to water by pairing it with positive experiences, he will continue to improve.
 

Finding half a worm in my cauliflower made me lose my appetite for it for a long time. After that, every time we had cauliflower for dinner, I refused to eat it. Now as an adult, enough time has passed to dilute some of my memory of the worm incident. I can eat cauliflower for dinner---if there's enough cheese sauce---but I still have to inspect it for worms.
 

Working to help a horse overcome poisoned cues is rewarding. However, it is preferable to not create them in the first place. Because of horses' longevity, and multiple owners it is not unusual to encounter a horse with a poisoned cue. You get baggage with them sometimes from previous owners such as I got with Henry and the water. Sometimes we unintentionally create the baggage ourselves such as Willie and the Yo-Yo game. Sometime things happen beyond our normal control such as the worm in the cauliflower and we just have to deal with it.

If Henry had been gently exposed to water crossing when he was young, I would have been able to spend more time riding and less time training. Retraining a new cue as I did with Willie was far, far easier to do than sugar coating and diluting the negative association of the old cue. But with Henry and the water crossing, I had limited options.
 

The sheriff deputy who pulled me over was just letting me know I had a tail light out. Next time I see those flashing lights in my mirror I may still have those unpleasant feelings but maybe not quite as unpleasant as before. Finally, if you ever have me over for dinner and serve cauliflower, don't forget the cheese sauce.

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The statement "I am where I am now because of decisions I have made in the past" is not true.
There is NO PAST. There is only a NOW. "I am the way I am NOW because of decisions I make NOW" is the only correct statement.
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There is only NOW
Dolores Arste

I would not have always understood nor believed the quote above. However, as time passes and I experiment with it I find that it is astoundingly true. Perception, we are all perception, spin the mirror, change the perception and you will change the experience. You don't really have to believe it because I say that it is true. Try it on for yourself for a while. Give it some time. Give it some conscious thought. The past exists as the present somewhere in this universe right now. And, quantum physics tells us that every option for any given path all exist NOW as possibility. One only becomes real to us if and when we turn our attention to it. 

I see a fox catch a rabbit from 40 yards away. An eagle sees the event in a fraction of a blink later from a mile in the sky. A spy satellite sees the even, maybe, minutes from now. And, a telescope like the Hubble stationed around a distant planet sees the event 20,000 years from now. When did it happen? And, what changes if at the last second, I rescue that rabbit from harm. 

Yesterday, I fell off my horse. Just fell. Well, really what might of happened is that he changed leads in a tight turn and I didn't. I fell hard. I was dizzy and momentarily unable to balance with that odd feeling your stomach gives you when your brain has crashed around in your skull too much. Or, maybe it never happened.

Maybe, I just got off, put the horse away. The soreness the headache begin to leave. Did it happen? Can I hold to the thought that it didn't. I feel better and better. Ah... but the desire to share the drama returns....and so too does the pain.  If I share the story, the story will fix as an event and each of my next experiences will meld onto that experience, layer upon layer.

What if I don't. Then, the lack of attention will allow whatever was, or was not, to fade as if it never happened.

Isn't this the same with our horse training. Where our attention is; that is what will occur and continue to occur for as long as it remains in our attention. Let it go on its way and soon it will fade from our memory. Perhaps its useful to us to hold the memory. How does it feel to do so? Sometimes new memories will replace the old. But, sometimes, we have to force a new memory to make the old one fade away. Imagine it as you would have preferred it be and so the brain will soon provide you with all the proof that you need that indeed it is as you imaged it. Choose the one that feels good.

If we can't notice. If we can't see. If we don't know the parts. If we can't feel the parts. Then, it will be hard to train. It will be hard to ride. But, if we can imagine it. If we can feel it in our bodies as we vividly feel the experience. Then, our amazing minds and the amazing creatures that are our horses will respond as if they had always known it to be just the way it is.

In delicate microscopic surgery it is said "if the eye can see it, the hand can do it". I would also say if the mind can imagine it the universe can create it. And so it is.

I can now say my bank account is full of thousands of dollars or whatever else I desire and I feel absolutely delighted because I understand that I am creating now when I say it. The Now is truly just a reflection of my thoughts and the Universe can work miracles. I don't have to be concerned about how it happens. It just explains so many things to me. I am enough right now. I have enough right now. I give enough right now. If not right now, then when?

Recently I read a quote by the famous animal teacher Bob Bailey.  In it he said "I teach "Think, plan, do"

In the thinking there is blue shy thinking " Pigs can fly.  Dolphins can really talk. Dogs will do anything forever, and for no reward other than your smile. In the planning there is time to find a way to accomplish the "impossible". Rehearse the way it will feel when it happens. If it still seems impossible plan some more

Now do, its yours, it is coming to you. When you get to "I don't know how". Go back to planning and feeling. What you don't know is on its way to you.

