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#124 From: Laurel Gordon <laurel.i.gordon@...>
Date: Mon Jun 29, 2009 9:17 pm
Subject: Ups and Downs
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Hi all,

    We had our 14th Cat session with Jedda yesterday, it was slightly less than satisfying as she went back to pinned ears and nose stuck out when Kate got closer this time. Should we have increased the distance again to stay just under this level of reaction? Kate said she very much felt this was not aggression directed towards her, but "stay out of my space you rude person!"  When I reviewed the video it didn't look as bad as I expected, but Jedda wasn't nearly as engaged in the process as during the previous session.

  Jedda was unusually "grumpy" and evasive with having her halter put on beforehand though as well, I tried CAT with the halter, but CT worked best to settle her in the end. She also chased Pedro away from me while this was going on, just wanted to play clicks with me on her terms at liberty I think.

   Do I just write this down to a bad hair day?  Someone said on 5Q that JRR said to "trust the organism"........Jed has always gone two steps forward and one back throughout all her training, KF Hemplfling calls it 'the confounded 4th day' of learning.......As an experiment I did about 5 minutes of CAT with her in the pen and me as decoy using the same approach run but with one hand slightly extended, and she was touching my hand nicely, but then walked to the far side of the pen and stood for some minutes *yawn* with her butt to me. Then she turned and quite briskly walked up and touched my hand again.

 
Any thoughts?
Laurel and Jedda.

#128 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Jun 30, 2009 12:51 pm
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs
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Hi Laura,
Just like in clicker training, we can get extinction bursts in CAT.
I would say that no, you did not need to increase the distance.

What you need to do is let her know that that behavior is not what works.

When you see this as not engaged what you may actually be seeing is a
testing
process. The horse doesn't really believe what has happened up until now.
She's
likely as surprised by her feelings as you are.

So, she falls back to what worked previously to see what happens. Will the
other
shoe drop. That's the time for you and your decoy to stay compeltely
unemotional.
Just wait. If she gives distance, you've got to decide if leaving is better
than ugly faces

From her history, I would say that it is. I say this especially because you
wrote
"As an experiment I did about 5 minutes of CAT with her in the pen and me as
decoy using the same approach run but with one hand slightly extended, and
she was touching my hand nicely, but then walked to the far side of the pen
and stood for some minutes *yawn* with her butt to me. Then she turned and
quite briskly walked up and touched my hand again."

I love this decision that she made. The yawn is a release of tension. Most
of us would be inclined to click the hand touch. The touch of your hand is
not clickable.
What it is rather is an invitation to play. So, offer her something
clickable next. And, that c/t can still be a touch. Very hard to wrap your
head around this. But,
this distiction is very important. She came to you because you gave her
control. OK, she said. I'm ready. Now, you can do a c/t behavior

Dolores Arste
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#129 From: "Julie Lannen" <equilog3@...>
Date: Tue Jun 30, 2009 7:03 pm
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs
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We had our 14th Cat session with Jedda yesterday, it was slightly less than satisfying as she went back to pinned ears and nose stuck out when Kate got closer this time. Should we have increased the distance again to stay just under this level of reaction? Kate said she very much felt this was not aggression directed towards her, but "stay out of my space you rude person!"  When I reviewed the video it didn't look as bad as I expected, but Jedda wasn't nearly as engaged in the process as during the previous session. Jedda was unusually "grumpy" and evasive with having her halter put on beforehand though as well, I tried CAT with the halter, but CT worked best to settle her in the end. She also chased Pedro away from me while this was going on, just wanted to play clicks with me on her terms at liberty I think.   Do I just write this down to a bad hair day?  Someone said on 5Q that JRR said to "trust the organism"........Jed has always gone two steps forward and one back throughout all her training, KF Hemplfling calls it 'the confounded 4th day' of learning.......As an experiment I did about 5 minutes of CAT with her in the pen and me as decoy using the same approach run but with one hand slightly extended, and she was touching my hand nicely, but then walked to the far side of the pen and stood for some minutes *yawn* with her butt to me. Then she turned and quite briskly walked up and touched my hand again.
 
HI Laurel -
 
I have noticed that it is not a good idea to think in terms of good hair days or a grumpy mood etc- it does not matter the reason but the fact that she is giving the actions then you take care of them ala CAT (even those given to Kate) I would go back behind the threshold and start. Don't fall into the explaining trap now - remember that if you don't take heed of her yelling at you (in this case) you might be proving to her that there is something to worry about....
 
now if it was early on in your CAT trials and you saw her present as I have underlined...what would you say to explain this?

