Here is something to learn:
Dont ever be friends with boss. Just be polite,
and do your work he assigns you and plan your
own future (learn at the job, and plan that
you can afterwards get even more pay sometime
later because of advanced qualifications).
If you become FRIENDLY with boss, then the
boss is gonna respond, but one day he is
going to think YOU STOLE TIME FROM HIM, and
you stole his MONEY !!
Another thing to consider: in this society
you cannot go anywhere if you dont know RICH
people. And they judge you in 3 seconds by
your dress and shoes and how you carry yourself.
Once they accept you, you start getting money.
Once you start getting some money, you are
given even MORE money. So be scared and plan
only for the first 3 seconds of the meeting.
If you do someone a FAVOR, and you really
took care of his wellness, dont expect much
in return. Because if he doesnt like you, he
will just cancel out your favor anyway. He has
to subconsciously like you first.
The ordinary society is very much like this
and they are faster than martial arts people,
who become slow because of ponderous study
in which they involve themselves.