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Re: think happy thoughts!!

Thanks. Honestly, I think the last week has shown how different
people can take being told the same thing. When bad news is given,
like a cutdown, being hurt is inevitable. Some people use the hurt to
fuel anger. One girl who was cut last week was like that. Hopefully
she's past that by now and doesn't let the anger eat away at her.
Others put it aside and move on in acceptance...a reaction I may have
seen last week (or it could be that this girl just held it in very
well). And of course there's those that remain hurt for a time. Some
of them take longer than others to heal and it's truly a shame. If it
were manageable, every girl that's deserving would make the squad
each year. But there isn't a minimum score or anything that everyone
must achieve. It's a numbers game. While the number of cheerleaders
fluctuates slightly from year to year, they aren't going to carry 60-
70 girls on the roster. It would be impossible to coordinate that
many girls at once. Things got busy enough that they had to add
another management position to help deal with 40 girls as it was.
So I don't think it's a case where girls that got cut didn't deserve
to be on the roster...it's more a case where they got beat out for a
limited number of spots and the sad truth of the matter is that
people will get hurt, they will miss out on a final roster spot if
someone edges them out.--- In
buffalojills@yahoogroups.com, "hello8692000" <Ssp279@...> wrote:
>
> firstly, my hat's off to you, phil. your last couple of posts have
> been very well said and informative. and i agree, there has been
way
> too much negativety on here lately. this is a very trying time for
the
> jills, not just for the ones who got cut, but also for those who
make
> it and have to see her friend who didn't. there have been a couple
> that have been cut that really surprised me, and that i really
wanted
> to see back, but i refuse to complain about it. why? because
eventho
> the won't be cheering next season, i will always remember them for
this
> past season. the road may be over, but what a road its been. i
ask
> any of the girls who have been cut that may be reading this to
please
> not dwell on these auditions, but rather on the fun times of the
past
> season, and remember, even if it was only 1 season.....you were
> there!! most of the women in america can't honestly say that. And
for
> those still going thru the interview process......stay strong, stay
> focused, and keep your eye on the goal.
>
> GO JILLS!!!
> AGJF
>








Sat Apr 1, 2006 10:25 pm

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firstly, my hat's off to you, phil. your last couple of posts have been very well said and informative. and i agree, there has been way too much negativety...
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Thanks. Honestly, I think the last week has shown how different people can take being told the same thing. When bad news is given, like a cutdown, being hurt...
Phil
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