Julie Lannen
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http://www.equilog.com.au
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#131 From: Laurel Gordon <laurel.i.gordon@...>
Date: Tue Jun 30, 2009 9:10 pm
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs
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Hi Dolores,

 Thanks for that considered reply, I spent a lot of yesterday "thinking" about how to look at our 14th session in strictly CAT terms, and the extinction burst question did pop into my mind.

>>>When you see this as not engaged what you may actually be seeing is a
testing process. The horse doesn't really believe what has happened up until now.
She's likely as surprised by her feelings as you are.

So, she falls back to what worked previously to see what happens. Will the other
shoe drop. That's the time for you and your decoy to stay completely unemotional.
Just wait. If she gives distance, you've got to decide if leaving is better than ugly faces
From her history, I would say that it is.


  I rewatched the video I took, and I think you are correct. We did stay unemotional and we stuck with the process. The quality of her grazing was slightly jerky and quicker than normal. And oh yes, leaving is sooo much better than what she used to do! :-P  Kate remarked mid-session that it seemed to her Jedda was "thinking". Thank you for your reassurance, we will keep on keeping on for sure, I've given myself a mental kick up the rump for expecting too much too soon. The recent posts on 5Q have been great too.  A major query was whether to increase distance again, and what you say about leaving that distance "as is" makes a lot of sense in this situation.  What you are saying ? is that we have moved past that point, we are into helping Jedda to change her thinking and find new coping behaviours to offer, by continuing to be absolutely consistent without any pressure apart from Kate just standing there.


>>>Most of us would be inclined to click the hand touch. The touch of your hand is
not clickable. What it is rather is an invitation to play. So, offer her something
clickable next. And, that c/t can still be a touch. Very hard to wrap your
head around this. But, this distinction is very important. She came to you because you gave her
control. OK, she said. I'm ready. Now, you can do a c/t behavior.

    Yes, it is hard to grasp this stage.  I didn't click at any time, I was just giving distance.  Today as I drive around at work and shower old ladies I'll be thinking about this one! so, you are saying when it's me (with whom CT is a familiar activity), I can now bring in the clicks during CAT. I understand what you said "Don't click the hand touch" when during the CAT process she comes to touch me, but then you are saying I can now offer my hand to her as target and click it.  What do I do next? would this be the point at which I would let her out of the CAT yard and carry on with CT play? Say I decided to use the halter during CAT with her loose in the little yard as usual, I would approach, maybe extend my hand holding the halter a little, and wait. She has been CT to touch the halter. If she does this during CAT, what do I do next?  Recently she's been turning her head away from the halter even though she has freely approached "me carrying the halter" in a friendly way first. Have I just had an AHA! moment thinking CAT has given her the power to say, I'm not quite comfortable about that halter, even though with CT she's been accepting being haltered for some years?

 Thanks,
Laurel and Jedda.


#134 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Jun 30, 2009 10:07 pm
Subject: Re: Re: Ups and Downs
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Laurel,
Whoa girl :)

""Don't click the hand touch" when during the CAT process she comes to touch
me, but then you are saying I can now offer my hand to her as target and
click it. What do I do next? would this be the point at which I would let
her out of the CAT yard and carry on with CT play? Say I decided to use the
halter during CAT with her loose in the little yard as usual, I would
approach, maybe extend my hand holding the halter a little, and wait. She
has been CT to touch the halter. If she does this during CAT, what do I do
next? Recently she's been turning her head away from the halter even though
she has freely approached "me carrying the halter" in a friendly way first.
Have I just had an AHA! moment thinking CAT has given her the power to say,
I'm not quite comfortable about that halter, even though with CT she's been
accepting being haltered for some years?"

Jumping ahead to halter may be too big a jump. We don't need to use CAT for
every little thing. You are correct in saying
"CAT has given her the power to say, I'm not quite comfortable ". She can
now choose to take herself away instead of "stuffing" her emotions.

So here we go. She's engaged you in a CAT session. I'd offer her a simple
targeting exercise. Then, I'd leave. I'd come back in C/T mode with the
halter.
It would be a separate event. As with CAT, you looked for signs of
relaxation, now as you bring C/T into the mix, you'll be on the lookout for
signs of
stress.