Remember to have fun!
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Trusting Your Feelings
Dolores Arste
 

At times we make it seem very complicated as we as we talk on and on and on about how to train, what to train next and when to train. Are we training enough or too much or is it the right thing? Are we using the right method. Are we rewarding too much. When should we stop rewarding. I'd like you to consider and I want you to keep coming back to the idea of: if it doesn't feel good, it's not of any value.

In other words, the greatest hoax that has ever been perpetrated on man by man is the belief that if it feels good it may not be, and that if it feels bad it might be good. "If I pay a big price and if I struggle really hard and if I sacrifice, then good will come from that," and I say in the world of Law of Attraction that is not even a possible thing. Trust you internal guidance system. In business we call it "Trust your gut". That first feeling. The very first one that came to you as feeling, that's the one. That's the one that was there before the brain took over and shooed it all away. How could you ever get so askew from the guidance system that comes from deep within you? Allow it. Follow it. You will not be wrong to do so.
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No. 2 / August 2005            From Whispering to Listening                               

The Rural Life - Verlyn Klinkenborg

 If you live with horses, you soon get used to the feel of a line lying across your palm and fingers - a rein, a lead rope, a lariat. It becomes second nature, what hands are for. You begin to feel for the life, the responsiveness in any piece of rope you handle, even a coil of baling twine, because when you work with horses, that line, no matter how stout or supple, is what connects you to them. It transmits the dexterity of your fingers, the guilelessness of your intentions. It becomes a subtle tool. It allows horse and human to moor each other. 

Recently the neighbors' horses got out through a broken gate in the middle of the night. They trotted up the yellow line on the highway for a couple of miles, backtracked down a gravel road, and disappeared into the woods. We searched until three A.M., driving the back roads, walking the dirt margins, looking for hoof prints or fresh manure. The night was foggy and there had been no snow. In the end, the horses found us. They walked out of the trees and onto the road we had traced them to. They were wraiths until we haltered them. Then they turned into their old solid selves, a pony, a small mule, and three aging, swaybacked horses, all footsore. And who's to say what we turned into, standing there in the mist, clinging with relief to the lead ropes in our hands? The moon barely glimmered upon us, a knot of creatures on the edge of the winter woods, exhaling together, happy to be connected again.

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Thought for the Day 


"To attain knowledge, add things every day. To attain wisdom, remove things every day." -- Lao Tzu

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Learn to let go - Dolores Arste

How do we take something away? As we cultivate higher awareness and focus and noticing skills, we begin to see just how much we have added things to our picture of reality. Our beliefs, concepts and emotions all add layers of meaning to physical reality, but the meaning exists for us and us alone - it has no existence without us - it has no existence for anyone else. For example, the word 'mother' has a complicated network of meaning for each of us.


Notice and become aware of how your beliefs and emotions color your perception of different events in your life. See if you can begin to step out of your stories and fabrications to experience the possibilities and spaciousness of what is possible. Notice the words that you put around your stories and let go of those that no longer work for you. Change the words, change the feelings.

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Winning at Horsemanship - Get Beyond Your Tasks -

Dolores Arste

Ever hear the story of the two masons working side by side at a building site? They're doing the same work under pretty much the same conditions. Then, one day a stranger comes along, approaches one of the men and asks him, "What are you doing?" "I don't know and I don't care," replies the man, his voice brimming with irritation. All I do is slap this crummy mortar on these crummy bricks and pile them up in a crummy line. That's what I'm doing."

The stranger returns to the building site the next day. This time he approaches the second man, asking him the same question. "Tell me," he said, "What are you doing?" Smiling at the stranger, the man proudly replies, "Why, I'm helping to build the new cathedral."

I don't know about you, but in all my years of being around horses and horse people I've met plenty of people like the first mason; People doing what they were told to do, without a greater context, purpose or understanding, People focused on what they were doing, not why they were doing it, People using tools or methods they don't understand because someone told them to, People who clearly don't like or aren't satisfied with themselves or their horses. They clearly aren't winning at horsemanship. And, their horses probably don't feel like winners either. And, probably neither they nor their horses are having much fun.

