I'm Martha. I am in the middle of reading The Law of Attraction
(the Hicks version). I like it a lot, I'm getting it, and I am
trying like heck to absorb more of it.
Have read the Dyer books, and have tried to absorb them also.
I seem to have issues with this: Not being able to let others be
what they are. Especially my hubby.
What do you do when one day everything is hunky dorey, and the next,
things seem to blow up? Like, I'm trying to just be myself, stop
trying to get a certain response out of him. I used to try really
hard to make sure I said everything just right, and then he'd still
get really defensive or grumpy. Then I feel like it's my fault.
Well, I'm trying REALLY hard to get past that.
I got up this morning really annoyed. Something happened last nite,
i said what are we going to do about that??? And hubby just got
tight lipped, tight jawed, and was grumpy and went to bed that way.
I wrote in my gratitude journal, and I saw that I was doing a lot
of "I don't want" and immediately decided to turn that around
to "Today I'm gonig to be productive, and be positive and get all
these things done" (I tend to shut down and get burried in the
computer or a book or tv and over-eat when I'm upset - I've dropped
30 lbs and am working on another 40 and sure don't want to go
backward!).

I know the answers - I've been reading them. Wondering if anyone
else goes thru this or if you have any little mantras or ideas that
you can share to turn things around in your head?

Sharing the Joy
Martha