You want to eliminate/subtract stress. The stress is not necessarally
connected to one event or item like the halter. It could be that the C/T
itself is
the stressor. So, as before when you approached and stopped before she
reacted, now as you posted in the clip from 5Q you'd stop training before
it deteriorated into being stressful. Leave her wanting more.


Dolores Arste
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www.zenhorsemanship.com
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#132 From: Laurel Gordon <laurel.i.gordon@...>
Date: Tue Jun 30, 2009 9:21 pm
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs
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Hi Julie,

 
>>>I have noticed that it is not a good idea to think in terms of good hair days or a grumpy mood etc- it does not matter the reason but the fact that she is giving the actions then you take care of them ala CAT (even those given to Kate) I would go back behind the threshold and start. Don't fall into the explaining trap now - remember that if you don't take heed of her yelling at you (in this case) you might be proving to her that there is something to worry about....
 
  Ah yes, I've just had a rueful laugh at myself, isn't that too funny, one less encouraging session and it's not only Jedda who fell back into old thinking patterns..... OOPS!!

Love,
Laurel ;-P
    

#139 From: "Conway, Julie E" <Julie.Conway@...>
Date: Mon Jul 6, 2009 4:50 pm
Subject: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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Hi Laurel,
 
It hurts us to the core when our fragile flowers turn their rumps on us!!!  Particularly when we think we've got the keys to the kingdom!!   You've made so much progress and she's able to tell you now.    You and Jedda deserve a huge group hug!!
 
Night before last, she actually approached me and without crowding me (as she would normally do which is sadly intimidating), she came towards me with a friendly face and stood before me.  No teeth clanging or tail swishing - she seemed comfortable.  First time in a very long time.
 
 
The above e-mail was written on Thursday and I have a much different story to report . . . . On Saturday, I went through a short CAT trial with Grace.  Everything seemed okay, . . . I guess.  Seemed like I kind of got the hang of CAT and she was responding with friendly behaviors.  Good stuff.  Then, I thought that she really wanted to C/T (we had done a whole year of C/T and there were aspects of it that I thought she enjoyed).  So after the CAT trial, I went in the barn, got my clicker and treats (I wanted it to appear very different from the CAT trial).  She likes headdown and I've rewarded her heavily, so I thought it was safe.  So that went well, then I decided that she might like to trot around me.  Why I would think that we could go from headdown to trot around me is beyond me.  My mind works in mysterious ways that are generally pretty stupid.  Well, uh, Grace didn't seem to like the idea and came after me rearing and striking and then when I started screaming and jumping up and down to get her away from me, she spinned and kicked out at me.  By this time, I had taken my hat off and thrown it at her and immediately left the building so-to-speak.  I went in the barn, sat on a hay bale and cried.  She whinnied for me several times and after I got myself together, shed my C/T stuff; I went out and talked to her and we are okay.   
 
My thoughts at this point are that we are in no way ready for C/T combined with CAT unless it is for very basic behaviors such as headdown or targeting. 
 
Back to the drawing board.
Julie & Grace 

#140 From: "Conway, Julie E" <Julie.Conway@...>
Date: Mon Jul 6, 2009 7:19 pm
Subject: RE: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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I'd like to rephrase a portion of my e-mail:  "came after me rearing and striking"  
I'm not quite sure what was happening, because my back was turned, but out of the corner of my eye, she was rearing, then I ran away from her.  I'm hoping that might make a difference in what I perceived was happening.  In essence though, she was not exactly practicing friendly behavior towards me. . . . very sad that she still feels that she needs to act like that.


From: Conway, Julie E
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Subject: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs

Hi Laurel,
 
It hurts us to the core when our fragile flowers turn their rumps on us!!!  Particularly when we think we've got the keys to the kingdom!!   You've made so much progress and she's able to tell you now.    You and Jedda deserve a huge group hug!!
 
Night before last, she actually approached me and without crowding me (as she would normally do which is sadly intimidating), she came towards me with a friendly face and stood before me.  No teeth clanging or tail swishing - she seemed comfortable.  First time in a very long time.
 