When you define the purpose for your work, you create a vision behind the tasks, and that vision changes results. Think about it. What are you building when you train or ride? Why does it matter? Before you say it doesn't, think again. You have an important role in the relationship between you and the horse. Of course, it's unlikely you'll find the purpose outlined in a training manual or from many instructors. You see, defining your purpose is not about the tasks you do. It's about the reason for the tasks and how you approach them

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

What is Respect? Many horse trainers and instructors use this word. It is something they want. How many of them have gone through the process of defining what respect is. What does it look like? Recently, I heard a person who had just returned from a presentation with a famous clinician Say these words "I want my horse's respect" I asker her "Can you quantify "respect"? What does it look like to you? Can you paint me a picture in words? She replied

 

"Being at a beginner level with my horses, I would say very basically to
quantify it - ZERO rubbing on me, pushing past me out of the stall, looking away when I'm working them, pinning their ears at me or anything else, not
immediately backing when I wiggle the rope, not moving out when I ask them to. All these things are quantifiable indicators of respect. I'll turn each one into a positive statement of what you want: Keep body parts out of my hoola hoop of space especially the head, maintain your position based on the feel of the air space of my hoola hoop, look at me, keep ears forward. Move from the slightest pressure in the direction my body indicates.


There in you have some parts of respect. There are a couple more that I look for and written in the positive for the horse: Understand when I'd like you to stay and when I'd like you to go. Stay as a default if you are confused.


Be careful of the Alpha leader and judgment calls of "flicking their cigarette at me" unless you have a lot of experience with 100's of horses. You may just be wrong about a "why" and make a wrong training choice.

Its easier and will create a more focused and consistent trainer if you put want you want into words and work towards seeing that at every opportunity. And, you can't ever be wrong because you are looking for specific things.

 

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Old Red's Last Ride

  

Red is a ranch-raised quarter horse that my wife and I purchased so we could go riding together. Having had horses as a child, Kathy had a good understanding of horses. For me this was a new thing. But now we each had a horse.

We got Red from a friend who had just started a horse broker business. Red was one of her first horses, and she got him at an auction. We had been looking at horses for a few weeks, and when we saw Red, the light in his eyes told us he was something special.

He gave me many good years before becoming semi-retired about five years ago when we got horse number three. Old Red stayed home most of the time and was put into full retirement about two years ago as his health worsened. By this time, the total horse count had worked up to six. There were lots of horses to train. Old Red got to take it easy.

This last year has been hard on Red. Several times he spiked a fever and stopped eating for days on end. Once he hit 105' before the antibiotics and other drugs brought his temperature back down. After each episode he got skinnier and skinnier and didn't gain the weight back. This summer the vet found a hard lump during a rectal exam. That's when we decided

to no longer use extreme measures to save our old friend. He deserved to live out his final days as simply and comfortably as possible.

When I looked at Red, I saw him for what he really was: a tall, proud, bright eyed very spirited horse with lots of spunk, not this skin and bones thing I had been nursing for the last few years. Still, I felt the shadow of his mortality. That's why I wanted to have one last, perfect ride together. Even if all I could do was put a saddle on him and lead him around.

I put the saddle on him, using an extra pad to protect the spine and ribs under that thin skin. The back muscles had been gone for months. I bridled him up and led him off. First I took him down the gravel road -- I didn't want to get on him in the gravel. Bare feet couldn't feel real great on this old horse. He walked very slowly, carefully placing his front feet and slightly dragging his hind feet.

We took a right turn down a steep dirt path though the brush. I thought, "I can't take him in here. It's too steep and his back end looks very stiff." Red kept going. He kind of wobbled as he went down the hill. It reminded me of a few years ago when I used Red to ride sweep for a poker ride. My regular ride was out of commission, and Red was my back up

horse, but he had been ridden several days in a row and wasn't in condition for another go. He did great the first half of the ride, but then the lack of conditioning and old age caught up with him. He started going slower and slower. He never stopped, but you could tell the fuel tank was getting close to "E." Red just gave all that he could and never complained.

At the bottom of the hill, the trail became a flat, double track, grass-covered road. If I was going to get on Red's back, this was the place. I moved his front feet apart to give him some support, and I gingerly climbed into the saddle. He stood there without moving. That thin, frail body was still able to support my weight. I sat there and remembered parking cars for OSU football games when we were in the sheriff's posse. I would be sitting on Red's back and pointing cars to where they should go, and this calm horse just stood there as the cars full of rowdy football fans drove by.

I picked up the reins and asked my old friend to walk a few steps. His back end was wobbly, but I knew Red would let me know if it was hurting him. He had a way of telling you what he was thinking, be it tapping his foot on the water bucket when it was empty or walking with a little extra bounce when he wanted to go faster. After about a dozen strides, I

felt the back legs getting stronger and stronger, and a hint of that once-powerful horse was starting to come through. After a few more strides we came to an intersection, and I let Red make the choice of direction. After all, this ride was just as much for him as it was for me.