 
The above e-mail was written on Thursday and I have a much different story to report . . . . On Saturday, I went through a short CAT trial with Grace.  Everything seemed okay, . . . I guess.  Seemed like I kind of got the hang of CAT and she was responding with friendly behaviors.  Good stuff.  Then, I thought that she really wanted to C/T (we had done a whole year of C/T and there were aspects of it that I thought she enjoyed).  So after the CAT trial, I went in the barn, got my clicker and treats (I wanted it to appear very different from the CAT trial).  She likes headdown and I've rewarded her heavily, so I thought it was safe.  So that went well, then I decided that she might like to trot around me.  Why I would think that we could go from headdown to trot around me is beyond me.  My mind works in mysterious ways that are generally pretty stupid.  Well, uh, Grace didn't seem to like the idea and came after me rearing and striking and then when I started screaming and jumping up and down to get her away from me, she spinned and kicked out at me.  By this time, I had taken my hat off and thrown it at her and immediately left the building so-to-speak.  I went in the barn, sat on a hay bale and cried.  She whinnied for me several times and after I got myself together, shed my C/T stuff; I went out and talked to her and we are okay.   
 
My thoughts at this point are that we are in no way ready for C/T combined with CAT unless it is for very basic behaviors such as headdown or targeting. 
 
Back to the drawing board.
Julie & Grace 

#141 From: Laurel Gordon <laurel.i.gordon@...>
Date: Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:10 pm
Subject: RE: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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Julie!!

   Keep yourself safe!! As one who has experienced all the downs as well as the soaring ups these girls send our way, I too have sat and cried, I must confess for several days after the last time Jedda kicked out at me and knocked me off my feet. Guess what I was doing with her..... I had her trotting round me at liberty, I was feeling like Klaus Hempfling and Alexander Nevzorov all rolled into one, Jedda was feeling something else quite different!. Up the energy and you up the emotion, especially if it's an activity they could see as pointless and disrespectful.  This was 18 months ago.

  It sounds as if Grace was responding to the CAT, then the rules changed, and what Jedda is really liking about CAT is the consistency of it. I've taken on board what Dolores is saying about only going to CT when the horse asks for it, and we haven't reached that point with Jedda and other people by a country mile yet. With me she does, but we have a 4 year history behind us and some good stuff attached.  Yesterday I thought "Oh, I'll try and run about like Imke Spilker does", guess what again, Jedda was not impressed, it wasn't "play" for her, why did I think she could handle it? she doesn't know how to play even with the other horses, so she went right on the defensive. Not kicking or anything, just the expression on her face was enough!

   The main message I got from that kick 18 months ago, was not to take it personally, just think about what happened from Grace's point of view and use it.  Most of all, Stay Safe!! you have a date in Saratoga soon remember :-D

BIG HUG!!
Love,
Laurel and Jedda.

#143 From: "Conway, Julie E" <Julie.Conway@...>
Date: Mon Jul 6, 2009 10:56 pm
Subject: RE: RE: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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Laurel,
Guess what I was doing with her..... I had her trotting round me at liberty, I was feeling like Klaus Hempfling and Alexander Nevzorov all rolled into one, Jedda was feeling something else quite different!. Up the energy and you up the emotion, especially if it's an activity they could see as pointless and disrespectful.  This was 18 months ago.
This totally has me laughing.   What in the world was I thinking????  Yup, I could see Grace and I dancing in the moonlight. . . .  Tells you how much I can *read* her. 
 
Thankfully, Grace didn't hurt me this time and hasn't in the past, but she sure can get awfully doggone close!!!!  YIKES!!!  Safety is always my concern. . . I dunno, she hasn't done that sort of stuff in over a year.  
Thank you again, Laurel, for being there for us.  Good Golly, this is a tough business emotionally.  I don't have much of an ego left after Grace has basically torn it to shreds and stomped on it. 
Yesterday I thought "Oh, I'll try and run about like Imke Spilker does", guess what again, Jedda was not impressed, it wasn't "play" for her, why did I think she could handle it? she doesn't know how to play even with the other horses, so she went right on the defensive. Not kicking or anything, just the expression on her face was enough!
You really make me laugh. . .I wanna run about like Imke Spilker too and Alexander Nevzorov. . . maybe if I ever get the urge again, I'll go play with Katie.  She loves to dance. . . I just always feel like Grace doesn't get to do the good stuff with me and it makes me very sad.  
 
But, we're working on it and we'll get there and it's all in the journey.. . sigh. . . .
With much love,
Julie & Grace
 

#144 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Jul 7, 2009 2:54 am
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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I know it's hard. But, try to remember that C/T is pressure too. The
pressure to succeed sometimes that the horse puts on itself until the steam
vent blows.

For Grace, what's rewarding that isn't pressure. Think in those terms. So
far, we have taking off all pressure as in giving distance or one can think
of it as space.

In retrospect which is usually where we find the 20/20, do you thing she had
begun to bottle up at the point of headlowering? Really take a look at that
moment. And, even try it again. Just the headlowering part.

See if you don't see some bottleing up of emotion. Now, take a look at it
from the CAT perspective of allowing therelease of the emotional pressure.

Tell us more about the CAT event and the headlowering event. During the head
lowering, did you see any tension in any part of her body. And, this may
seem like a silly question. But, was she cheerful? If you think yes,
describe it in physical terms. What did you see.

Dolores




#155 From: "Conway, Julie E" <Julie.Conway@...>
Date: Tue Jul 7, 2009 6:30 pm
Subject: RE: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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Hi Dolores,
"In retrospect which is usually where we find the 20/20, do you thing she had
begun to bottle up at the point of headlowering?
 
That's a yes on this.  The thing that I can't seem to wrap my mind around is that when she offers headlowering, she throws her head down and I feel like I need to reward her.  It's not a nice relaxed gesture.  I'll try to get video of it because I think there is a lot more there than what I'm seeing (thanks Julie L.).  I do have video of when the kids pet Grace and I had asked her to do a few behaviors and she essentially got up and left.  Her head down is very abrupt and immediately her head comes up again.  We managed to get some duration but it doesn't appear to help to calm her at all.  In fact, in retrospect, headdown has never helped to calm her, it is just a behavior that she offers because she gets rewarded for it.  I think it physically might help her because of the nice stretch it allows, but she doesn't seem calmed by the behavior.

Tell us more about the CAT event and the headlowering event. During the head
lowering, did you see any tension in any part of her body. And, this may
seem like a silly question. But, was she cheerful? If you think yes,
describe it in physical terms. What did you see.
The CAT event was really nice.  I set up our start point well below threshold and got within 10 feet of her (in small increments) before I saw what I believe to be her threshold.  I backed up and worked on proximities of her threshold and got some very nice friendly/curious behaviors.  I quit once I observed that she was comfortable within the threshold.  She seemed surprised that I didn't pressure her past this threshold.  She was quite happy; that is, she was standing with her head in a relaxed position and ears forward, eyes soft.  After doing some thinking on this, it was MY idea to try some C/T.  I thought she enjoyed C/T. . . so, in all honesty, she didn't really offer headdown until I came out with my clicker and treatbag.  She didn't invite me, I invited her and she did then offer HD, but it was with the same abruptness that she usually does and often with teeth clanging although I thought that this time she didn't clang her teeth.  Rather like she wasn't sure what we were doing and not what I would call cheerful, just no teeth clanging.  At least I have a good indicator of tension before something else erupts that is unless we surpass the warning. 
 
Thanks everyone,
Julie & Grace
 
 

#156 From: "Dolores Arste" <darste3@...>
Date: Tue Jul 7, 2009 7:50 pm
Subject: Re: Ups and Downs. . mostly downs
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>>That's a yes on this. The thing that I can't seem to wrap my mind around
>>is that when she offers headlowering, she throws her head down and I feel
>>like I need to reward her. It's not a nice relaxed gesture. I'll try to
>>get video of it because I think there is a lot more there than what I'm
>>seeing (thanks Julie L.). <<
Two things stand out. One she did not offer head lowering during CAT and
second that she threw her head down. It's almost a panic response. I'll put
human words around it.
"If I do this, she'll leave me alone"

Since this is something she knows how to do, I expect that you will begin to
see it offered as you proceed with CAT. However, do not expect it or look
for it. That would be shaping head down. We want to shape anything that is
relaxing for her and right now that is not head down.

So, go ahead and push the threshold a little at a time. Be sure to leave in
that 10 to 15 second wait time before proceeding forward after you leave. It
was a nice change that her teeth didn't clang during head down. I'd be very
happy with that. Next time quit on that note.

It was ok that you offered her c/t. As long as she doesn't feel pressure
from it. Now, you know how to recognize it. By you offering she'll begin to
see the connection and take some of the pressure off of her self. Just be
careful.

Warmly,
Dolores




 
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