As his walking speed increased, I remembered the pack trip we did in the Eagle Caps mountain range. We were trying to find a way around this large snowdrift, when Lucy, our pack mule, blew up. Lucy was on her first big pack trip, and we had been out for six days. For some mule reason, she picked this moment to go nuts. She yanked the lead rope out of Kathy's hand and went running and bucking towards the edge of the mountain. We were at about eight thousand feet! Fortunately, she stopped before the edge but not without losing half the stuff out of the panniers in the process. Kathy jumped off Red and ran after Lucy. Red, being the bombproof, gentleman trail horse he was, just watched the drama unfold, and then wandered off onto this large snowdrift. There he was, standing in the middle of the snowfield all proud with his head held up high watching us, as we caught Lucy and picked up the pots and pan she shed in her bucking rage. It's as if he was saying "I can show you a safe way though this snow field." Red was a great lead horse on trips like this. He walked a pace that all the other horses liked and was so confident, he was never bothered when things hit the fan.

The road turned into gravel, and by then Red was at a very comfortable fast walk, just like the old days. I still had some concern for my old partner -- about the gravel and the steep hill this road was about to take. I tapped his neck with a very loose left rein. Red took the cue with no hesitation and turned toward a grass-covered road. The new road had a slight rise to it, and Red decided to show me he still had some trot in him. We trotted for about 30 feet before old age kicked in and put him back to a walk. I think Red wanted to remind me of the times that we would work on his fast trot. He had such a smooth, fast trot that you just sat, and it felt like you were on a magic carpet ride.There was an overgrown trail to the left that I could no longer see, but there was no fooling my trail pal, and he took this trail like so many times before. He knew the route home better then I did, and I'm sure it's been at least three years since he had been on it. The short trail was a tie-in trail to one of my favorite canter hills. Just as I thought about getting off to lead him, Red gave me a sign that it was time to show his stuff, and low and behold, we kicked into a canter. I was taken back in time to a ride on the beach when we opened it up to full speed. Kathy was riding Willie and I Red. The horses were stride for stride, breath for breath, and it got very quiet. One of those rare moments when you are in harmony with the world. A few moments in time, running down the beach at 25 miles per hour.

Gravity took its toll on our brief canter, and we slowed to a walk. Red still wanted to charge up the hill but at a slower pace. When we reached the top, I dismounted my long time trail pal, knowing this was the last ride we would ever do. Red seemed to understand as I led him back to he barn. He walked slowly, not because he was tired, but because he didn't want this ride to end. This last memorial ride lasted no more then 20 minutes, but for me it was a lifetime.

Back at the barn I tied Red up to remove the saddle from his back for the last time. He just stood there, very calm. This wasn't always the case. Years earlier Red would pull back against the rope, sometimes breaking it when tied. One time he flipped over backwards when he pulled back. I tried unsuccessfully to use special halters and ropes that would cause pain or discomfort when he pulled back. I even tried to use an old truck inner tube that I tied so it would pull back when he pulled

against it.

Red not only still continued to pull back but also he started to refuse to be lead to the hitching post. He would put the brakes on 20 feet away, and I would have to get after him to get him to the post. In the arena I would try to ride him up to the rail where we tied up horses, and Red would refuse to move forward closer then 20 feet from it. With all the training tools I used to teach him to stand tied it was only getting worse.

In hindsight Red was only trying to tell me that I need to be a better teacher if I was going to fix this problem. It took a few years, but with help from, of all things, dolphin training, I was able to become that better teacher for Red. The only tools I needed were a lesson plan, a handful of grain, and a little plastic box that clicked.

Red came though the next winter with just a little more weight loss. His bright eyes had dimmed but still had a little sparkle to them. Springtime with the green grass picked up his spirits. So did his new buddy, Cloud. Cloud was a two-year-old gelding I got to train, and he needed a paddock friend to show him the ropes. Red has always been my first choice for that job. Cloud and Red became best friends immediately. Cloud needed an older, wiser horse to show him the ropes, and Red was happy to have a post-retirement job.

This last summer when I put all the horses out on one pasture to run together, Cloud always stayed with Red, away from the rest of the herd.Cloud would run circles around Red as that old horse walked slowly from one part of the field to the other. Red did his job, of course: The social skills he taught Cloud helped him find his place with the other horses. Cloud can now safely be with the other horses without getting beat up. His full name is "Magnificent Red Cloud," in honor of his best friend.

As the cool nights of fall hinted the coldness of the winter to come I could see the light in Red's eyes start to dim. Today was the day that all horse owners dread. It's been one year almost to the day that Red and I had our last ride. Red laid down and lacked the strength to get back up. After a few simple tests the Vet, following my directions, injected a clear red liquid in his neck as I held that once-proud head up. Our eyes met, and the once bright light finally flickered out. I laid his head on the ground and said good bye to my long-time friend.

He'll forever rest in the woods behind our house next to the trail where we had our last ride.-

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